In this episode, we’re recording right from the horse show grounds—Hannah isn’t with us today—so it’s Alexis and her horse stepping into a flat class together. Alexis opens up about the nerves that come with putting a horse in the ring for good, confidence-building experiences, even when you’re not totally sure what’s going to happen.

We talk about how differently we ride now compared to when we were juniors: more grace for ourselves, less pressure to be perfect, and a deeper focus on creating positive moments for our horses. We dive into the unique pressure that comes with riding seasoned horses, the expectations adult amateurs carry, and how much support from the community means in this sport.

Alexis also shares the real-life balancing act of being a mom and a rider—and how learning to ask for help has become part of her growth both inside and outside the arena. This episode is a celebration of the real equestrian life—the nerves, the joy, the community, the parenting juggle, and the constant balancing act of chasing your passion while caring for the horses you love. It’s a reminder that we’re all doing our best, and none of us are doing it alone.

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