Her Healing Season | Narcissist, Single Mom, Biblical Encouragement, Boundaries, Faith

Go, mama, go! 🙃

Get the kids up. Get them dressed. Make breakfast. Get them to school. Work. Pick them up. Practice. Dinner. Homework. Baths. Bed.

And then maybe you finally get to breathe… or fall asleep on the couch… or pour yourself another glass of whatever you just told yourself you weren't going to have as much of. 😂

But what if your constant “go, go, go” isn't always just because you're a busy mom?

What if sometimes busy becomes a socially acceptable way to avoid what you don't want to feel?

In this episode of Her Healing Season, we're talking about hyper-vigilance, survival mode, burnout, and the uncomfortable reality that sometimes slowing down can feel harder than staying busy.

After leaving my husband, I went straight into single-mom survival mode. I worked 7 days a week, had 3 different jobs, side hustles, kids, a social life, and a calendar that never seemed to stop.

I thought I was just being strong.

I thought I had a great work ethic.

But God eventually showed me something I didn't realize at the time:

I wasn't just working hard. I was running.

Running from grief.

In this episode, we'll talk about:

What hyper-vigilance can look like in everyday motherhood

Why rest can feel uncomfortable after prolonged stress

How “if I keep moving, I don't have to feel” can become a pattern

Why busy can become a form of avoidance

The connection between survival mode and the inability to slow down

What the Bible says about rest, including Matthew 11:28–29, Psalm 46:10, Mark 6:31, and Psalm 23

What “holy rest” can actually look like

Learning to sit quietly with your thoughts instead of immediately filling the silence

Why rest isn't laziness, weakness, or irresponsibility

How God taught me that I could do what He called me to do without carrying what He never asked me to carry

Because here's the thing, mama:

You were never created to live your entire life in survival mode.

There is a season to work.

But there is also a season to be still.

Maybe your healing season begins when you finally stop running.

If you're a mom rebuilding your life after leaving a narcissistic husband and you're ready to stop surviving and begin rebuilding and restoring, I'd love to help you.

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Go to Jesus.

You don't have to spend the rest of your life running.

🎉 WE HAVE BIG NEWS, FRIENDS! 🎉

I honestly still can’t believe I’m saying this…

Her Healing Season is officially ranked in the TOP 5% of podcasts globally! 😭🎙️

When I saw that ranking, I was shocked, humbled, and SO excited. What started as a little idea almost a year ago has turned into something I never could have imagined—and I truly believe God has been in every step of it.

In this episode, we’re celebrating! 💚

I’m looking back at almost a FULL YEAR of podcasting, the incredible guests who have shared their stories and wisdom, the conversations we’ve had, the things God has taught me along the way, and how this podcast has grown and changed.

And, of course, I’m talking about what I believe God is doing NEXT. 👀

There’s a little something special I want to do to celebrate this milestone with YOU… and you’re definitely going to want to listen all the way to the end. 🎁

Thank you for listening, sharing, encouraging me, and being part of this little corner of the internet. Whether you’ve been here since the beginning or you just found Her Healing Season, I am SO glad you’re here.

Here’s to healing, rebuilding, resting, growing, and seeing what God does next. 🤍

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And if you’re in a season of rebuilding after leaving a narcissistic relationship, know this: your healing season matters. 💚

When you're rebuilding your life after an emotionally difficult relationship, it can feel like EVERYTHING needs to change.

Your routines. Your confidence. Your peace. Your relationship with God. Even the way you take care of yourself.

But you don't need a perfect routine—you need a few healthy habits that become foundational.

In this episode of Her Healing Season, we're talking about 5 simple habits that can help you rebuild your life with intention instead of continuing to live in reaction mode.

These aren't about becoming the "perfect" woman or creating some unrealistic 5 AM routine. They're about building habits that actually work inside your real life.

We'll also talk about why these habits can be especially important when you're coming out of a difficult relationship and trying to rebuild your identity, peace, health, and relationship with God.

And don't miss the 7-day challenge at the end: choose your five non-negotiables—or start with three—and begin building your next season on a solid foundation.

If you're ready to rebuild and restore, you don't have to do it alone.

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Leaving a narcissistic relationship is hard. But sometimes, leaving is only the beginning.

If you're a Christian mom who has left a toxic or narcissistic husband, you may be facing more than just the logistics of starting over. You may be questioning yourself, struggling to trust your own decisions, feeling guilty about your family, or wondering how you're ever going to feel like you again.

In this episode of Her Healing Season, Bethany gets personal about her own experience of leaving her first husband with two young children and the difficult season of leaving, coming back, questioning herself, and learning to trust her decisions again.

She shares two things God taught her along the way:

GOOD BOUNDARIES — Learning to let your yes be yes and your no be no, refusing to be talked out of decisions you know are right, and protecting yourself from unhealthy patterns without becoming consumed by conflict.

GOODBYES — Learning that it's okay to let go of people, things, expectations, old identities, and even the future you thought you were going to have. Sometimes healing means releasing what God is asking you to release so you can move forward into what He has for you.

Together, we'll look at Scripture including Matthew 5:37, 1 Kings 18:21, Proverbs 22:24–25, John 15, 1 Corinthians 15:33, Philippians 3:13–14, and Matthew 10.

