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Ever been carrying debt (or a money mess) your spouse doesn’t know about… and you can feel the secret eating you alive?
In this episode, Steve Rhode (the old, original Get Out of Debt Guy) and Damon Day (the new Get Out of Debt Guy) lay out a practical roadmap for the hardest conversation most couples will ever have: telling your partner the truth about your debt—without turning it into a relationship-ending explosion.
You’ll learn:
When NOT to do it (hint: not during a fight… and definitely not at the grocery store)
How to open the conversation with responsibility instead of excuses
Why you need to show up with a plan, not a dumpster fire
What to say when they’re hurt, angry, or ice-cold for a while
How to turn this from “your secret problem” into a shared solution
Steve also calls out a sneaky modern trap: “Forbes-style” articles-that-are-really-ads pushing debt relief companies—why they look legit, why they fool smart people, and how to spot the marketing game.
If this episode hits a little too close to home, don’t wait. The longer the secret lives, the bigger the blast radius.
Get help and resources at https://getoutofdebt.org
Book a free call with Damon at https://damonday.com
If you’ve run the numbers, know your options, and still haven’t taken action… this episode is for you.
Steve Rhode (the old, original Get Out of Debt Guy) and Damon Day (the new Get Out of Debt Guy) get brutally honest about the real reason people stay stuck in debt: fear and shame—not math, not money, not even the solutions.
You’ll hear why so much credit card debt comes from essentials, why people only act once the “bucket of chaos” hits the fan, and why protecting a credit score can quietly cost you years (and a lot of money). They also break down what to do about collection calls, the truth about debt settlement vs. doing nothing, and why having a plan changes everything—especially if your spouse doesn’t know the full story yet.
✅ Your assignment at the end: identify the real fear keeping you up at night—and start taking its power away.
Explore free tools and subscribe to the newsletter at https://getoutofdebt.org
Reach Damon directly for a free strategy call at https://damonday.com
January resolutions are cute. February is where the real work starts.
In this episode of The Get Out of Debt Guy, Steve Rhode (the old, original Get Out of Debt Guy) and Damon Day(the new Get Out of Debt Guy) talk about how to restart your debt plan on February 5th—without guilt, shame, or fake “perfect budget” nonsense.
They break down why people stall (hint: it’s emotion, not math) and why financial literacy classes don’t fix debt behavior unless you understand your money personality and how your subconscious drives spending decisions.
Then they pivot to the ugly reality: scams are everywhere—IRS and “TurboTax” tax scams, Amazon-style texts, gift card scams, crypto scams, and even debt consolidation traps that leave you deeper in debt. With consumer protections weakening, the message is simple: nobody is coming to save you—so you have to become your own financial watchdog.
How to restart your debt plan in February (even if January slipped away)
Why tracking spending beats “making a budget”
The #1 mistake behind debt consolidation loans (cash flow vs. debt balance)
How scammers pressure smart people into fast decisions (and why it works)
A practical “one action this week” challenge to build momentum
Tools mentioned on GetOutOfDebt.org
Money Personality Test
Contract Decoder (to translate confusing financial terms)
Scam-o-meter (to help spot red flags)
Get weekly updates and scam alerts: https://getoutofdebt.org
Reach Damon for a free consultation: https://damonday.com
If you’ve been stuck, overwhelmed, or quietly panicking… this episode is your reset. February counts. Motion creates momentum—and momentum creates change.
What really happens when you stop juggling bills and start taking control? In this episode, Steve Rhode and Damon Day go a little off-script (in the best way) and pull back the curtain on what’s happening right now in the debt world—and what you should watch out for before you sign anything.
We dig into:
Why debt collection lawsuits are climbing—and how collectors use the court system to flip the power dynamic fast
The real danger of ignoring a lawsuit (default judgments, wage garnishments, bank levies… the whole mess)
Student loan forgiveness confusion heading into 2026—and how taxes can turn “forgiveness” into a surprise bill
The ugly truth behind debt settlement “legal protection” promises (and who gets hurt the most)
A military-base credit card problem that can snowball fast because the “creditor” has extra powers
Plus: GM/OnStar data sharing and why your insurance hikes might not be random
If you want the latest consumer debt news and Steve’s weekday updates, subscribe at https://getoutofdebt.org.
If you need to talk through your personal situation (even if you’ve already been sued or have a judgment), reach Damon at https://damonday.com.
And if you’ve ever wondered whether you’re being sold a “debt solution” or a sales pitch, Steve’s tools (like the Contract Decoder and the Scam-o-Meter) live on https://getoutofdebt.org.
If you’re making good money and still drowning in debt, this episode is for you.
Steve Rhode (the old, original Get Out of Debt Guy) and Damon Day (the new Get Out of Debt Guy) flip the script on the shame that high earners carry. Because your salary isn’t why you’re stuck — it’s the reason you can get out faster than you think.
We dig into what’s driving debt right now (hint: it’s not “overspending” for most people), why minimum payments keep even high earners trapped, and why “I’ll deal with it next month” turns into years of treadmill living. Then we get practical: what options actually exist when you make too much for a clean Chapter 7, how debt settlement can work if you have a real plan, and why the goal isn’t a magic trick — it’s a strategy that resolves the entire situation.
You’ll also hear what’s happening with student loans, why creditors seem more aggressive lately, and how to stop letting fear of credit damage or lifestyle disruption keep you frozen.
