In this episode, Alix & Kayla unpack one of the most controversial queer takes on the internet: being attracted to women, sleeping with women, but not wanting to date or marry them. Is it preference, internalized homophobia, avoidance, or just honest self-awareness?

Through listener submissions, they dive into WLW stereotypes, deal breakers, attachment styles, emotional intensity, codependency, and why queer relationships can feel so confronting. This episode is funny, nuanced, validating, and guaranteed to spark debate.

00:00 – Intro: married, not related, very codependent
02:00 – Listener love, sister wives & queer community updates
06:00 – Deal breakers: kids, lying, cheating & location
10:00 – Hygiene, finances & political differences
16:05 – Topic intro: “I’m into women but wouldn’t date one”
17:10 – WLW stereotypes: neediness, codependency & you-hauling
21:00 – Hookups vs dating & honesty vs leading people on
25:20 – Intimacy, fear & emotional closeness with women
29:50 – “Women are what I desire, men are what I tolerate”
35:30 – Right person vs wrong person
39:00 – Independence, merging lives & feeling suffocated
44:00 – Avoidant attachment & relationship panic
49:30 – Who’s the Problem: toothbrush edition 
56:30 – Final thoughts & listener call-to-action

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