Home to Her

In this final farewell episode, I share my thoughts on five specific ways women can cut ourselves off from our own power - plus share my reflections on hosting this show for the last 6 years. A few takeaways:

• Denying our deepest desires is often fueled by an understandable fear of losing the relationships we feel are most important to us, but doing so also comes at a great cost to our soul's growth
• Embodied wisdom is available to all of us, but takes practice and repetition to hear and access
• Why so many women are afraid to fully feel our emotions - and the benefits from actually letting them flow through us instead
• Cultivating relationships with land, ancestors, and the unseen realms takes patience and practice, and can make our journeys much less difficult
• The incredible benefits of living from a place of truth, authenticity, and power, plus how this often looks different from how we might imagine power to show up.

So much gratitude to all who have tuned in to this show over the years! Wishing you so many blessings on your journey. I'm still offering 1:1 coaching, and can be reached via my website: www.hometoher.com

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On the latest episode I’m joined by Dominique Debroux, a producer, entrepreneur, and nutritional chef whose work bridges storytelling, science, and women’s empowerment. She is also the producer of the new documentary Wise Women – Humanity’s Untold Origins, reframing menopause as the evolutionary foundation of female leadership. Through her film, food ventures, and advocacy, she champions women’s vitality and visibility in midlife.

During our conversation, we cover:

1. The misunderstood role of menopause in human evolution, and why it’s important to understand it not as nature’s mistake, but as an important evolutionary development that uniquely positions women to lead later in life
2. Dominique’s revelatory experience of God at the age of six, and how it shaped her spiritual journey, including her understanding of the Sacred Feminine
3. Dominique’s own journey through perimenopause and menopause, and how it ultimately inspired the film Wise Women.
4. The devastating impact of patriarchy, and how we might envision a different, more balanced future
5. The power of inner wisdom, self-permission and why it’s more important than ever that we claim our voices.

Episode Notes:

1. You can learn more and rent the film Wise Women here: https://wisewomenmovie.com/
2. We also referenced the Bonobo Sisterhood by Diane Rosenfeld, and The Creation of Patriarchy, by Gerda Lerner

Explore. Connect. Come Home to Her. ✨

If you’d like to know whose ancestral lands you currently reside on, you can look up your address here: native-land.ca.

If this podcast or my book Home to Her: Walking the Transformative Path of the Sacred Feminine has inspired you, I’d love for you to leave a review—it helps others find this work and keeps these conversations flowing.

Stay connected with me and our growing community:

🌸 Follow along on Instagram @hometoher for reflections and details on upcoming episodes.

Want to go deeper? Visit www.hometoher.com to:

1. Download your free eBook 6 Facets of Feminine Power
2. Explore my award-winning on-demand course Home to Herstory, Home to Your Story
3. Learn more about 1:1 coaching, small group programs, and upcoming

💫 Ready to reconnect with your authentic feminine power?

Book your free 30-minute discovery call on my website and let’s explore what’s possible.

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On the latest Interstitial episode, we get into the collective rage among women regarding the Epstein files, the systemic, historical suppression of women's voices, and what we can do about it, including five actionable steps to channel that energy effectively right now:

1. Tell yourself the truth
2. Understand what silencing yourself might be costing you
3. Give men grace (not a pass)
4. Divest yourself from male opinions and leadership
5. Invest your time, energy and resources in women's voices, perspectives and visions

We have more power than we think; it's time to use it.

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If you’d like to know whose ancestral lands you currently reside on, you can look up your address here: native-land.ca.

If this podcast or my book Home to Her: Walking the Transformative Path of the Sacred Feminine has inspired you, I’d love for you to leave a review—it helps others find this work and keeps these conversations flowing.

Stay connected with me and our growing community: 🌸 Follow along on Instagram @hometoher for reflections and details on upcoming episodes. 🌿 Join the Home to Her Facebook group to share stories, ask questions, and explore the Sacred Feminine in community.

Want to go deeper? Visit www.hometoher.com to:

1. Download your free eBook, 6 Facets of Feminine Power
2. Explore my award-winning on-demand course Home to Herstory, Home to Your Story
3. Learn more about 1:1 coaching, small group programs, and upcoming events

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1:1 Coaching Available

This show has ended, but I'm still available for 1:1 coaching. You can learn more and book a discovery call at www.hometoher.com.

