This panel discussion opens the door into the suffering and reality of Male Survivors in NZ and globally. Three brave men discuss their reality, the amazing work they are now doing to help other male survivors, and the impact this has on their lives. Dr Keli Palfy joins us from Canada to share her wisdom through her research on this very powerful topic.
HELP
If you would like to have some coaching with Gloria, reach out to GloriaMasters.com
NZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, [email protected].
          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334
USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuse
UK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuse
AUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.
OTHER
 To get some more resources from Gloria, go to:   https://www.handingtheshameback.org/
 #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback

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Meet Paulie Stevens, a survivor of abuse whose perpetrator got over 100 years in prison. The judge called him a prolific pedophile, and the worst he had ever seen.
What helped Paul in his recovery was his son, sport and the great outdoors.
Paul is the Author of You cant hurt me (2011) and Beyond the Hurt (2022)
Paul Steven's blog: https://zitebooks.com/
 Paul Steven's 1st book: https://www.amazon.co.uk/You-Cant-Hurt-Paul-Stevens-ebook/dp/B096SJFMK5
Paul Stevens 2nd Book: Beyond The Hurt eBook : Stevens, Paul: Amazon.co.uk: Kindle Store
You can reach Paul on: Twitter is @YouCantHurtMeZB
HELP
If you would like coaching from Gloria reach out to GloriaMasters.Com
NZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, [email protected].
          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334
USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuse
UK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuse
AUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.
OTHER
 To get some more resources from Gloria, go to:   https://www.handingtheshameback.org/
 #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback

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The Choices we make are available to us every day in many different ways, and we don't often consider the power they contain. Every choice we make creates an action. As survivors we didn't have a choice as to what happened to us - as adults we do. Sometimes we get used to feeling down, negative and victimised, and it can take courage to lift ourselves out of that. 
In even one decision it is available and can give us hope in the darkest of times. Have a listen.
If you would like to have some coaching with Gloria, reach out to GloriaMasters.Com
To get some more resources from Gloria, go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/
 #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback

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Survivors needing inspiration? Look no further!
Live on the channel this week: I interview Paulie Stevens who wrote the book You Cant Hurt Me, He was abused by a pedophile who was sentenced to 200 years in prison. I also share the Male Survivors Panel Discussion including Dr Keli Palfy, and my blog on The Choice is released. For more information visit us at https://www.htsbf.org (A link to our website) : Handing the shame back
#handingtheshameback #survivors #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #ibelievesurvivors

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This week we focus on the holiday season.
This can be a really difficult and triggering time for survivors as that was when abuse could occur more frequently.
Sadness and loss may appear on their faces, and show in the demeanour. Just love them through it.
#childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback
For further information go to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/

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This powerful discussion with Louise Nicholas, Advocate, Libby and Kate from REOSA (ripple effects of sexual abuse), Alison Mau advocate/journalist and Jess Tyson (founder of BRAVE, charity promoting awareness and resource in our Rangatahi (young people) is both enlightening and informative. We cover many areas: Child abuse stats, our court system, group therapy among other things. DO NOT MISS this discussion.
HELP
NZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, [email protected].
          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334
USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuse
UK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuse
AUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.
OTHER
 To get some more resources from Gloria, go to:   https://www.handingtheshameback.org/
 #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback

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Kelly and I discuss impacts of child sexual abuse from childhood through to adulthood. We cover off my childhood and the ongoing impact childhood trauma has. A conversation worth listening to and watching.
HELP
NZ    Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, [email protected].
          Help Auckland  0800 623 1700. Male Survivors Aotearoa, Freephone: 0800 044 334
USA  RAINN https://www.rainn.org/ Largest US support for adult survivors of child sexual abuse
UK    NAPAK  https://napac.org.uk/  Supporting recovery from childhood abuse
AUSTRALIA   Blue Knot Foundation - https://blueknot.org.au/  Provide support to people who have experiences of complex trauma, and for those who support them.
OTHER
 To get some more resources from Gloria, go to:   https://www.handingtheshameback.org/
 #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport 
#survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback

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Grief is usually associated with death, and therefore not often discussed in survivor communities, but what if I was to tell you that for all survivors, we go through the 7 stages of grief just like others who have experienced deep loss do? What we lost and the cost to us can have us reeling between denial to anger in a heartbeat. have a listen as this may offer some insights into how you have been feeling.
The 7 stages loosely defined are: Denial, Anger Bargaining, Depression, Upward Turn, Reconstruction and Acceptance.
To get some more resources from Gloria, go to: https://www.handingtheshameback.org/
 #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback

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On the channel this week:  Panel Discussion with Louise Nicholas, Advocate, Libby and Kate from REOSA (ripple effects of sexual abuse), Alison Mau advocate/journalist and Jess Tyson (founder of BRAVE,  a charity promoting awareness and resource in our Rangatahi (young people. This discussion is both enlightening and informative. My blog on Grief, which all survivors experience, but seldom discuss. Finally: Kelly Wallace  from the podcast: Recognise your power, interviews me. 
For more information visit us at  https://www.handingtheshameback.org/ 
#handingtheshameback #survivors #childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #ibelievesurvivors

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This week we focus on Grief. The 7 stages there are and where your survivor may be, and where they could move to. There is no right or wrong, it just is. The stages are: Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Upward turn, Reconstruction and Acceptance.
#childhoodsexualabuse #survivorofsexualabuse #survivorsupport #survivors #ibelievesurvivors #handingtheshameback 
For further information go to https://www.handingtheshameback.org/

We are on all social media platforms:
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#HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign #SafeAdult