Emeka and Kristen are back to pull apart the destructive edge-seeking nature of sexual, and how ‘sexy’ misses its darker motivations.

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Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews @hopelessromantwinks

Show Notes 

0:30 The Edge-Seeking Crashout Of Sexual

7:31 SX Charge Is Required To Break Out Of Child-Parental Dynamics 

13:23 We Treat Our Blindspot Like An ATM

14:59 We’re Not Conscious Of All Three Instincts

20:56 The Chemical Objectification Of Sexual

22:53 The Body’s Role In The Energetic Intercourse Of Sexual

25:46 SX Tension Undermines Any Stable Sense Of Sexiness

32:11 SX Risks Transgressing Edges Between Turn Ons And Turn Offs

33:21 The Narcissism And Self-Interest Of SX

36:56 Heath Ledger’s SX Immersion Into The Joker

39:46 The SX Risk Of Being Consumed And Torn Apart

42:49 The Mental Illness And Wounds Arising From Each Blindspot

51:45 Takanakuy As Dionysian SX Festival

57:15 SX Blood Letting Ritual To Exorcise Trauma

1:01:08 Michaela Boehm’s SX Non-Linear Movement

1:05:54 Masculine Feminine Polarity And Tension Within The Self

1:09:09 SX Spill Can Be Performative And Not Vulnerable

1:16:07 The Problem Of Being Stuck In The First Two Instincts

1:19:59 SX-Blinds Obsess Over Relationships Because SX Is Triggered There

Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and Sam (sp/so 7w6 712) use the film 'Spirited Away' to talk about journeys to the underworld, relationships, and insatiable hunger. With two opposing views on the film, the hosts make jokes and relate their ideas they find within the story and characters to personal experiences in an Enneagram context.

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Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c

Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc

Timestamps:

00:00 - Critique of Spirited Away: A Love-Hate Relationship

09:06 - Value and Identity

11:59 - No-Face

14:50 - The Underworld vs Personal Growth

23:30 - Scarcity Mentality and Instincts

28:01 - The Bathhouse as an SP Hell

33:02 - Dreams and the Underworld

37:25 - The Monster Within

40:41 - Discernment in Relationships

45:21 - The Drug of Intensity in Relationships

50:42 - Cultural Expectations of Romantic Relationships

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Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963) dissect the untamed spill of the sexual instinct and how ‘attraction’ isn’t really what it’s going for.

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Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn...

Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews @hopelessromantwinks

Show Notes 

0:27 SX Is Not Attractive Intro

3:15 ‘Attraction’ Brings Sexual Into the Social Realm

4:38 The Messy Cracks And Spills Of Sexual

9:24 Everyone Has An Instinctual Need To Get Loose And Spill

12:16 SX Is Allowing Yourself To Be Possessed By Your Unconscious

15:13 What Is Sexual Without A Romantic Object?

17:02 Youtuber Describes Sexual In Marvin Gaye 

26:10 Your Sexual Instinct Is Very Individual To You

30:01 SX/SO Patti Smith’s Weird Spills

37:28 SO/SX Jeff Goldblum’s WTF Jazz Fest 

40:59 SX/SP Bjork’s Out Of Context Whims 

48:42 SP/SX Kanye’s Unhinged Cringe

57:54 The Creative Spill Of SX Without Sexual Orientation

1:02:35 SX Is Opening Wounds And Spilling Shadow Impulses

1:08:27 Everyone Has Their Favorite SX Blanket

1:12:54 SX Wants To Engulf With Raw Vulnerable Spill

1:22:04 Every Relationship At Some Point Requires A Raw Spill

1:29:00 Why SX Leaks Are A Threat To Social

1:34:06 The Unresolved Question Mark Of SX Spill 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zUKyRXv_dRE&list=LL&index=2

Rob of AP (attitudinalpsyche.com) and Emeka discuss the recent AP retyping  drama and the enneagram-AP insights that emerged. 

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Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn...

Unrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews @hopelessromantwinks

Show Notes 

0:08 Rob’s Retyping Overhaul Intro

5:03 The Terror Of The Last Attitude

9:29 4E And Attachment Types Are The Most Common

10:56 The Curious Case Of Volition First Nines

14:38 4E Runs Away From Personally Specific Value Judgements

18:03 Evaluators Vs Experiencers And Hexad Vs Attachment

24:20 4L Fantasizers Refuse To Make Rules 

33:08 4E Baiting And Outsourcing Reactions

38:11 When Your First Attitude Is Their Fourth Attitude

48:18 What It Feels Like For Emeka To Have Both Evaluators First

52:35 4F Obsessives Not Processing Experiences And Physical Limitations

1:04:37 4V Momentizers Don’t Care About Causality 

Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and Sammy (sp/so 9w1 954) review old enneagram material as a way to relate it to the current understanding of objective enneagram typing. This is a loose discussion accompanied by a very light search of different sources to comment on.

