Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray

Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray

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Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray episodes

  • 59 | Gaslighty

    The BiFFs go back to Ask Oloni of SimplyOloni.com this week. Topics include exposing an old flame to an STI in a non-consensual, monogamous relationship; convincing oneself to stay in a relationship because of your partner's mental health; apologizing to your man because of his insecurities; and what to do when oral sex isn't reciprocated. [A to Z Wineworks Bubbles Sparkling Rose]

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    49 min
  • 58 | Hang On To Your Diapies

    This week, the BiFFs mix it up with Amy and Annie this episode, covering: an exes dark secret plaguing a Mom, a secret girl-friend of two years with a lover less than half his age, & a writer leaving an emotionally abusive relationship facing a moral obstacle. [VOGA Italia Pinot Grigio, 2021]

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    59 min
  • 57 | Side of Raunch

    This week, the BiFFs take to the Slate's "How To Do It" column to discuss a woman treating her husband's affair as personal entertainment, the ethics of removing a condom mid-sex, and the type of porn you might need to be watching to prove that you're straight. [Château Recougne Bordeaux Supérieur, 2018]

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    1 hr 29 min
  • 56 | Utilize Your Urethra

    Reflecting on the NY Times’, the Ethicist, the BiFFs try their hand at providing moral and ethical guidance regarding a mother’s confession of infidelity following her husband’s death, a writer who wonders if the murder she witnessed is canon, and the ethical responsibility to reveal that the death of a son was due to an overdose. [La Marca Prosecco]

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    1 hr 3 min
  • 55 | He Shan’t Advise

    The BiFFs talk through the guidance of Advice Goddess Amy Alkon. An unsupportive best friend isn’t your best friend. A husband trying to “show up” stirs up memories of hate and deceit. Paper thin walls allow a neighbor to eavesdrop on another’s verbal abuse. Girl’s night turns into a discussion about the value of “I’m sorry.” [Cloud No. 9 Sauvignon Blanc, 2017]

    Send us your questions, feedback, &/or wine recommendations to [email protected].

    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

    1 hr 3 min
  • 54 | Auntie AITA

    The BiFFs take to Reddit’s Am I the Asshole (AITA) thread. Topics include wall demolishing tongs, taking away your maid of honor’s “plus-three,” dirty underwear in exchange for groceries, and cutting out on your son’s wedding to be with his ex-wife. [Bodega Garzon Cabernet Franc, 2019]

    Send us your questions, feedback, &/or wine recommendations to [email protected].

    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

    55 min
  • 53 | That’s Cough With An ’L’

    Workplace wet dreams. Kids' similarities to their father trigger mom. Crazy ex-girlfriend gets ballsy. It gets personal with Little Village Mag’s Dear Kiki. All that and more from the Biffs in this week’s episode. [Mauro Molino Barbera d'Alba, 2020]

    Send us your questions, feedback, &/or wine recommendations to [email protected].

    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

    40 min
  • 52 | Walking Bowel Syndrome

    The BiFFs revisit the Urban Diplomat this week. One writer teeters between shame and falling from grace. A peeper complains that her neighbor is peeping. Lemonade and ball-hockey piss off an abutting neighbor. And do ear infections really put hair on your chest? [Bancroft Estates Sauvignon Blanc, 2021]

    Send us your questions, feedback, &/or wine recommendations to [email protected].

    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

    1 hr 3 min

About Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray

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Ill Advised with Stefani and Ray is a comedy-advice podcast where friendship meets life’s messiest situations. Each week, the BiFFs dive into classic and modern advice columns — from the sincere & genuine to the unhinged & absurd — and serve up their own brand of thoughtful, unfiltered advice, the way only a best friend could. If you like living through someone else’s drama, emotional deep-dives, and laughing through life’s inconveniences, this one’s for you.