If you’ve owned a business for any length of time, you’ve probably told yourself some version of this: I'll deal with succession as soon as I solve whatever crisis my business is confronting right now. The problem, of course, is that there's always another crisis to solve or opportunity to pursue, and time has a way of passing.

Jay Goltz has spent decades building a collection of successful businesses in Chicago. He knows he needs a succession plan. He knows that if something happened to him tomorrow, there’d be chaos. And he'd very much like to leave the business in the hands of the employees who helped build it. Over the years, he's considered the usual options—selling to a bigger company, to a few key employees, to an ESOP, even to an Employee Ownership Trust. But every option comes with compromises. And so, year after year, it’s been easier to focus on challenges that seem more urgent—until this past April, when Jay turned 70. "I realized," he says, "I can't kick this down the road much further."

This week, Jay sits down with David C. Barnett and Mel Gravely for an unusually candid conversation about what makes succession planning so difficult—even when you understand how important it is. Jay explains why he has no interest in selling, why money isn't really the issue, and why he still loves going to work every day. Mel, meanwhile, offers some tough love, suggesting that if protecting Jay's family and employees really are his priorities, then something else must be holding him back.

Mel also shares an unexpected twist in his own succession journey. After stepping away from the CEO role two and a half years ago to become executive chairman, Mel found himself pulled back into operations this spring—a reminder that even well-designed succession plans don't always unfold as expected. And along the way, David offers a blunt explanation for why many aging business owners overestimate what their companies are actually worth. The episode is brought to you by Grasshopper Bank.