How To Get A Grip

How To Get A Grip

By Matthew KimberleyBusinessEducation
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How To Get A Grip episodes

  • How To Make Selling Your Coaching Services Easier

    Why is selling someone else's product easier than selling your services? So many people approach me asking for advice about this particular problem. While I am no psychologist, I find that many people tend to have personal problems disguised as business problems. The good news is that there are ways to overcome these personal struggles; you just need to know how to disassociate your own identity from the role you provide.

    In this episode, I look at why it's harder to sell your services instead of someone else's. I talk about the difference in standards we have when employed by someone else and when we are self-employed. I share some ways to help overcome the difficulty of selling your services. I also give an audience shout out to Otiti Jasmine for her wonderful review.

    "When you are employed by somebody else you have to hold yourself up to a certain standard. You have to do the marketing activity, or you get fired. You have to have the sales meetings, or you get fired. When you become self-employed you don't always hold yourself to the same standard."-Matthew Kimberley

    This week on Book Yourself Solid® Marketing For Coaches Podcast:

    • An Audience Shout Out to Otiti Jasmine
    • Reasons why people struggle to sell their services and not someone else’s
    • My Action Based Coaching Plan
    • Defining a sales job and how it reflects on our value
    • Selling a persona instead of selling yourself
    • How to determine what personal information you share contributes to your brand
    • Why a patented intellectual process can help you overcome selling yourself

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Podkite
    • Otiti Jasmine
    • The Coaching Industry in Crisis? Ruth Kudzi Weighs In
    • A Red Velvet Rope Policy for Your Coaching Business
    • How Coaches Should Answer the Question “Can I Pick Your Brain?”
    • Mike Michalowicz Podcast
    • Book Yourself Solid
    • You Can’t Teach a Kid to Ride a Bike At a Seminar, by David Sandler 

    Get More Clients in 60 Days!

    Did you know there are five simple things you can do each morning that can help you get more client inquiries, book yourself solid, and skyrocket your bottom line?

    My free e-book: Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients In 60 Days walks you through 5 easy, straight-forward, and effective marketing strategies that I recommend to every coach. These five simple techniques will almost guarantee you achieve increased impact, opportunity, and prospect flow.

    So, if you’re ready to get more clients, reduce stress, and increase your bottom line, claim your free copy of the Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients in 60 Days by visiting my website.

    Get More Leads, Prospects & Clients

    Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Book Yourself Solid’s Marketing for Coaches podcast, the show that talks about marketing...for coaches. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to the show and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts.

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    16 min
  • Guidance On The Subject of Drug Abuse

    Is the company you keep affecting your professional reputation? Business can be just like grade school in that you can be judged harshly by the people you associate with. If you hang out with business professionals who never deliver on their word, you may develop that reputation by association. It's vital to be aware of how others can tarnish your reputation in a personality-based business.

    In this episode, I share a cautionary tale from my boarding school days about why I was selected for a drug test despite never doing drugs. I share why I felt this was an unfair association for me but use this as a warning about the company you keep with your business. I talk about the importance of knowing your company values and why personality-based businesses are so dependent on reputations.

    "It takes a long time to build a reputation and a few minutes to undo it."-Matthew Kimberley

    This week on Book Yourself Solid® Marketing For Coaches Podcast:

    • What my boarding school experience was like
    • The reason I was selected for a drug test at school despite never doing drugs
    • How my boarding school experience relates to the company you keep in your business
    • Why you need to take a hard look at your business values
    • Why the company you keep has a major impact on a personality-based business

     

    Get More Clients in 60 Days!

    Did you know there are five simple things you can do each morning that can help you get more client inquiries, book yourself solid, and skyrocket your bottom line?

    My free e-book: Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients In 60 Days walks you through 5 easy, straight-forward, and effective marketing strategies that I recommend to every coach. These five simple techniques will almost guarantee you achieve increased impact, opportunity, and prospect flow.

    So, if you’re ready to get more clients, reduce stress, and increase your bottom line, claim your free copy of the Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients in 60 Days by visiting my website.

    Get More Leads, Prospects & Clients

    Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Book Yourself Solid’s Marketing for Coaches podcast, the show that talks about marketing...for coaches. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to the show and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts.

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    Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more coaches, like you.

    Join the Book Yourself Solid Facebook Group, follow me on Instagram and LinkedIn. And for more exclusive content and great freebies, visit my website.

