FULFILLMENT THERAPY - Marriage & Family Therapy, Self Mastery, Self Actualization, Unmet Needs, LDS Parent, Family Connection

FULFILLMENT THERAPY - Marriage & Family Therapy, Self Mastery, Self Actualization, Unmet Needs, LDS Parent, Family Connection

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FULFILLMENT THERAPY - Marriage & Family Therapy, Self Mastery, Self Actualization, Unmet Needs, LDS Parent, Family Connection episodes

  • 229 | How Do I Help My Angry, Defiant Child?

    Show Notes:

    In this episode, we address the challenges of parenting a defiant child and offer practical strategies for managing difficult behavior. We explore the importance of empowering children through choices, validating emotions, and setting clear boundaries. Expert insights on family dynamics and maintaining balance are shared, along with book recommendations for further support. You will gain valuable tools to create a more loving family environment and help your child develop better emotional regulation skills.

    Enjoy!

    -Kendra

     

    ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy 

    Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org

    Contact → [email protected] 

    Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy 

    Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy 

    Facebook Group → Private FB Group

    YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos 

    Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching 

    Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests

     

    Books:

    1. "Parenting the Strong-Willed Child" by Rex Forehand and Nicholas Long
    2. "The Explosive Child" by Ross W. Greene
    3. "Setting Limits with Your Strong-Willed Child" by Robert J. Mackenzie
    4. "Overcoming Parental Anxiety" by Debra Kissen
    5. "The Gift of a Happy Mother: Letting Go of Perfection and Embracing Everyday Joy" by Rebecca Eanes
    6. "How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk" by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish
    7. Quotes:

      Dr. Ross Greene, clinical child psychologist, states: "The kids who need love the most will ask for it in the most unloving ways."

      Dr. Daniel Siegel, clinical professor of psychiatry, advises: "The goal isn't to win the argument or prove you're right. The goal is to connect and solve problems together."

      John Gottman emphasizes: "The greatest gift you can give your child is a strong relationship between you and your partner."

       

       

      19 min
    8. 228 | Breaking Free: Overcoming Codependency in Your Marriage

      Show Notes:

      In this episode, we explore codependency in marriage and its impact on family life. We discuss common signs of codependency, including excessive caretaking, difficulty setting boundaries, and fear of abandonment. This episode offers practical strategies for breaking codependent patterns, such as developing self-awareness, setting healthy boundaries, and prioritizing self-care!

      Enjoy!

      -Kendra

       

      ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy 

      Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org

      Contact → [email protected] 

      Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy 

      Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy 

      Facebook Group → Private FB Group

      YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos 

      Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching 

      Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests

      Quotes:

      Dr. Sheri Jacobson, a psychotherapist, emphasizes: "Recovery from codependency involves learning to love yourself first, which then allows for healthier relationships with others."

       

      14 min
    9. 227 | Escaping the Family Drama Triangle: Breaking Free from Toxic Roles

      Show Notes:

      In this episode, we explore the Drama Triangle, a powerful model that explains dysfunctional family dynamics. We discuss how parents and children often fall into roles of Victim, Persecutor, and Rescuer, creating cycles of conflict and stress. Learn practical strategies to break free from these patterns and shift towards more empowering roles that foster growth, connection, and well-being. Discover how understanding and applying these concepts can lead to a more loving and fulfilling family life.

      Enjoy!

      -Kendra

       

      ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy 

      Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org

      Contact → [email protected] 

      Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy 

      Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy 

      Facebook Group → Private FB Group

      YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos 

      Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching 

      Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests

       

      Understanding the Drama Triangle

      The Drama Triangle, developed by Dr. Stephen Karpman, is a social model that describes three habitual roles people play in stressful or conflict situations1. These roles are:

      1. The Victim: Feels powerless and at the mercy of circumstances
      2. The Persecutor (or Villain): Blames and criticizes others
      3. The Rescuer (or Hero): Swoops in to save the day, often enabling the victim

