Rhonda Stoppe teaches us to point a finger at "us" to be sure we aren't part of the holiday drama. She says "an unexamined life is a wasted one". We must be able to look inward to solve outward issues. No one enjoys "holiday drama". Listen to Rhonda's advice to "nip it" before it happens. Here is a link to the article about the topic. https://www.crosswalk.com/family/parenting/holiday-family-drama-and-how-to-see-if-youre-part-of-the-problem.html