The first episode of 2026 is here! I'm joined by my longtime friend and mentor Elana Auerbach, a lover, mother, mentor, activist, and priestess, and the author of the new book The Sure Thing: A Pleasure Practice to Revive the Spark.

On this episode, we discuss:

1. Elana's spiritual journey, and the braided path of her spiritual experiences with Judaism, the Divine Feminine and as a longtime student of Zen
2. Her own awakening to the Sacred Feminine, beginning with a brief mystical experience during her Bat Mitzvah, and continuing through her training with the 13 Moon Mystery School
3. Her exploration of pleasure as a sacred practice, including the experiences that led to her meeting her now-husband, their brief time spent in a sex cult, and how the Sure Thing was born out of a desire to rekindle intimacy and connection after many years of marriage
4. How shame and uncertainty often block women's embrace of pleasure - and how we can address this
5. Why embracing pleasure can be seen as a radical and celebratory form of activism, and how it can sustain us during difficult times.

Episode Notes:

1. You can learn more about Elana and her new book at her website, https://surethingexperiment.com/.
2. Elana and I both studied with the 13 Moon Mystery School:https://sanctuaryofthe13moonmysteryschool.com/
3. Ariel Spilsbury is the founder of the 13 Moon Mystery School, and she was an early guest on the Home to Her podcast. You can listen to her here: https://player.captivate.fm/episode/339385f4-e64e-410c-8c60-352e5269443f/
4. I mentioned a Great Mother meditation I've recorded, which you can access here: https://soundcloud.com/home-to-her/great-mother-meditation?utm_source=clipboard&utm_medium=text&utm_campaign=social_sharing&si=4a1c08deeaea4633a352991964947383

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If you’d like to know whose ancestral lands you currently reside on, you can look up your address here: native-land.ca.

If this podcast or my book Home to Her: Walking the Transformative Path of the Sacred Feminine has inspired you, I’d love for you to leave a review—it helps others find this work and keeps these conversations flowing.

Stay connected with me and our growing community:

🌸 Follow along on Instagram @hometoher for reflections and details on upcoming episodes.

🌿 Join the Home to Her Facebook group to share stories, ask questions, and explore the Sacred Feminine in community.

Want to go deeper? Visit www.hometoher.com to:

1. Download your free eBook 6 Facets of Feminine Power
2. Explore my award-winning on-demand course Home to Herstory, Home to Your Story
3. Learn more about 1:1 coaching, small group programs, and upcoming events

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1:1 Coaching Available

This show has ended, but I'm still available for 1:1 coaching. You can learn more and book a discovery call at www.hometoher.com.

On this short Interstitial episode, I riff on what’s been alive for me since my most recent conversations with Sophie Messager (on reclaiming drumming) and Ash Stinson (on embodiment and listening to the body). Jumping off from these dialogues, I'm holding a a central question here: How do we, as women, become truly free within systems that were never designed with us in mind?

Key Points:

• My own understanding of liberation in three parts - awakening, reckoning with inequities, and consciously choosing how to operate within toxic systems, including determining how and when to withdraw consent
• What it means to awaken to the reality that most systems were built without the participation and input of women
• The importance of taking time moving through the emotions that arise - but also moving on when ready
• The tricky dance between participating in systems while you have to, while honestly assessing your available power to enact change

Key Questions to Consider:

• Am I waiting for permission to show up differently?
• Am I waiting for it to feel easy or comfortable before I follow my truth?
• Do I actually have more freedom and power than I’m giving myself credit for?

If this podcast or my book Home to Her: Walking the Transformative Path of the Sacred Feminine has inspired you, don’t stop here. Visit my website, www.hometoher.com, to:

→ Download your free eBook 5 Ancient Secrets of Female Power

→ Explore courses, coaching, and upcoming programs

→ Book your free 30-minute discovery call

Follow @hometoher on Instagram and join our Facebook community to stay connected and inspired.

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The Realms of Embodiment with Ash Stinson

On this episode – which has been in the making for a long time – Ash Stinson and I explore the profound themes of the sacred feminine, embodiment, and the intricate layers of wisdom held within our bodies. Ash is an energy worker, a creator, a deep feeler and a deep thinker, a parent, and an expert on healing through the energy of your anatomy.

