Gentlemen’ s Guide to Excellence

Respect.  Genuine respect.  Today I want to talk about how key, how crucial, paying respect is to success in your process of meeting and connecting with great women.  I mean showing respect to the lady.  I mean showing respect to her family and friends.  

Handling Conflict.  Conflicts, disagreements and disputes are part of life, and always will be, no matter who you are, how much money you have, or what you situation is in life.  How to best handle conflict, anger, and disagreement using key principles from the book is what we dig into in this week’s episode.

Men: Should you or should you not get married?  Is someone trying to pressure you into marriage now?  I talk a lot about a man’s various responsibilities in life in the book and on this podcast because a major part of my thesis is that is vital to success in many areas, including success with women.  But where does marriage fit into that philosophy?  We will take a thorough look at this crucial subject, something that you are very likely to encounter at some point in your life, in this week’s episode. 

In this episode I want to talk about dating safety - specifically for men.  There is plenty of information and advice available online and elsewhere about safety concerns for women, and rightfully so.    Guys need to be careful out there as well.  Men can be robbed, or cheated, or harmed.  We’ll cover all of the basics, plus some other things that aren’t so well known that can cause you real problems.

Are you ever proud of yourself when think back on a time when you have acted like an asshole at work, or in your personal life, with your family or a friend, or in your community?  No, right?  If you are a good person, which is what you certainly are if you feel drawn to this podcast, the book, and continue to listen to me, that answer is always no.  In this episode we are going to dig into what is unfortunately a very common problem, toxic online behavior by some men directed toward women on dating websites and in dating apps.  

Monogamy.  Or not?  Is monogamy the way to go, your goal, or not?   Is it ok to cheat, or is it not?  We get into this thorny and complicated question in this week’s episode.

How do you ask for sex?  Whether you are just dating someone, or its a lady friend that you are interested in, or you are in a relationship but not getting enough sex, how do you ask for it?  How do gentlemen bring the subject of sex up in a nice way, one that isn’t rude, a turn off,  or a way that makes you look bad. 

From men jumping at the first pretty face to dealing with women who want to be in your wife's or girlfriend's place in your life, we have you covered in this week's episode about dealing with various common Traps and Pitfalls of dating success.

If you are continuously improving yourself like we call for and describe in the book, if you are always improving as a man every day, win after win, small step after small step, one goal achieved after another, then a lot of positive things start happening more often and on a more consistent basis for you.  You have better relationships at work, in business, in your personal life, and of course, with women. Interviews start going our way.  Job promotions start happening more often.  You are closing more sales.  You're getting more customers and clients.  There is prosperity and success all around!

Background: Book's website: Gentlemen's Guide to Flirting (due for release on Amazon.com in January 2021 - https://gentlemensguidetoflirting.com/

Let your confidence soar whether you are naked or clothed!

In this episode we talk about men’s grooming secrets. Some things may be obvious and second nature to you, and some may be quite unfamiliar. But all of them will help you walk around with the right amount of confidence as you are out there meeting ladies, and otherwise going about your daily life. We’ll go over everything as per usual, to be as thorough as possible. If you think you are too fat, too short, too bald, too whatever, we are going to talk about how to think about all of that as well.