If you're struggling with healing after leaving a narcissistic husband, setting boundaries, rebuilding your peace, trusting yourself again, or letting go of the past, this episode is for you.

And if you're ready for some personal support as you begin rebuilding, learn more about Rebuild and Restore Coaching, Bethany's one-on-one coaching for Christian moms healing after a narcissistic relationship.

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You don't have to rebuild your whole life today. You just have to take the next faithful step.

What if some of the things you’ve always considered “just who I am” are actually patterns you’ve learned to rely on?

In this episode, I’m joined by Dina Smith, Licensed Mental Health Counselor, speaker, and Enneagram coach, for a conversation about the Enneagram, Christian faith, motherhood, relationships, and spiritual growth.

Dina explains what the nine Enneagram types are and how understanding our motivations can help us recognize patterns in the way we think, feel, behave, parent, and relate to others. But this conversation isn’t about putting yourself in a box—it’s about gaining self-awareness and discovering the places where you may need God’s grace the most.

We talk about mom guilt, perfectionism, people-pleasing, striving, conflict, parenting from our own personality instead of understanding our children, and what happens when we finally surrender the strategies we’ve used our whole lives.

Most importantly, we talk about the reminder every Christian mom needs: you are already loved. Spiritual growth isn’t about striving your way into becoming worthy of God’s love. It’s about becoming increasingly free to live in the love and grace you’ve already received through Christ.

If you’ve ever thought, “Why do I keep doing this?” or wondered why you struggle with the same patterns over and over again, this conversation is for you.

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In this episode of Her Healing Season, host Bethany Rose announces an important pivot for the show. Formerly Spiritual Growth for Christian Moms, the podcast is shifting its main focus to support Christian moms step into faith-led rest and recovery after leaving a narcissistic partner.

In this episode, Bethany covers:

If you are feeling lost, relieved, anxious, or hopeful in your current season, know that you are not alone on this path.

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Are your emotions making you feel like a bad Christian mom?

What if your emotions aren't sinful—and what if they're actually giving you important information?

In this episode, I'm joined by Dr. David Pendergrass, Biblicist, author, speaker, former senior pastor, and pastoral counselor with nearly 30 years of ministry experience.

We talk about anger, anxiety, overwhelm, emotional reactions, shame, conviction, and what emotional maturity actually looks like for a Christian. David shares practical ways to recognize and process our emotions without letting them control our responses—and explains why we need to stop shaming ourselves for having feelings.

This conversation is honest, practical, encouraging, and full of those “wait...I've never thought about it that way!” moments.

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We hear “protect your peace” ALL the time—but what does that actually mean for a Christian mom?

In this episode, we’re taking that popular phrase and looking at it through a biblical lens. Scripture tells us to guard our hearts, and Philippians 4:7 reminds us that God’s peace guards our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

I’m sharing 3 practical ways to protect your peace:

✨ Set Limits — Decide what gets access to your time, energy, and attention.

✨ Choose Calm — Learn to step away from unnecessary drama, toxic influences, and things that continually pull you away from God’s peace.

✨ Practice Self-Respect — Stop treating your inner peace like an accident and start prioritizing your relationship with Jesus, His Word, and prayer.

And we’re talking about the difference between rest and laziness, boundaries and avoidance, and biblical peace versus the world's version of “self-care.”

Because protecting your peace doesn't mean avoiding life—it means learning how to guard your heart while keeping your eyes on Jesus.

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Have you ever been told your labs are “normal,” but you KNOW you don’t feel normal?

In this episode, I’m talking with Christian Counselor and Functional Nutrition Coach Brooke Rozzie about the connection between the nervous system, hormones, stress, trauma, motherhood, and our spiritual health.

We talk about what nervous system dysregulation can look like in everyday motherhood—from being overstimulated and touched out to losing patience with your kids—and practical ways to create more stillness, regulate your nervous system, and move from survival mode toward greater peace and wholeness.

If you’ve ever felt like something is wrong but you just can’t figure out what it is, this conversation is for you. ❤️

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Do you ever feel like there simply aren't enough hours in the day?

You're taking care of the kids, managing the house, trying to work, trying to exercise, trying to spend time with God, trying to be a good wife—and somehow you're still going to bed feeling like you didn't get enough done.

In this episode, we're talking about time management for overwhelmed moms and how creating a little structure can actually bring MORE peace and LESS stress into your day.

I'll walk you through the simple time audit I use to help identify where your time is actually going—and why this is one of the first things we look at inside my 1:1 Christian coaching.

We'll also talk about:

✨ How to do a simple time audit

I'll also connect this conversation to spiritual growth and share how some of the habits I've developed helped me go from feeling like a baby Christian to a toddler Christian—because just like physical growth, spiritual growth doesn't happen accidentally.

And don't worry…I'm also bringing a little humor into this one because I am very much a Type C girl who can have a beautifully organized day and then completely reroute by lunchtime. 😂

Because the goal isn't perfection.

We're all a work in progress.

The goal is to learn how to steward the time God has given us, prioritize what actually matters, and create enough structure that we can stop carrying tomorrow's responsibilities around in our heads tonight.

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