    14 min
  • Be More Magnetic By Creating A Common Enemy

    Do you have a common enemy that your audience can rally behind? We often hear the term magnetic personality to describe someone that attracts all the clients, but no one seems to remember that magnetic personalities must also repel. If you are willing to share your strong opinions about something or someone you hate, this can help you stand out as a rallying point for your audience.

    In this episode, I share how to make your personal marketing brand more magnetic. I talk about how you show up in the world let people know what you're for or against. I clarify the difference between taking positions against others and public bullying. I also discuss how leading with negativity attracts the wrong kind of crowd.

    "You want to be the kind of person is invited back onto stages, onto panels, onto television shows, and give your comments to the press, and you're only going to do this if you have a strong opinion." -Matthew Kimberley

    This week on Book Yourself Solid® Marketing For Coaches Podcast:

    • Finding a common enemy for people to rally against
    • Letting people know what you’re against by how you show up in the world
    • How to create a flippant enemy by using “I hate” statements
    • The difference between being against someone and public bullying
    • Why you should never lead with negativity

    Get More Clients in 60 Days!

    Did you know there are five simple things you can do each morning that can help you get more client inquiries, book yourself solid, and skyrocket your bottom line?

    My free e-book: Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients In 60 Days walks you through 5 easy, straight-forward, and effective marketing strategies that I recommend to every coach. These five simple techniques will almost guarantee you achieve increased impact, opportunity, and prospect flow.

    So, if you’re ready to get more clients, reduce stress, and increase your bottom line, claim your free copy of the Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients in 60 Days by visiting my website.

    Get More Leads, Prospects & Clients

    Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Book Yourself Solid’s Marketing for Coaches podcast, the show that talks about marketing...for coaches. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to the show and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts.

    Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | Spotify | Stitcher | iHeartRadio | GooglePlay

    Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more coaches, like you.

    Join the Book Yourself Solid Facebook Group, follow me on Instagram and LinkedIn. And for more exclusive content and great freebies, visit my website.

    13 min
  • How Much Should You Give Away For Free?

    Is there a point to joining a coaching program if all the information is freely accessible? It may seem that there is no need to pay a coach if all the information is freely available, but no one is paying for information. What truly makes a coach valuable is their perspective and insight that cannot come from passively reading information.

    In this episode, I talk about why it’s better to give away your highly valuable information. I clarify why a coach’s services are still valuable despite giving away free information. I also discuss why appealing to your client’s emotional side is just as important as their logical side.

    “You’re never paying for the information; you’re paying for the result that comes with the information.”

    -Matthew Kimberley

    This week on Book Yourself Solid® Marketing For Coaches Podcast:

    • Why you want to give away highly valuable information
    • The only instances where information is a highly traded commodity
    • Pre-framing the value of the information you give away
    • What is passive consumption?
    • How a coach is still relevant if all the valuable information is freely accessible
    • The importance of appealing to the emotional and logical sides of a client
    • Being able to present the same information in multiple ways

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Book Yourself Solid

    Get More Clients in 60 Days!

    Did you know there are five simple things you can do each morning that can help you get more client inquiries, book yourself solid, and skyrocket your bottom line?

    My free e-book: Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients In 60 Days walks you through 5 easy, straight-forward, and effective marketing strategies that I recommend to every coach. These five simple techniques will almost guarantee you achieve increased impact, opportunity, and prospect flow.

    So, if you’re ready to get more clients, reduce stress, and increase your bottom line, claim your free copy of the Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients in 60 Days by visiting my website.

    Get More Leads, Prospects & Clients

    Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Book Yourself Solid’s Marketing for Coaches podcast, the show that talks about marketing...for coaches. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to the show and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts.

    Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | Spotify | Stitcher | iHeartRadio | GooglePlay

    Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more coaches, like you.

    Join the Book Yourself Solid Facebook Group, follow me on Instagram and LinkedIn. And for more exclusive content and great freebies, visit my website.

    12 min
  • Clubhouse for Coaches - Yes or No?

    Do you really need to be on Clubhouse? Everyone is talking about how it's a must-have marketing tool. In fact, some people are already crushing it on Clubhouse, but that doesn't mean that this will be a great fit for your business. Having a great marketing platform does not always equal business development. What is more important is that you think about how you spend your time, energy, and attention.

    In this episode, I share my thoughts on Clubhouse, and why I am not jumping on it just yet. I discuss the opportunity costs of new marketing tools and how to see if they fits within your market. I also share some thoughts from an email conversation I had with my friend Ian Brodie and the increase of marketing noise.

