Hilda's Shoulder

Hilda's Shoulder

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Hilda's Shoulder episodes

  • Relationship & Marriage this end of year
    Introspection and assessment of all our relationships is key in order for us to reach our personal goals. Sometimes we may be the cause of the continuous downward spiral in our relationships or marriages.Sometimes we need professional help.Sometimes breaking up or getting seperated or divorced is the only way out.
    17 min
  • Divorced Naija Women & Shame

    Vicarious shame is hurled on the shoulders of single matured women, separated women and most especially Divorced Women in Nigeria.Living under toxic shame compromises our feeling of self worth and mental health. Living with shame doesn’t stop at us. If women do not take care, the shame will be inherited by our children. Naija Woman who is Divorced, your true wonderful self lies beneath. Be who you were meant to be! Get professional help if you need to! Live life!

    15 min
  • Are you a Narcissist or you are with one?
    The embers of a Narcissism keep burning the more you kow -tow and make yourself and almost invisible.They are most concerned about their own image and have little time to worry about you! Being with a narcissist is very emotionally trying.The Narcissist is a manipulator and can make you feel that you aren't giving enough or doing right by them. If you have become an echo, to repeat all that a narcissist says you will never find happiness. Help yourself by getting help!
    10 min
  • Sex for Marks
    In the last few days social and mass media has been agog with report of investigation of BBC into the matter of sexual assault by 2 lecturers in Nigeria and Ghana. It was an exposé! I have some things to say about the role that our culture and values play in condoning the matter of sexual assault generally and what we can do as a country to prevent and ameliorate it. let”s all act and say “No to all forms of sexual assault!”
    26 min
  • RAPE- Frozen by shame
    This podcast is inspired by #metoo. In Nigeria like many other parts of the world womens reaction to rape is often of shame.The shame is such an issue that many remain silent because society and custom make them feel they somehow had in a hand in it. When women maintain that siĺence,the society is worse of for it.
    27 min
  • Naija Women & Labels

    Naija Women are put into a strait jacket by culture and the media.Culture plays a tune that it expects the Naija woman to dance to whether she wants to or not or whether she is fit or not. Many women are in a living death of a Marriage because they fear the shame and ridicule society will mete out on them and their children-and so they stay on. Is the sacrifice worth it? Should the Naija Woman continue to wear the labels that culture has pinned on her? Listen to my podcast then!

    16 min
  • Naija Marriages & Friendships
    Naija Women do a lot of things that their male counterparts do.
    There is a still a big divide between what a husband can do and what a wife can do.
    One of those things is for a wife to have a male or male friends. Our culture isn't too excited about that,whether the friendship is platonic or not.
    Technology has made it easy for women to have friends male or not, online without the consent or knowledge of her husband.
    Is it right for a wife to have male friends at all?
    Let's listen to my views.
    After listening,I'd love to hear what your thoughts are!
    21 min
  • Naija Wives & The Maid
    The House Maid ,plays such a definitive role in many Nigerian homes.She has a multi - layered job description and many a time, she is the cause of many broken homes.
    This podcasts addresses the need for Naija Wives to re -jig the management of their homes.
    Naija Women claim back your honourable position!
    25 min

About Hilda's Shoulder

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Welcome to Hildas Shoulder Pod cast.I am particular about Nigerian (Naija) relationships and marriages. If you are intending to marry a Nigerian or married to one I do hope my podcasts arm with…