Ash's personal and professional life functionally revolves around one question: What gives us a sense of place? She studied and worked in Environmental Science, habitat preservation, and Landscape Architecture until her Saturn Return coupled with a twin pregnancy catapulted her into postpartum PTSD, and she finally got the cosmic memo – you can't create belonging in your backyard if you're lost in your own skin.

A decade of study, Reiki Master level certification, apprenticeship with her ancestors, and a certification in Integrative Somatic Trauma Therapy later, Energy Archaeology and the Realms of Embodiment were born. Ash now spends her days exploring the energetic anatomy and morphology of the body, from the bones, muscles, fluid systems, organs, nervous system, and DNA and translating it so you can understand your mythosomatic self and belonging within the wider energetic fabric of life.

We dive deep on this episode, exploring:

·      Ash’s own personal and spiritual background, including the traumatic experience of her own birth and how it ultimately prepared her for the work she does now

·      How the Realms of Embodiment – Ash’s current work – was born out of an initial exploration of Reiki following a challenging birth experience with her twins

·      The different areas of the Realms of Embodiment, and what each has to teach us

·      Why it’s not so simple to just “listen to your body”

·      The “yes-and” approach to embracing the wisdom of energy medicine and Western medicine

·      Ash’s simple, three-step process to begin listening to your own body

Show Notes:

You can learn more about Ash, the Realms of Embodiment and her Energy Archaeology deck at her website: https://ashleystinson.com/.

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If you’d like to know whose ancestral lands you currently reside on, you can look up your address here: native-land.ca.

If this podcast or my book Home to Her: Walking the Transformative Path of the Sacred Feminine has inspired you, I’d love for you to leave a review—it helps others find this work and keeps these conversations flowing.

Stay connected with me and our growing community:

🌸 Follow along on Instagram @hometoher for reflections and details on upcoming episodes.

🌿 Join the Home to Her Facebook group to share stories, ask questions, and explore the Sacred Feminine in community.

Want to go deeper? Visit www.hometoher.com to:

·      Download your free eBook 5 Ancient Secrets of Female Power

·      Explore my award-winning on-demand course Home to Herstory, Home to Your Story

·      Learn more about 1:1 coaching, small group programs, and upcoming events

💫 Ready to reconnect with your authentic feminine power?

Book your free 30-minute discovery call on my website and let’s explore what’s possible.

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In this particularly rich conversation, I’m joined by Sophie Messager, author of the new book The Beat of Your Own Drum (Womancraft Publishing). A former reproductive physiologist with a PhD, Sophie traded her microscope for a medicine drum after experiencing the transformative power of an empowered birth. Her decade-long journey as a doula, birth educator, and author of Why Postnatal Recovery Matters deepened her exploration of the rhythms surrounding women’s transitions.

Now a holistic life transition mentor, Sophie guides women through significant life thresholds – from birth to perimenopause and beyond. Her unique combination of scientific expertise and spiritual insight allows her to serve as a compassionate space holder for those seeking to harmonise their analytical and intuitive selves. 

On this episode we explore:

• The complex and intersecting themes of sacred feminine wisdom
• The journey of reclaiming women's power, and the transformative role of drumming in spiritual practices
• Sophie’s personal experiences from her Catholic upbringing to her journey as a doula and holistic life transition mentor
• The historical context of women's roles in drumming and spirituality, and how reclaiming this practice can be an essential step for women in owning their voices and power in a patriarchal society.

Key Takeaways

• Sacred Feminine wisdom is applicable in all areas of life.
• Understanding women's power from a feminine lens is crucial, and women’s sacred stories can help us do this.
• Sophie fascinating journey from science to holistic practices, and how it demonstrates that we can hold space for both.
• Drumming can be a powerful tool for women's empowerment.
• While the history of women and drumming is often overlooked, it’s real – and your birthright to know about.
• While women often feel scared to drum due to ancestral trauma, trusting yourself is the key to spiritual growth and personal evolution.
• Creating your own drum can be a transformative experience – but you can also start with a storebought one. You don’t need lessons or a prescriptive path to start.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Sacred Feminine Wisdom

03:05 Exploring the Journey of the Sacred Feminine

05:21 Sophie Messager's Spiritual Background

11:09 Reclaiming Spirituality Beyond Catholicism

19:52 The Role of Birth and Death in Feminine Wisdom

24:32 Embodying the Divine Feminine

27:26 Navigating the Journey to Menopause

28:24 Embracing Cycles and Rest

30:25 The Journey to the Drum

31:51 Drum Microdosing: A New Practice

37:28 Reclaiming the Drum: Women's History

42:42 The Power of Drumming in Birth

49:40 Empowerment Through Intuition and Expression

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If you’d like to know whose ancestral lands you currently reside on, you can look up your address here: native-land.ca.