    “It does represent a fantastic opportunity. The question is, with Clubhouse or with anything else, can you afford the opportunity cost?” - Matthew Kimberley

    This week on Book Yourself Solid® Marketing For Coaches Podcast:

    • The increase in “marketing noise” in 2021
    • Lead Generation through broadcasting platforms
    • How marketing platforms don’t always convert into business development
    • The opportunity cost of new marketing tools
    • Asking what are the businesses in your field doing?

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Book Yourself Solid
    • Ian Brodie

    Get More Clients in 60 Days!

    Did you know there are five simple things you can do each morning that can help you get more client enquiries, book yourself solid, and skyrocket your bottom line?

    My free e-book: Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients In 60 Days walks you through 5 easy, straight-forward, and effective marketing strategies that I recommend to every coach. These five simple techniques will almost guarantee you achieve increased impact, opportunity, and prospect flow.

    So, if you’re ready to get more clients, reduce stress, and increase your bottom line, claim your free copy of the Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients in 60 Days by visiting my website.

    Get More Leads, Prospects & Clients

    Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Book Yourself Solid’s Marketing for Coaches podcast, the show that talks about marketing...for coaches. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to the show and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts.

    Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | Spotify | Stitcher | iHeartRadio | GooglePlay

    Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more coaches, like you.

    Join the Book Yourself Solid Facebook Group, follow me on Instagram and LinkedIn. And for more exclusive content and great freebies, visit my website.

    10 min
  • Money for Coaches

    Are you in control of your money or is your money in control of you? Many people can maintain a balance sheet, but that doesn’t necessarily mean they know if they’re on track to hit their meeting their sales goals, or where their cash flow will be in the future. It’s vital for you to be aware of how your money is working for you, and more importantly, make sure you don’t run out of it!

    In this episode, I share some tools that I use and recommend to clients to help manage your budget. I discuss simple methods to help monitor your sales goals as well as more complex goals to help you build up your cash flow projections. I also provide resources to help you learn more about managing your money and services that will help make this process easier for you.

    “You should be able to tell in your small business at any one point, how much money you earned year to date.” - Matthew Kimberley

    This week on Book Yourself Solid® Marketing For Coaches Podcast:

    • Why you should know how your money is working
    • Using a dashboard to monitor your sales goals
    • How revenue numbers help determine if you’re on track for your sales goals
    • The Post-It Note approach
    • Why Thrivecart is a great tool for monitoring your income
    • Why it’s always better to leave bookkeeping to the professionals
    • How cash flow budgeting tools can help you make smarter budgetary decisions
    • How much time you should spend on reviewing your budget

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Book Yourself Solid
    • Bench
    • You Need a Budget
    • Thrivecart
    • Profit for Coaches

     

    Get More Clients in 60 Days!

     

    Did you know there are five simple things you can do each morning that can help you get more client enquiries, book yourself solid, and skyrocket your bottom line?

     

    My free e-book: Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients In 60 Days walks you through 5 easy, straight-forward, and effective marketing strategies that I recommend to every coach. These five simple techniques will almost guarantee you achieve increased impact, opportunity, and prospect flow.

     

    So, if you’re ready to get more clients, reduce stress, and increase your bottom line, claim your free copy of the Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients in 60 Days by visiting my website.

     

     

    Get More Leads, Prospects & Clients

     

    Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Book Yourself Solid’s Marketing for Coaches podcast, the show that talks about marketing...for coaches. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to the show and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts.

     

    Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | Spotify | Stitcher | iHeartRadio | GooglePlay

     

    Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more coaches, like you.

     

    Join the Book Yourself Solid Facebook Group, follow me on Instagram and LinkedIn. And for more exclusive content and great freebies, visit my website.

     

    18 min
  • The Coaching Industry In Crisis? Ruth Kudzi Weighs In

     

     

    Ruth Kudzi is a business coach who helps her clients leverage their leadership skills and build their resilience, so they have businesses that represent them. In addition to her own successful coaching business and as a former Deputy Head Teacher and accredited trainer she wanted to create her own academy to support people in becoming coaches. Her coaching certification program combines a variety of approaches including neuroscience, positive psychology, personality profiling, normative models, and transactional analysis.

     

    In this episode, Ruth and I discuss the coaching crisis in the UK that is caused by an influx of coaching programs that simply promise to make money quickly, and the increase skeptical clients. Ruth talks about the importance of shifting your client’s mindsets to improve the quality and integrity of your coaching program.  We discuss the ethics of selling and how to properly use, not abuse, these techniques, and when to say, “I cannot help you”. Ruth also shares some advice on how to build your first 10 clients.

