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Ever found yourself arguing in front of kids - and then spiraling about whether you’ve just done irreversible damage? You're not alone.
In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Laura Spiller, clinical psychologist and expert in emotionally focused therapy, to unpack what to do after arguing in front of kids, how to repair with your child, and why your response after the conflict matters just as much - if not more - than the argument itself.
We get into the research, the long term effects of parents fighting, and how you can use these tough moments as teachable ones - without oversharing or sweeping it under the rug.
We also talk about what happens when parents arguing in front of child repeatedly, and the subtle but serious effects of yelling at spouse in front of child - something that happens more often than we’d like to admit.
In this episode, we cover:
Listen now to learn what to say, when to say it, and how to parent well even after arguing in front of kids.
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Ever found yourself arguing in front of kids - and then spiraling about whether you’ve just done irreversible damage? You're not alone.
In this episode, I’m joined by Dr. Laura Spiller, clinical psychologist and expert in emotionally focused therapy, to unpack what to do after arguing in front of kids, how to repair with your child, and why your response after the conflict matters just as much - if not more - than the argument itself.
We get into the research, the long term effects of parents fighting, and how you can use these tough moments as teachable ones - without oversharing or sweeping it under the rug.
We also talk about what happens when parents arguing in front of child repeatedly, and the subtle but serious effects of yelling at spouse in front of child - something that happens more often than we’d like to admit.
In this episode, we cover:
Listen now to learn what to say, when to say it, and how to parent well even after arguing in front of kids.
LET'S CONNECT:
Thriving Child Center
PCIT Experts
Calm and Connected Program
Love having expert tips you can actually use? Join our newsletter and get a beautifully designed PDF of each episode’s top 3 takeaways - delivered straight to your inbox every week.
Are you a provider? Subscribe here for professional insights and parenting resources!
CONNECT WITH DR. LAURA SPILLER:
Website
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