The security of being a married woman often causes many married woman to feel they have "arrived" socially and that there is no need to stress themselves for the attention of their husbands.
That's so wrong!
Doing so leaves room for the other woman to take hold of your husband.
With the internet,books, training and wise counsel hustle,chase and charm your man. Let his thoughts of you drive him crazy!
Be his wife and mistress at the same time!
Good Luck!