     

    “If you’re really going to change people’s behavior, you have to go deeper because otherwise it’s like just building a house with no foundation. So, I think a coach needs to understand what’s going on in people’s brains."- Ruth Kudzi

     

    This week on Book Yourself Solid® Marketing For Coaches Podcast:

     

    • Why clients are becoming more skeptical of coaching programs
    • The need to go deeper with clients and shift mindsets
    • The difference between coaching, consulting, and mentorship
    • How do we know if we need a coach? and how to choose one.
    • What role mental health plays in coaching.
    • Learning when to say “I cannot help you.”
    • The slippery slope of sales tactics and emotional vulnerability
    • How building long-term relationships are better than any sales tactic
    • How to build your first 10 clients

     

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Book Yourself Solid
    • Kudzi Coach Academy
    • Million Dollar Coach

     

    Get More Clients in 60 Days!

     

    Did you know there are five simple things you can do each morning that can help you get more client enquiries, book yourself solid, and skyrocket your bottom line?

     

    My free e-book: Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients In 60 Days walks you through 5 easy, straight-forward, and effective marketing strategies that I recommend to every coach. These five simple techniques will almost guarantee you achieve increased impact, opportunity, and prospect flow.

     

    So, if you’re ready to get more clients, reduce stress, and increase your bottom line, claim your free copy of the Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients in 60 Days by visiting my website.

     

     

    Get More Leads, Prospects & Clients

     

    Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Book Yourself Solid’s Marketing for Coaches podcast, the show that talks about marketing...for coaches. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to the show and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts.

     

    Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | Spotify | Stitcher | iHeartRadio | GooglePlay

     

    Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more coaches, like you.

     

    Join the Book Yourself Solid Facebook Group, follow me on Instagram and LinkedIn. And for more exclusive content and great freebies, visit my website.

     

    26 min
  • Get Uncomfortable To Grow Your Coaching Business

     

     

    Does this episode make you uncomfortable? Comfort is a dangerous place to be in your business. When coaches get comfortable, it makes it hard to accomplish the tasks they dislike which can halt the growth in their business. Even if you're not looking to grow, as a coach you very rarely have one client that will take care of you forever. The only way to move through that is to work through what makes you uncomfortable and keep doing it.

     

    In this episode, I discuss why it's important to work through your discomfort and how getting comfortable can kill your business. I provide examples from my life when I had to work through discomfort and what I did to overcome it. I also give an actionable step you can do to start working on overcoming your discomfort.

     

    “By expanding your comfort zone, your business benefits in ways that you never thought would be possible had you not been the sticking block or the barrier to growth by confusing yourself with your business."- Matthew Kimberley

     

    This week on Book Yourself Solid® Marketing For Coaches Podcast:

     

    • Why discomfort relates to growth
    • The importance of repetition
    • The Kimberly Kids Kidney Concept
    • How to mitigate comfortability
    • My examples of getting over discomfort
    • What can make people uncomfortable in their business
    • Actionable ideas to start getting over discomfort

     

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Book Yourself Solid
    • Single Malt Mastermind

     

    Get More Clients in 60 Days!

     

    Did you know there are five simple things you can do each morning that can help you get more client enquiries, book yourself solid, and skyrocket your bottom line?

     

    My free e-book: Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients In 60 Days walks you through 5 easy, straight-forward, and effective marketing strategies that I recommend to every coach. These five simple techniques will almost guarantee you achieve increased impact, opportunity, and prospect flow.

     

    So, if you’re ready to get more clients, reduce stress, and increase your bottom line, claim your free copy of the Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients in 60 Days by visiting my website.

     

     

    Get More Leads, Prospects & Clients

     

    Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Book Yourself Solid’s Marketing for Coaches podcast, the show that talks about marketing...for coaches. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to the show and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts.

     

    Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | Spotify | Stitcher | iHeartRadio | GooglePlay

     

    Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more coaches, like you.

     

    Join the Book Yourself Solid Facebook Group, follow me on Instagram and LinkedIn. And for more exclusive content and great freebies, visit my website.

     

    11 min
  • Valuable Actionable Nonsense

     

     

    Is there a correlation between valuable and actionable content? Everyone is trying to provide content that provides value to everyone, but it's difficult to create it when everyone has a different set of values. Instead, I want you to focus your energy elsewhere, and develop a magnetic personality that attracts clients that will want to work with you.

