You think you’ve made peace with your past—until the world decides to turn it into a headline. In this A Fresh Story: Book Talk conversation, Olivia sits down with author Melissa Petro, whose life was forever altered when the New York Post splashed her face across the front page, reducing her to a caricature of “dirty hooker teacher.” What the paper didn’t capture was the human being behind the story: a young woman who once took a stripping job in Mexico to pay her bills, a recovering addict, a public school teacher, and eventually a stay-at-home mom trying to do her best in a world that seems determined to shame women no matter what they choose.

Melissa’s book, Shame on You: How to Be a Woman in the Age of Mortification, weaves her own memoir with the stories of more than 150 others, mostly women, to examine shame as the quiet force shaping our lives. She unpacks how shame shows up in big, dramatic moments—like public humiliation, sex work stigma, or career loss—and in the small, everyday ways we “mess up” as mothers, partners, or professionals. Melissa and Olivia talk about how shame keeps us small, makes us hide parts of ourselves, and convinces us that belonging is something we have to earn by being “good enough.” The book becomes both confession and mirror: a self-help guide wrapped in raw, unflinching storytelling.

Throughout the episode, Melissa shares how she moved from secrecy and self-censorship to curiosity, honesty, and community. She explains how telling the truth about her past—and listening to the stories of others—helped her reclaim a narrative that once felt weaponized against her. For anyone who has ever felt judged, exposed, divorced, “too much,” “not enough,” or quietly ashamed of the life they’ve lived, Shame on You offers a path toward self-acceptance that doesn’t require perfection. It’s a book for people in the messy middle of a life transition who suspect that their shame isn’t proof of their brokenness, but evidence of the impossible standards they’ve been living under—and who are finally ready to rewrite the story.

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