Resources mentioned:

Carl Jung's 'Psychological Types'https://wiki.personality-database.com/books/enneagram/page/the-basic-structure-of-protoanalysis

https://www.scribd.com/doc/258057465/Naranjo-Subtypes

https://oceanmoonshine9.wordpress.com/intro-to-instinctual-subtypes/

http://fitzel.ca/enneagram/

https://www.enneagraminstitute.com/

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Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c

Unrequited enneagram thirsting and type interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinks

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc

Timestamps:

00:00 - Diving into Enneagram Sources and Influences

05:07 - Personal Journeys into the Enneagram

08:09 - The Importance of Accurate Type Descriptions

11:05 - Critiquing Common Misconceptions in Enneagram Descriptions

18:41 - Subtypes

24:22 - Enneagram Complexity

33:39 - Self-Preservation and the Yearning for Land

42:42 - Duality of Instincts in Personality Types

49:23 - The Trap of Ego Vengeance

55:35 - The Melancholy of Four

01:01:02 - The Harmlessness of Self-Preservation

01:04:58 - Enneagram Fan Fiction

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Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) is continuing the shadow series with Enneagram Type 3. In the realm of the image center, shadows start to form around shame, identity, and persona. Kristen explores different ways we can identify and have a relationship with this living material by looking at both the personal and collective shadows of type 3. If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your own 3 shadows, we’d love to hear from you ~If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~House of Enneagram Network:Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.comThe Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.comOfficial Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchoolDreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416cUnrequited Enneagram Thirsting and Type Interviews @ Hopeless Romantwinkshttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=96zqIl3sTMc Timestamps;00:00 - Introduction to the Shadow Series & Type 308:32 - Disclaimer10:29 - Shadows Within12:09 - Persona Vs. Identity15:58 - Value Vs. Productivity19:59 - Shame and Self-Monitoring24:51 - Character; attachment to success, blank slate, overly related to28:31 - Performance based on collectively agreed upon characteristics, productivity, and status30:09 - Non-Attachment Demonizing; Work-In-Progress32:28 - Collective Shadows33:16 - 'Heart'33:31 - Fake, shallow, deceitful38:54 - Assertive/Competent heart43:00 - The Golden Shadow46:21 - Personhood; necessity of persona, constantly marked by life50:22 - Perpetuating shame-based narratives52:20 - Mirroring, understanding responsibility and values#enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #typology #enneagramtype3 #enneagram3 #shadowwork

How would you torture each instinct stacking? Comment with your most diabolical takes for a chance to win a prize. Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) is joined by Valentino (SO/SX 9w1 973) and Moses (SO/SP 5w6 513) to brainstorm the most torturous hellscapes for each instinct stacking.

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Dreams and the Enneagram Resource @ ⁠https://www.inkstoryrebel.com⁠

Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn...

Show Notes 

0:08 How To Torture Each Instinct Stacking Intro

0:57 The Hopeless Romantwinks Podcast

3:04 Torturing Type SO/SX

10:53 Torturing Type SX/SO

18:08 Torturing Type SO/SP

27:32 Torturing Type SP/SO

36:31 Torturing Type SP/SX

43:45 Torturing Type SX/SP

Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963), David (sp/sx 9w1 974), and Moses (so/sp 5w6 513) engage in a discussion about Jung's cognitive functions along with other elements of typological systems and personality. The conversation eventually derails into many different channels of the topic as the hosts deal with technical issues and general dialogue shifts. Enjoy!

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Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416c

Timestamps:

00:00 - Understanding Cognitive Functions

29:38 - Masculine vs. Feminine Modalities

35:51 - The Connection Between Images and Experience

43:16 - Exploring the Ego-Self Axis and Dreams

47:16 - Multiplicity vs. Singularity in Dream Interpretation

50:22 - The Apollonian and Dionysian Dichotomy

53:23 - Future Conversations and Unfinished Business

#enneagram #enneagramtypes #personalitytypes #typology #carljung #jungianpsychology

Emeka (SX/SP 8w7 854) and Kristen (SO/SP 9w1 963) continue the abyss series with an attempt at making sense of their adventures into the backrooooms of consciousness. 

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Dreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvkn...

Show Notes 

0:14 What Was Your Experience Of The Backrooms?

6:44 The Backrooms As A Formless Abyss 

8:58 4-5 Area As Severed Impersonal Consciousness

11:34 Perceiving With Imaginal Senses

14:15 4-5 Severing And Depersonalization

16:16 8 vs 9 Reactions On The Creativity Of Misery

19:30 Surrendering To The Depersonalization Of The 4-5 Abyss

27:13 Dreams Are Inherently Tied To Death

31:09 The 4-5 Space And The Name That Nobody Knows

36:23 Confronting Mortality And The Collective Unconscious Of 9

44:33 Confusing Unconscious Material With The Other World

48:25 The Backrooms As Theater Of The Unconscious

Kristen (so/sp 9w1 963) and Celia (sp/so 6w5 613) discuss the idea of wrath in the language of the Enneagram with forces such as frustration, reactivity, or rejection driving the expression and interpretation of anger. The two hosts talk about feminine anger being conflated with the 'Karen' archetype, further distorting the personal and collective understanding of rage. Personal experiences, varying collective conversations, and systemic issues are all explored in this conversation, making it an expansive understanding of how this energy moves through us as human beings.If you’re watching this on YouTube, please like and subscribe. Comment about your experience with superego, wrath, or the 'Karen' archetype; we’d love to hear from you ~If you’re listening to this as a podcast, please follow and rate/review ~House of Enneagram Network:Official Typing Team @ https://www.enneagrammer.comThe Enneagram School @ https://www.theenneagramschool.comOfficial Typing/Inner Work Modality Interviews @ What It’s Like To Be You (YouTube/Spotify/Apple podcast) https://www.youtube.com/@TheEnneagramSchoolDreams and the Enneagram Podcast @ Sinsomnia (Spotify/Apple podcast) https://open.spotify.com/show/5I8hvknTdatmtSvW8LGMCM?si=f76019854909416cTimestamps:00:00 - Anger and wrath07:17 - Witnessing brokenness and grief10:24 - Righteous indignation13:25 - Cultural narratives and personal anger28:23 - The nature of destruction and repair41:42 - Misogyny and the perception of angry women52:12 - Superego 58:00 - Integrity and personal autonomy01:01:01 - Navigating anger and mistrust#enneagram #enneagramtypes #anger #personalitytypes #wrath #karens #superego #psychology