If this podcast or my book Home to Her: Walking the Transformative Path of the Sacred Feminine has inspired you, I’d love for you to leave a review—it helps others find this work and keeps these conversations flowing.

Stay connected with me and our growing community:

🌸 Follow along on Instagram @hometoher for reflections and details on upcoming episodes.

🌿 Join the Home to Her Facebook group to share stories, ask questions, and explore the Sacred Feminine in community.

Want to go deeper? Visit www.hometoher.com to:

·      Download your free eBook 5 Ancient Secrets of Female Power

·      Explore my award-winning on-demand course Home to Herstory, Home to Your Story

·      Learn more about 1:1 coaching, small group programs, and upcoming events

💫 Ready to reconnect with your authentic feminine power?

Book your free 30-minute discovery call on my website and let’s explore what’s possible.

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Home to Herstory, Home to Your Story Online Course: Now on Sale!

How much of our collective herstory do you really know — and do you know why that matters so much to how you live your life today?

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This show has ended, but I'm still available for 1:1 coaching. You can learn more and book a discovery call at www.hometoher.com.

Introducing The Interstitial: short episodes intended to explore the spaces in between the last episode and the next.

My latest conversation with Danielle Dulsky got me thinking about two things: magic and purpose. Here I consider the role of magic in our lives, as well as what it means to lean into our singular purpose during times of chaos and change.

Key Takeaways:

Magic can empower us to co-create our lives.

We control the stories we tell about our experiences.

Reclaiming our relationship with magic is a deeply human and feminine act.

In chaotic times, focus on what is yours to do.

Purpose can manifest in various forms, not just one.

Living with care and presence is sufficient.

Our contributions are part of a larger narrative.

The divine feminine operates in deep time and rhythms.

Trusting our guidance is essential for personal growth.

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If this podcast or my book Home to Her: Walking the Transformative Path of the Sacred Feminine has inspired you, I’d love for you to leave a review—it helps others find this work and keeps these conversations flowing.

Stay connected with me and our growing community:

🌸 Follow along on Instagram @hometoher for reflections and details on upcoming episodes.

🌿 Join the Home to Her Facebook group to share stories, ask questions, and explore the Sacred Feminine in community.

Want to go deeper? Visit www.hometoher.com to:

·      Download your free eBook 5 Ancient Secrets of Female Power

·      Explore my on-demand course Home to Herstory, Home to Your Story

·      Learn more about 1:1 coaching, small group programs, and upcoming events

💫 Ready to reconnect with your authentic feminine power?

Book your free 30-minute discovery call on my website and let’s explore what’s possible.

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1:1 Coaching Available

This show has ended, but I'm still available for 1:1 coaching. You can learn more and book a discovery call at www.hometoher.com.

Home to Herstory, Home to Your Story Online Course: Now on Sale!

How much of our collective herstory do you really know — and do you know why that matters so much to how you live your life today?

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On this episode, I’m joined again by Danielle Dulsky, a prior Home to Her guest, as we explore the themes of women's wisdom, the significance of fairy tales, and the role of storytelling in shaping our understanding of the world. Danielle’s new book, The Night House: Folklore, Fairy Tales, Rites, and Magick for the Wise and Wild, serves as a focal point for our discussion, as we consider the connection between creativity, magic, and the feminine experience. We also talk about the hidden and sometimes subversive power within fairy tales, the importance of shadow work, and how these stories can help us navigate the complexities of modern life. We also talk about why Danielle believes we each have one important thing to do in this lifetime, and why it’s so important to protect our creative potential in these uncertain times. As Danielle says, “we need to get weirder.”

Key Takeaways

·     Everything we know about power has been defined by cultural structures.

·     Women's wisdom and power have been minimized and pushed underground.