     

    In this episode, I talk about why actionable and valuable content are not so important to your business. I explain how making a stance or even picking an enemy develops magnetism when attracting clients. I also give you an exercise to work on developing your magnetism.   

     

    “What's the correlation between valuable and actionable? Very little apart from specific periods of time when your washing machine breaks down."- Matthew Kimberley

     

    This week on Book Yourself Solid® Marketing For Coaches Podcast:

     

    • The meaning of valuable content
    • Determining what is valuable in your life
    • When actionable content is important
    • Why you don't need content to be actionable and valuable
    • Why should choose an enemy
    • Why standing for or against something causes magnetism

     

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Book Yourself Solid
    • Single Malt Mastermind

     

    Get More Clients in 60 Days!

     

    Did you know there are five simple things you can do each morning that can help you get more client enquiries, book yourself solid, and skyrocket your bottom line?

     

    My free e-book: Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients In 60 Days walks you through 5 easy, straight-forward, and effective marketing strategies that I recommend to every coach. These five simple techniques will almost guarantee you achieve increased impact, opportunity, and prospect flow.

     

    So, if you’re ready to get more clients, reduce stress, and increase your bottom line, claim your free copy of the Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients in 60 Days by visiting my website.

     

     

    Get More Leads, Prospects & Clients

     

    Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Book Yourself Solid’s Marketing for Coaches podcast, the show that talks about marketing...for coaches. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to the show and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts.

     

    Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | Spotify | Stitcher | iHeartRadio | GooglePlay

     

    Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more coaches, like you.

     

    Join the Book Yourself Solid Facebook Group, follow me on Instagram and LinkedIn. And for more exclusive content and great freebies, visit my website.

     

    11 min
  • How To Get Your Family To Support Your Coaching Business

     

     

    Does your family support you and your business endeavors? Some entrepreneurs and coaches are fortunate to have spouses that support them 100% of the way, but that doesn't mean their family can’t pressures of finances, quality family time, and responsibility. Communication is the most important part of balancing your work and your family to help them support you, but also to make sure that you are there for them when they need you.

     

    In this episode, I talk about the family dynamic and the areas that can cause tension with your family when you are building your own business. I share my own experiences with changing family dynamics and how that has changed over time. I also share how to show appreciation to your family for giving you the trust and opportunity to pursue your dream. 

     

    “We got to make sure our emotional energy, our attention, affection, and time, definitely our time, is dedicated in the required quantities in order to maintain the equilibrium"- Matthew Kimberley

     

    This week on Book Yourself Solid® Marketing For Coaches Podcast:

     

    • What it means to be self-employed when you are the bread winner
    • The energy dynamic of family
    • Spousal agreements and shared responsibilities
    • My experience balancing my family’s needs
    • The areas that can cause tensions when building your business
    • The difference between meaningful contributions and minimal contributions
    • How to repay your family’s faith and trust

     

    Resources Mentioned:

    • Book Yourself Solid
    • Single Malt Mastermind

     

    Get More Clients in 60 Days!

     

    Did you know there are five simple things you can do each morning that can help you get more client enquiries, book yourself solid, and skyrocket your bottom line?

     

    My free e-book: Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients In 60 Days walks you through 5 easy, straight-forward, and effective marketing strategies that I recommend to every coach. These five simple techniques will almost guarantee you achieve increased impact, opportunity, and prospect flow.

     

    So, if you’re ready to get more clients, reduce stress, and increase your bottom line, claim your free copy of the Five Things You Need To Do Every Morning To Get You More Clients in 60 Days by visiting my website.

     

     

    Get More Leads, Prospects & Clients

     

    Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of Book Yourself Solid’s Marketing for Coaches podcast, the show that talks about marketing...for coaches. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe to the show and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts.

     

    Apple Podcasts | TuneIn | Spotify | Stitcher | iHeartRadio | GooglePlay

     

    Be sure to share your favorite episodes on social media to help me reach more coaches, like you.

     

    Join the Book Yourself Solid Facebook Group, follow me on Instagram and LinkedIn. And for more exclusive content and great freebies, visit my website.

     

    18 min

About How To Get A Grip

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I'm Matthew Kimberley and here at How To Get A Grip I question your favorite entrepreneurs' sanity. Specifically, I ask: "what keeps you sane?" For some it's morning meditation, for others it's…