Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray

Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray

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Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray episodes

  • 51 | Part My Red Sea

    This week’s episode features Dear Kiki. The BiFFs discuss the dislike of receiving oral sex, a minor on Tinder pushing the legal limits with a twenty-three year old, and age as a factor in a relationship where the other half is barely legal. [Cap Royal Bordeaux Supérieur, 2019]

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    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

    1 hr 4 min
  • 50 | Came Back With A Yamaka

    On the week of our 50th episode, we’re talking through the classic Dear Abby columns. A man keeps his knowledge of his wife’s affair from her. A father and daughter, each struggling with addiction, wage a child-custody battle. A dormant STI turns a long marriage into a ‘whodunnit.’ [Luc Belaire Gold Champagne]

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    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

    1 hr 13 min
  • 49 | It’s the Moistest

    Recorded in 2022, this weeks episode is call-back to advice column classics, Abby and Annie. A step mom demands modest panties at her wedding. A woman finds her engagement ring distasteful. A person in recovery wants to stay on track by saying goodbye to her former love. Finally, a wife catches her husband talking to other women on Twitter. [Apothic Pinot Noir]

    Send us your questions, feedback, &/or wine recommendations to [email protected].

    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

    59 min
  • 48 | The Little Train That Can

    The BiFFs revisit the Slates “How To Do It” this week. High school sweethearts agree to open the relationship, but one loses their head. A wife shares her husband’s penile counterfeit with her bestie. And a girlfriend wants veto power when her man zeroes in on her friend. [Peirano Estates “The Immortal Zin” Zinfandel, 2016]

    Send us your questions, feedback, &/or wine recommendations to [email protected].

    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

    1 hr 18 min
  • 47 | Pullout’s Forever

    Happy 2023! The BiFFs kick off the New Year with a new column, Urban Diplomat - covering nude leaks on the internet, workplace porn, and bedside-rights. [Lilliano Chianti Classico, 2016]

    Send us your questions, feedback, &/or wine recommendations to [email protected].

    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

    1 hr 12 min
  • 46 | You Already Came

    In the last episode of 2022, the BiFFs get to the heart of family drama with Dear Abby’s Holiday advice throughout the years. [Absolut Peppar Bloody Mary]

    Send us your questions, feedback, &/or wine recommendations to [email protected].

    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

    57 min
  • 45 | We Put the ”Ugh” in Thought

    The BiFFs help a spouse navigate the holidays with her own real-life Scrooge, weigh in on break-ups over the holiday season, and contemplate accepting gifts from those we perceive as less fortunate. [Marques de Caceres Garnacha, 2018]

    Send us your questions, feedback, &/or wine recommendations to [email protected].

    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

    1 hr 10 min
  • 44 | Pass Me The Stiff Cheese

    It's bad advice all around this week. The BiFFs take on a Mom who wants to give her youngster a custom thong, a husband past his prime loves on his kiddos leaving his wife jealous, and a parent makes a big deal out of pronouns. [Antigal Uno Malbec, 2018]

    Send us your questions, feedback, &/or wine recommendations to [email protected].

    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

    1 hr 22 min
  • 43 | Swing-Bangin’ to Death

    A husband who won’t put out kills his wife’s vibe. Parents of forbidden lovers offer to end their love for them. Heather wants to blow her parent’s sexy swinging secret. [Valdo Rosé Brut]

    Send us your questions, feedback, &/or wine recommendations to [email protected].

    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

    1 hr 2 min
  • 42 | Momma Said Knock You Up

    This week the BiFFs play poison control with E. Jean, and then join Prudie to intervene in racial stereotypes and dodge an exorcism. [Austerity Cabernet Sauvignon, 2017]

    Send us your questions, feedback, &/or wine recommendations to [email protected].

    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

    1 hr 28 min

About Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray

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Ill Advised with Stefani and Ray is a comedy-advice podcast where friendship meets life’s messiest situations. Each week, the BiFFs dive into classic and modern advice columns — from the sincere & genuine to the unhinged & absurd — and serve up their own brand of thoughtful, unfiltered advice, the way only a best friend could. If you like living through someone else’s drama, emotional deep-dives, and laughing through life’s inconveniences, this one’s for you.