How Do You Want To Be Seen?

How Do You Want To Be Seen?

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How Do You Want To Be Seen? episodes

  • "I want to be seen as a cross between David Bowie..and a fat English nanny." Becky Karush

    There's not a lot I can say to follow up with that title. But I'll try.  Becky is a creative writer.  She does help businesses find the words to promote their brand.  But she's also just a lover of words.  She provides a safe, welcoming atmosphere to explore writing, even for those of us who have a bit of a hesitation around writing.  She calls these experiences Gateless Writing Salons.  Its just sounds nice, doesn't it?  Listen to Becky describe her experience with writing and then...here you go, here's her web site.  

    If anyone has attended these salons and would be willing share their experience I think it would be a great opportunity for others to feel a bit more comfortable to at least look into it.  And thanks!

    Some time back I had a conversation with another creative writer. I mentioned her in this episode and feel compelled to share her link here too.  I get the sense Becky won't mind.  Cheyenne Vaughn

    38 min
  • "I want to be seen as someone where others will say: 'If you did that, I know I can, and I will too'." Heather Sweeney

    Heather Sweeney, like so many of us has worked through those difficult times.  That's not why her story is one to share; it's because of how she did it and what she's learned along the way.  

    In our conversation she shared quite a bit about the projects she's supporting through nonprofit organizations.  If you'd like to learn more ask her.  And in the meantime, here are some relevant links.

    Team In Training   Climb 2 Cure {Kilimanjaro) 

    The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society (LLS)

    Thank you Heather for you decision to be positive and to share with others your strength, empathy and compassion.  

    Photo credit goes to Kristin Hardwick.

    33 min
  • "My Interest is My Blocks...What Keeps You Stuck..." Jeanne Demers

    "Out of your vulnerabilities will come your strengths." Sigmund Freud 

    Can our weaknesses, our 'soft spots' really lead us to our strengths?

    This is the second time Jeanne has been on the podcast.  I was first introduced to Jeanne as an EFT Tapping coach.  She's still offering that to her clients. But as you'll hear in our conversation Jeanne is welcoming the reality of change and growth and learning from past unpleasant circumstances.

    See how she's developing programs to help you use your vulnerabilities to produce your greatest strengths.  And to learn more about how EFT Tapping works, especially if you are having money issues, enjoy our previous conversation.  

    34 min
  • "I want to be seen as a person that is caring, passionate about life, and about possibility." Diana Place-Third Act Quest"I want to be seen as person that is caring...passionate about life, and about

    "Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?"

    Mary Oliver

    Do you know?  How long has it been since you asked yourself that question, or one like it?  A simple life is a good life.  A purposeless life, not so.  And the thing is, we all can reach for and attain that which fills us.  Diana Place, of Third Act Quest has decided not only to do that but to be a resource for others who would like find what fills them.  Unfortunately I had to limit our conversation's time but you can learn more by visiting Diana.  She's got big plans.

    “Live Now, Live Forward: Designing your ‘Third Act’”

    A transformational four-week online workshop that will guide you to create a plan for the life of your dreams.

    When is the last time you took the time to create a plan for your life?  For most people, the answer is never.

    This workshop is for you if you're 50+, wondering what's next.  It's for you if you'd love to unearth your dreams, rise above all the stress and uncertainty to explore your life's possibilities.   You'll be guided through a step by step process including video instruction, an online course & weekly small group coaching calls with me.   At the end of 4 weeks you will have designed a life framework for your future, full of joy and meaning-- your "Third Act".   Summer Sessions start July 9, July 23, & August 6.  The workshop is designed to take only 3 hours per week.

    Links for Information, Testimonials and to set up a Call with me to see if this program is right for you:

    "Live Forward" online workshop Info and Sign up
    Third Act Quest's 2020 offerings -- coaching, workshops and events
    Testimonials
    Set up Call with me with questions and to see if this program is right for you

