In this week's reading, Jesus is warned that his friend is close to death...and he waits two days to help?! Peter Walsh, Elizabeth Garnsey, and John Kennedy explore Jesus’ deep friendships, the meaning of resurrection, the place of grief and doubt in faith, and the powerful invitation to be “unbound” from the forces that keep us trapped in spiritual tombs.

Questions for Further Discussion:

Themes and Application

1. How does this story reveal Jesus not only as teacher or miracle worker, but as a friend?
2. Why might Jesus delay going to Lazarus, even though he knows his friend is sick? What could this teach about waiting, timing, and God’s purposes?
3. How do Jesus’ tears change the way we think about God and human suffering?

Personal Reflection

1. Have you ever experienced a moment where God seemed delayed or absent in a difficult situation? What did that experience teach you?
2. Where do you see yourself in this story — Martha, Mary, Thomas, Lazarus, or someone in the crowd? Why?
3. What doubts, griefs, or questions would you bring honestly to God the way the characters in this story do?

Broader Spiritual Considerations

1. How does this story challenge the way our culture thinks about death and grief?
2. Why do you think John places such strong emphasis on belief in this Gospel?
3. In what ways can the Christian community help “unbind” one another from spiritual or emotional tombs?

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