      4. Quotes:

        "The Drama Triangle is a model of dysfunctional social interaction. Each player in the triangle has their own beliefs and behaviors that reinforce the problem rather than resolve it." - Dr. Stephen Karpman

        "The Empowerment Dynamic offers an antidote to the Drama Triangle. It's about moving from a reactive stance to a creative orientation." - David Emerald

        "The quality of our lives depends not on whether or not we have conflicts, but on how we respond to them." - Thomas Crum

         

        15 min
      5. 226 | Beyond Appearances: Using Style to Boost Confidence & Mental Wellness in Parenthood, with Heather Riggs

        Show Notes:

        In this eye-opening episode, we explore the powerful connection between personal style and confidence with Heather Riggs. From quick style hacks that can transform your day to building a signature look that commands respect in professional settings, we'll uncover how your wardrobe choices can significantly impact your mental wellness and family dynamics. Whether you're a busy mom or dad feeling stuck in a style rut or simply looking to boost your confidence, join us to help you look and feel your best while navigating the challenges of parenthood.

        Enjoy!

        -Kendra

         

        ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy 

        Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org

        Contact → [email protected] 

        Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy 

        Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy 

        Facebook Group → Private FB Group

        YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos 

        Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching 

        Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests

         

        Heather Riggs:

        HER Style Podcast

        IG - https://www.instagram.com/heatherriggsstyle/

        FB - https://herstylellc.com/community

        Free Personal Style Quiz - https://herstylellc.com/quiz

        40 min
      6. 225 | Encouraging Follow-Through with Your Spouse & Kids WITHOUT Being a Nag

        Show Notes:

        In this episode, we explore strategies for encouraging follow-through in family life without resorting to nagging. Learn how to use assertive communication techniques, set clear expectations, and empower family members through choices and collaboration. Discover the impact of letting go of perfection and focusing on what truly matters in building cooperative relationships!


        Enjoy!

        -Kendra

         

        ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy 

        Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org

        Contact → [email protected] 

        Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy 

        Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy 

        Facebook Group → Private FB Group

        YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos 

        Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching 

        Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests

         

        Quotes:

        Brené Brown, research professor and author, reminds us: "Imperfections are not inadequacies; they are reminders that we're all in this together."

        Dr. Robert Alberti, psychologist and author, states: "Assertiveness is not what you do, it's who you are!"

         

        17 min
      7. 224 | Beyond the Screens: Cultivating a Fulfilling Family Summer

        Show Notes:

        In this episode of Fulfillment Therapy, Kendra Nielson explores strategies for creating a meaningful and connected summer for both parents and children. She shares practical tips for being more present, limiting screen time, and fostering family bonds through creative activities and traditions. Kendra also discusses the importance of balancing structure with spontaneity and provides ideas for nurturing individual growth within the family context. Listeners will come away with actionable steps to transform their summer into a season of personal wellness and family fulfillment.

        Enjoy!

        -Kendra

         

        ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy 

        Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org

        Contact → [email protected] 

        Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy 

        Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy 

        Facebook Group → Private FB Group

        YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos 

        Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching 

        Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests

         

        Quotes:

        Thich Nhat Hanh once said, "The present moment is filled with joy and happiness. If you are attentive, you will see it."

        As Anne Lamott wisely put it, "Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you."

         

        18 min
      8. 223 | Emotional Intelligence at Home: Building Stronger Bonds with Your Spouse and Kids

        Show Notes:

        In this episode, we explore the crucial role of interpersonal intelligence in family dynamics. Learn how to recognize the right moments to address issues with your spouse and children, and discover practical strategies for improving family communication. From active listening techniques to the power of empathy, this episode provides valuable insights to help you create stronger, more fulfilling relationships within your family.

        Enjoy!

        -Kendra

         

        ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy 

        Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org

        Contact → [email protected] 

        Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy 

        Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy 

        Facebook Group → Private FB Group

        YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos 

        Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching 

        Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests

         

        Quotes:

         Stephen Covey: "Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply."

        As Maya Angelou wisely said, "I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."