    44 min
  • "I Want To Be Seen As Somebody Who Makes A Difference" ~ Liz Wyman
    "To be courageous, we must be willing to surrender our perfectionism, if only for a moment.  If my self-worth is attached to being flawless why would I ever try to learn anything new?  After all, learning requires mistakes." Vironika Tugaleva
    We all admit to imperfection, we recognize it as an indivisible part of being human.  But when faced with specific imperfections, or when our striving for excellence escorts us over the line into perfectionism we often find ourselves feeling unsettled.  What some see as an admirable attribute, that of reaching beyond excellence is in fact paralyzing to many.  
    Listen to Liz Wyman share her experience of falling into a 'dark place' and how she traded in fear for love.  
    In this episode I mention a book called You Are Not A Rock.  It was referred to me by a dear friend.  I'm not a therapist and so am not recommending this book as treatment, but I'm finding it to be a good read.  I also refer to Car Van Leuven  (I mention her but not by name).  I want to link my conversation with Cara because of her own process of reaching for excellence and finding joy and contentment.  Here's a look at Cara's paintings.  (Photo credit of Liz goes to Miss MegaBug (Meg Brown).)
    44 min
  • Melissa Scherer ~ Fitness, Nutrition & Transformation

    "Growth must be chosen again and again.  Fear must be overcome again and again."   Abraham Maslow

    It is true that with growth and transformation there is often challenges.  But for those who face those challenges the results can be so satisfying, even life-changing.

    Melissa Scherer is a fitness & nutrition coach working remotely with her clients long before it was a thing.  Tailoring her plans to fit the individual needs of each person.

    The conversation also mentions Sue Bruce Photography a successful, inspiring photographer who has helped me shape my business.  She deserves to be credited.

    33 min
  • "Growing Up Girl' ~ Lori Pedrick

    'We are all products of our past, but we don't have to be prisoners of them."  Rick Warren, The Purpose Driven Life

    That's a tough one.  For so many of the experiences that have molded us feel immovable.  And it's true, they are a part of us.  But must they determine every bit about us?  Must our futures be dictated by events that happened, oftentimes long before we had any control over our lives?

    Lori Pedrick, a local photographer, has created a project giving voice to the experiences of her clients.  While I love reflecting the beauty I see in my clients, Lori allows her subjects to contribute their voice in a very real way, providing short essays in their own words.

    I wish I could have included our entire conversation, all 90 minutes of it! But here, I hope you enjoy the sincerity of Lori's vision.

    Site: LoriPedrick.com 

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    I'll be back in two weeks.  Thank you for listening.  And if you know of someone whose story should be heard, someone who answer to the question, 'How do you want to be seen' would inspire and motivate, please make the introductions.

    35 min
  • "I want to be seen as a person who will hear you." Cheyenne Vaughn ~ Creative Writing Coach

    Somewhere along the way we let go of the power of the written word.  Not all of us, of course, but it's undeniable that society today relies less on telling heartfelt stories in a way they once did.  With 280 character limits and the immediacy of social media in general the lost art of putting pen to paper seems to be left to generations past.  

    But words matter.  Using the 'right' words matters.  Sitting with our thoughts and feelings can help us find our thoughts and feelings and put them into words.  Cheyenne is a copywriter, she helps small businesses choose the words to represent their business.  But she also encourages those with the inclination to use the written word in expressing themselves personally.  

    This lighthearted conversation was a long time coming.  I enjoyed it so much.  Here's Cheyenne's Facebook.

    In the episode I mentioned a local photographer Lisa Scoville. She's creating powerful images, telling the stories of those in her community as they deal, upfront with the Covid19 crisis.  Please visit her page.  

    29 min
  • "I want to be seen as free....to be whimsical, to be creative" Julie Trieb; Creator of Designs by JuJu

    "Creativity is contagious...pass it on,"  

    Albert Einstein is credited with saying that.  I don't know if it's true, but I'd like to think so.  I love the idea of a brilliant mind attributing value to creativity....and to passing it on.   Julie Trieb, originator and owner of Designs by JuJu started a company for the love of creativity; her own and to see others’ grow.

    After hearing our conversation be sure to meet Julie.  And be sure to share with someone you know has gobs of creativity but maybe doesn’t know where to go with it.

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    27 min
  • "I See Myself Being Here For You." Jillian Miner Wellness

    "No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another.”

                                                                                                                         Charles Dickens

    We live in a world that creates burdens, burdens that are often just too heavy to bear on our own.  As the stresses of life mount we often find ourselves making less-than stellar food choices.  Some do their best but still feel stuck.  It can be a lot, dealing with life when you're feeling unwell.  

    My guest today is Jillian Miner of Jillian Miner Wellness.  In an area full of holistic practitioners, nutritionists, fitness instructors, there are many choices to hone in on your well being.  Jillian offers an exceptional product to help you know where to start.  Enjoy my conversation and go to her with your questions.  

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    37 min

About How Do You Want To Be Seen?

From the publisher's feed

Asking, discussing, and answering the question, How do you want to be seen? Far, far more than how we want to look, or even how were are looked at.