"HI, I apologize for the long rant but here it goes I am a 27 years old and first time mom of an 17 month old. My husband and I are happily married but the only thing is... His parents.
Back story: they live 2 minutes from us and very very RARELY come and see their grandchild. its been this way since she was born. my husbands dad has seen my daughter maybe 10 times in her 17 months of life. As far as I am concerned they don't check in on her either. they hardly speak to me.
Their house is not well kept they've got 2 big dogs that they don't clean up after. So we (my husband and I) hardly go down there.
The reason they don't come around is because I said I don't want them to. I've never said that, if anything I would love for them to get to know their grandchild.
My parents (who also live two minutes down the road) check in at least every other day and make a point to stop by to see her. My dad works out of town and stops in on Fridays to see her and then ask if they (my mom and dad) can have her for the day to hang out with her.
I currently have my daughters Facebook photo album to where this parents can't see it because I feel like if you don't make an effort to see her you shouldn't be able to see her pictures of milestones as she gets older and smarter.
Am I wrong for keeping them from seeing her photos? Am I also wrong for not taking my daughter to their house once a week?"

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"I had a date over the weekend that started out great, but ended awkwardly. It was a first date. We had a nice dinner and then played mini golf before he invited me back to his apartment. His apartment freaked me out.  My date is 31 years old.  He had sci-fi action figures all over his apartment and several stuffed animals on his bed. I told my sister about the date yesterday and she said I should not give the guy a second date because adult men shouldn't be playing with action figures or stuffed animals. My other friend, who's into sci-fi, says it's no big deal and that he's just in touch with his inner child. Creepy or not?  Give the guy a second date or not?"

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A special extra spooky Friday the 13th version of Thriller Thirteen! It's our last one till Thriller Thursday. Just a few weeks away...

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"My boyfriend and I talked about getting married two weeks ago. Everything was going great until it wasn't. I ran to the mall the other night and bumped into my childhood crush. I know this sounds silly but I immediately got goosebumps and butterflies and felt the pit in my stomach like I did in junior high and high school. We exchanged numbers and agreed to get together for lunch. Now, all I do is think about him. I'm questioning my decision to marry my boyfriend. He's done nothing wrong, but doesn't give me the feelings my childhood crush does. I'm not sure what to do. My head says to stay with the safe choice which is my boyfriend. My heart says don't be safe and chase my childhood crush because that will be exciting and keep my interest. Safe versus not safe. What would you do?"

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"I'm considering selling my car for scraps and need advice on how to do that. I'll try to provide brief context but the car does have quite the history while under my ownership. I spent $4 grand buying my car, a 2013 Chevy Cruise, from a coworker and another $200 to get it repaired multiple times because either the guy sold it to me broken or it started to break the minute the title was in my name.

All of these issues revolve around the same area the AC. A couple of months ago I took the car to get looked at when the AC first broke. I had asked the mechanic if the car needed Anti-freeze and he said no. Fast forward a week and the car breaks down on the side of the road, I have it towed back to my house where it sits for weeks a constant mocking reminder of the money I sunk into it.

Well last Friday I finally had time to get in contact with a different auto-care guy and he asked about the anti-freeze, this lead me to discover that the Anti-freeze/coolant tank was empty and had been this whole time. That first mechanic was wrong the car would have been perfectly fine if I had just put coolant in the dang tank. After filling the coolant tank I have taken the car out on a few test drives to see how it runs. And it was running fine... until yesterday.

I was putting coolant in the tank before I left for work and I had made the mistake of forgetting to put lid back on. This caused the car to break down in the middle of the road halfway through my drive to work. Thankfully I managed to get my car moved into a gas station parking lot, where I called a tow truck.

So this whole thing with the lid combined with the fact I had driven my car for a week with no coolant caused my motor/engine to break and apparently I had nearly blown a head gasket. The repairs needed for my car are well more than I can afford. Which is why I would like to scrap it seeing as how all of the other parts are still working perfectly.

The auto-shop had offer me $500 for the car but I said no because I knew once they fixed it up they could sell it for at least $4 grand. like I said it's a perfectly working car once you fix all the issues listed above.

I know that it's wishful thinking to believe I'll recoup all my loses back but if anyone deserves to make any money off this car now it is me. I just don't know how to go about doing that. Any suggestions?"

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"I have been at my current job for 10 years, in those 10 years I've worked in 2 different departments and started from the bottom and worked my way up. 3 years ago I switched to the new department and they've had several new people take over my old position in the last 3 year's till about 8 months ago. The new person in there is good but here is my problem they have been there less then a year and make more then I do and I have been at my job for 10. The position in the new department is supposed to be a hire up position yet the other person is making more an hour then me when I've been a dedicated hard working employee for 10 years. Am I just being petty for feeling like I should be making more then someone who hasn't been there near as long as I have? Here lately I find myself looking for other jobs on indeed but I do love my job, my boss and my coworkers. Plus it's Monday to Friday no weekends or holidays and my boss is extremely flexible if I need off for anything. Am I an in the wrong for feeling like I do?"

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You worked hard. You sat in traffic. You've dealt with jerks all day. Now that you're home, what do you want to hear from your significant other?

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Nap? Stretch? Cry? What would you do if you had an extra 15 minutes of free time today?

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