        Daniel Goleman, a pioneer in emotional intelligence research, states, "If your emotional abilities aren't in hand, if you don't have self-awareness, if you are not able to manage your distressing emotions, if you can't have empathy and have effective relationships, then no matter how smart you are, you are not going to get very far."

        18 min
      9. 223 | Emotional Intelligence at Home: Building Stronger Bonds with Your Spouse and Kids

        Show Notes:

        In this episode, we explore the crucial role of interpersonal intelligence in family dynamics. Learn how to recognize the right moments to address issues with your spouse and children, and discover practical strategies for improving family communication. From active listening techniques to the power of empathy, this episode provides valuable insights to help you create stronger, more fulfilling relationships within your family.

        Enjoy!

        -Kendra

         

        ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy 

        Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org

        Contact → [email protected] 

        Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy 

        Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy 

        Facebook Group → Private FB Group

        YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos 

        Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching 

        Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests

         

        Quotes:

         Stephen Covey: "Most people do not listen with the intent to understand; they listen with the intent to reply."

        As Maya Angelou wisely said, "I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."

        Daniel Goleman, a pioneer in emotional intelligence research, states, "If your emotional abilities aren't in hand, if you don't have self-awareness, if you are not able to manage your distressing emotions, if you can't have empathy and have effective relationships, then no matter how smart you are, you are not going to get very far."

        18 min
      10. 224 | Beyond the Screens: Cultivating a Fulfilling Family Summer

        Show Notes:

        In this episode of Fulfillment Therapy, Kendra Nielson explores strategies for creating a meaningful and connected summer for both parents and children. She shares practical tips for being more present, limiting screen time, and fostering family bonds through creative activities and traditions. Kendra also discusses the importance of balancing structure with spontaneity and provides ideas for nurturing individual growth within the family context. Listeners will come away with actionable steps to transform their summer into a season of personal wellness and family fulfillment.

        Enjoy!

        -Kendra

         

        ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy 

        Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org

        Contact → [email protected] 

        Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy 

        Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy 

        Facebook Group → Private FB Group

        YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos 

        Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching 

        Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests

         

        Quotes:

        Thich Nhat Hanh once said, "The present moment is filled with joy and happiness. If you are attentive, you will see it."

        As Anne Lamott wisely put it, "Almost everything will work again if you unplug it for a few minutes, including you."

         

        18 min
      11. 222 | Breaking Free from Perfectionism: A Parent's Guide to Progress, with Monica Packer

        Show Notes:

        In this enlightening episode, we explore the impact of perfectionism on parenting and personal growth. Our guest, Monica Packer, shares her journey from perfectionist to progress-maker, offering valuable insights on embracing imperfection and finding fulfillment in the parenting journey. Learn practical strategies for overcoming perfectionist tendencies, fostering strength in yourself and your children, and cultivating a growth mindset that leads to lasting positive change.

        Enjoy!

        -Kendra

         

        ALL LINKS → https://linktr.ee/fulfillmenttherapy 

        Website → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org

        Contact → [email protected] 

        Instagram → @fulfillmenttherapy 

        Facebook Community → http://bit.ly/fulfillmenttherapy 

        Facebook Group → Private FB Group

        YouTube → Podcast Episode Videos 

        Schedule 1:1 Coaching → https://fulfillmenttherapy.org/1-on-1-coaching 

        Chat → 1-986-910-5172 *text questions & topic requests

         

        Monica Packer’s Links:

        www.aboutprogress.com

        29 min

      About FULFILLMENT THERAPY - Marriage & Family Therapy, Self Mastery, Self Actualization, Unmet Needs, LDS Parent, Family Connection

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      Welcome to Fulfillment Therapy. I’m Kendra Nielson—wife, mom, licensed therapist, and someone who’s been right where you are. If you’re doing everything “right” but still feel exhausted, overwhelmed, and empty inside, know you’re not alone. Maybe you thought life, marriage, and parenting would be simpler or more rewarding by now, yet some days all you want to do is hide under the covers, scroll and series binge endlessly, or reach for comfort food instead of facing the stress and chaos at home. I get it—I’ve been there.

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