Neuroscientist Matt Lieberman wrote a book called, “Social: Why our brains are wired to connect”. And he explains in the book that emotional and relational pain is registered in our brains just like physical pain is in our bodies. We don’t think of it that way. If we get hurt physically, a twisted ankle, a broken hand, we register that as real pain. But, if it’s emotional , we just tell ourselves, “You just got to get over it, move on!” So we see it differently. But Lieberman says,” That’s not true.” Our brains receive relational and emotional pain the same way. And this is one of the reasons we speak of emotional hurts in physical terms. So someone you love says something to you that is hurtful and you say, “I feel like I got punched in the gut”. A relationship that you value breaks up and you say, “Feels like my heart is broken”. So a friend of yours betrays you and you say “I got stabbed in the back”. That’s how it registers with you. Now here’s the point. When you get hurt physically, your body registers that pain in the same way that your brain registers relational and emotional pain. Mmmm.
Have you ever felt the emotional and relational pain of disappointment with GOD? A time you may have asked Him to help and things got worse? Why didn’t He protect? Why didn’t He provide? Why didn’t He heal? It seemed like there were really no great answers and you started to give up on God? Maybe you are in that place today or you know someone who is?
I want to invite you to join me as we continue in our message series, “Don’t Quit” and look at a people in the Bible, who were getting discouraged and disillusioned and ready to quit on GOD! GOD had a word for them and He has a word for us.