In this episode, I introduce the Four Karmas—pacifying, enriching, magnetizing, and destroying—as practical actions for meeting chaos, conflict, and confusion without losing clarity or heart. In this Buddhist framework, karma means action, not fate. These are not strategies for getting your way, but ways to protect the mind, deepen compassion, and interrupt ignorance in real time.

I also explore the “ Māras ,” the obstacles that can distort each karma, and why wisdom sometimes needs to be gentle—and sometimes fierce. Drawing on the story of the Buddha under the Bodhi tree, I reflect on how distraction, shame, and aggression show up in our own lives, and how these four actions help us meet them skillfully.

Highlights

• Karma as action, not reward or punishment
• The Four Karmas as tools for clarity and compassion
• How wisdom can be peaceful or wrathful
• Knowing when to add, wait, attract, or let go
  
  

The Four Karmas (Briefly)

• Pacifying: Settling down to see clearly, often through deep listening rather than fixing.
   Obstacle: Spiritual bypassing.
• Enriching: Adding what genuinely increases vitality and connection, based on what’s actually needed.
   Obstacle: Accumulating without applying.
• Magnetizing: Receptivity—allowing insight, creativity, and help to come toward you.
   Obstacle: Emotional reactivity that obscures perception.
• Destroying: Ending or pruning what no longer serves, without aggression.
   Obstacle: Total shutdown instead of skillful cutting.
  
  

Closing Music

I end the episode with “Waloyo Yamoni (We Overcome the Wind)” by Christopher Tin—a piece that feels vast, direct, and deeply human.

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