·     Fairy tales hold hidden wisdom and power for women.

·     The Night House explores the connection between fairy tales and women's experiences.

·     Stories can be a way to access and embody our full power.

·     The structure of The Night House reflects a journey through shadow and light.

·     Asking questions about stories reveals insights about our lives.

·     The current cultural moment calls for a return to women's wisdom.

·     Magic exists in subtle forms and is often dismissed in modern culture.

·     Storytelling shapes our understanding of the world.

·     Finding our purpose and protecting our creative potential are two of the most important things we can do during these uncertain times

·     Embracing our own weirdness is the key to coming up with new solutions for all the challenges facing us

Sound bites

"Fairy tales hold hidden wisdom and power for women."

"Storytelling shapes our understanding of the world."

"Embrace the weirdness of life."

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Sacred Feminine

03:01 Exploring Women's Wisdom and Power

05:52 The Night House: Unveiling Fairy Tales

08:44 The Structure of The Night House

11:36 Shadow Work and Fairy Tales

14:03 Connecting Stories to Personal Experience

17:02 The Importance of Timing in Storytelling

19:34 The Role of Magic in Our Lives

25:38 The Compartmentalization of Magic

31:58 Exploring the Realm of Magic

35:55 Tending to Our Unique Purpose

41:01 The Power of Storytelling

45:51 Embracing the Weirdness of Life

If this podcast or my book Home to Her: Walking the Transformative Path of the Sacred Feminine has inspired you, don’t stop here. Visit my website, www.hometoher.com, to:

→ Download your free eBook 5 Ancient Secrets of Female Power

→ Explore courses, coaching, and upcoming programs

→ Book your free 30-minute discovery call

Follow @hometoher on Instagram and join our Facebook community to stay connected and inspired.

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This show has ended, but I'm still available for 1:1 coaching. You can learn more and book a discovery call at www.hometoher.com.

In this conversation, Dr. Lisette Ostrander and I explore the intricate relationship between feminine wisdom, sexuality, and pleasure. We also talk about the cultural narratives surrounding women's sexuality, the importance of creating safe spaces for exploration, and the need to reclaim pleasure as a vital aspect of life.

Key Takeaways:

* Feminine power includes the ability to celebrate and sustain life, along with the ability to access deep wisdom found within the body

* Cultural structures have historically excluded women's input on power

* Embodied wisdom teaches us about pleasure and connection.

* Sex and pleasure are integral to understanding feminine wisdom.

* Cultural narratives often vilify women's sexuality and pleasure and have done so for a great deal of recorded history.

* Creating safe spaces is essential for exploring sexuality.

* Eroticism is about seeking pleasure for its own sake.

* Life experiences significantly impact sexual experiences.

* Women often face challenges related to desire and intimacy.

* Self-exploration and understanding one's body are crucial for empowerment.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Sacred Feminine

03:22 Exploring Feminine Power

06:39 The Journey of Sexuality and Pleasure

11:50 Cultural Influences on Sexuality

18:22 The Complexity of Women’s Sexual Experiences

23:32 The Intersection of Life and Sexuality

29:34 The Role of Safety in Sexual Encounters

35:38 Challenges Women Face in Sexuality

40:03 Men's Perspectives on Sexuality

47:28 Empowering Women to Explore Their Sexuality

51:31 Practical Steps to Embrace Sexual Pleasure

57:04 New podcast outro 062625 - 6:26:25, 5.23 PM.mp3

Notes about this episode:

* Lisette and I referred to the Home to Her podcast episode, Becoming a Land Steward with Belinda Liu: https://player.captivate.fm/episode/68a392e1-b9c3-4b9c-9a70-5aa9994ad55c

* We also discussed the Hestia retreat centers - you can learn more about them here: https://www.hestiamagic.com/

* I referenced the virgin-whore dichotomy so many women face; you can find a description of this here: https://www.modernintimacy.com/the-psychology-of-the-madonna-whore-complex/

* Lisette referenced the work of sex and relationship therapist Esther Perel. She also mentioned two books: The Erotic Mind, by Jack Morin; and Women's Anatomy of Arousal, by Sheri Winston

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This show has ended, but I'm still available for 1:1 coaching. You can learn more and book a discovery call at www.hometoher.com.