This week’s exercise: add up what you’re spending on minimum payments every month. That number is your leverage — the money that could fund your escape.
Learn more at https://getoutofdebt.org
Reach Damon at https://damonday.com
How many times have you heard it: “Just pay more than the minimum and you’ll be fine.” Sure—if you’ve got a small balance. But if you’re sitting on $80,000+ in credit card debt, that advice can turn into a slow-motion financial disaster.
In this episode, Steve Rhode (the original Get Out of Debt Guy) and Damon Day break down the minimum payment trap with real numbers—how “doing the responsible thing” can still mean decades of payments, massive interest, and the kind of burnout that makes people quit right before progress shows up. We also dig into the high-income trap: when you can afford the payments, but they quietly destroy your future by stealing your cash flow, your investing years, and your peace of mind.
You’ll hear why conventional advice (beans, rice, and brute-force willpower) often collapses in real life… and why the smarter move is choosing the right tool for the job—whether that’s a better payoff strategy, a negotiated plan, or (yes) understanding when bankruptcy is a realistic option instead of a scary myth.
Want to keep up with the latest debt news Steve’s covering during the week? Subscribe at https://getoutofdebt.org.
Need a real plan for your specific situation? Damon offers a free conversation—reach him at https://damonday.com.
Next episode: we flip the script and show you why your income is your biggest asset in getting out of debt—and how to use it the right way.
New year, new you… and one number you’ve been dodging for way too long.
In this episode, Steve Rhode (the old/original Get Out of Debt Guy) and Damon Day (the new Get Out of Debt Guy) walk you through the most important (and honestly, toughest) first step in getting out of debt: finding your real numbers—how much you owe, and how much cash you’re bleeding every month just to keep the debt treadmill moving.
No guilt. No shame. Just facts, clarity, and a plan.
You’ll learn:
Why most people underestimate debt and overestimate income (your brain is “helpful” like that)
How to use AnnualCreditReport.com as a starting point (and why you should pull all three reports)
What to look for on your credit reports (errors, unknown accounts, possible identity theft)
Why “fake budgets” and vague guesses create bad strategies that don’t work
The difference between caring about a credit score and protecting your cash flow and future retirement
Why high-income earners are getting crushed by inflation—and why it’s not just you
Your homework: Add it all up. Write down the total. Then take a photo of that number and keep it in your phone—your “before” picture. Next week, we’ll show you how to turn that number into a real strategy (and why “just pay more than the minimum” is terrible advice for most people).
More no-BS debt help and resources: https://getoutofdebt.org
Reach Damon directly: https://damonday.com
It’s the last day of the year…and we’re not doing the same tired “New Year’s resolution” routine. Steve Rhode (the old, original Get Out of Debt Guy) and Damon Day (the new Get Out of Debt Guy) are laying out what actually works: a real strategy you can start today—and real progress you can make in the next 90 days.
In this episode, we dig into why debt “resolutions” fail (they’re emotional, not strategic), why budgets usually collapse by February, and how your money personality matters more than pretending you’re going to track every penny like a robot. If you’ve got big monthly payments, a decent income, and that constant 2 a.m. anxiety, this is your reset.
You’ll also hear a straight talk breakdown of the options most people are afraid to even discuss—debt settlement, strategic default, credit counseling, and bankruptcy—and why protecting your credit score at all costs can be an expensive mistake. Damon asks the question that changes everything: “How much is your credit score worth?” Then we kick off the January series with one simple, non-judgmental action: track what you actually spend—on paper—starting today.
This is the foundation for January 2026: the January Audit, your real numbers, and a plan you can follow—without shame, without gimmicks, and without “beans and rice” misery.
Get more help and resources at https://getoutofdebt.org
Reach Damon directly at https://damonday.com
Subscribe and show up every Thursday—because 2026 isn’t magic…your strategy is.
It’s Christmas Day… and if you’re lying awake at 2 a.m. staring at the ceiling thinking, “What am I going to do about my debt?” — this episode is for you.
Steve Rhode and Damon Day talk straight about the quiet moment nobody posts on social media: the holiday pressure, the shame spiral, the fear that you’re the only one struggling, and that awful feeling like everyone else is cheerful while you’re drowning in credit card payments.
No tough homework today. No “perfect budget” fantasy. Just permission to take the day off, breathe, and remember: debt is a problem with solutions — not a life sentence.
And when you’re ready (hello, January), we’ll help you shift from surviving to solving with a real strategy for getting out of debt.
More help and resources: https://getoutofdebt.org
Talk with Damon: https://damonday.com
Christmas is days away, and if your credit cards are already screaming… this episode is your permission slip to stop the shame-spiral, enjoy your people, and not make things worse. We talk holiday spending strategies that actually work—setting real limits, using cash, and choosing experiences over stuff—because the best “gift” is not waking up in January with a financial hangover.
We also get into the psychology behind why we overspend (yep, hyperbolic discounting), how to say no without feeling like the Grinch, and what to do when the invite is pricey, the gift exchange is ridiculous, or the “just put it on the card” crowd shows up.
Then we pivot to the comeback plan: what you can do in January to recover fast and set up next year so you’re not repeating the same cycle.
More help and resources:
https://getoutofdebt.org
Damon can be reached at https://damonday.com
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