Inner Confidence Podcast

By Inner ConfidenceEducation Self-Improvement

Inner Confidence Podcast episodes

July 21, 2025 Overcoming Resentment, Jealousy, and Hopelessness on Your Confidence Journey
Links:
Book a call:⁠ https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠
Get NewBrew: ⁠https://www.drinknewbrew.com/

Timestamps:
00:00 Addressing Struggle and Inner Pain
03:41 Struggling with Self-Esteem and Dating
06:48 Priceless Wisdom, Health Investment
11:24 "Join High-Value Social Circles"
Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/
TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer
YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence
13 min
July 14, 2025 Why Dating Apps Fail and Instagram Ads Work for Meeting Quality Women
Links:
Brian's Site: https://brianmarckesano.com/
Book a call w/ Robbie:⁠ https://www.innerconfidence.com/community
Get NewBrew: ⁠https://www.drinknewbrew.com/

Timestamps:
09:20 "Achieving Hugh Hefner Lifestyle"
12:50 "Time as a Growth Multiplier"
17:07 Real Intimacy vs. Artificial Alternatives
24:56 Navigating Midlife Crisis Challenges
30:25 "Women and Partnering for Success"
32:07 Ideal Dating Scenario for Men
40:39 Comfort Around Attractive Women
42:41 Unconventional Ways to Meet Women
49:05 "Rejecting Dating for Self-Control"
57:34 "Ice Game: A European Adventure"
59:40 Game Sparks Excitement and Connection
01:03:39 "Hosting Parties for Social Success"
01:09:58 Host Your Own Networking Events
01:14:59 Dating and Wingman Insights
01:21:13 "Mastering Event Atmosphere"
01:24:38 "Exclusive Community Invitation"

Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠
TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠
1 hr 25 min
July 07, 2025 This Dating Hack Beats Bars, Apps, and Cold Approach and No One Talks About It
Links:
Book a call:⁠ https://www.innerconfidence.com/community⁠
Get NewBrew: ⁠https://www.drinknewbrew.com/

Timestamps:
07:45 Missed Connection Before Moving
10:48 "Dance Mastery Through One Style"
19:29 Dance: Embracing Leadership and Flow
22:31 Casual Dance Dynamics Explained
28:25 Journey to Improvement and Challenges
34:03 "Forcefulness on the Dance Floor"
38:36 Country Bar Dance Encounter
45:05 Dance Etiquette: Avoid Consecutive Partners
50:43 Choose Partner Dancing Venues
52:51 West Coast Swing: Fun and Challenging
01:01:20 Dancing Biologist's Double Life
01:03:40 "Dance Addiction in Country Scene"
01:08:00 Build High-Status Social Circles

Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠
TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠
YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence
1 hr 9 min
June 30, 2025 Love Can Be Calculated: The Science of Attraction, Compatibility & Self-Worth w/ Zoey Charif
Links:
Zoey's Book: https://www.lovecaninfactbecalculated.com/
Zoey's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/zoeycharif/
Free 5 Day Email Course:⁠ https://www.innerconfidence.com/start
Get NewBrew: ⁠https://www.drinknewbrew.com

Timestamps:
00:00 "Love, Betrayal, and Human Behavior"
03:52 Equally Invested Relationships Work
10:03 "Toxic Relationships and Unrealistic Expectations"
13:04 "Free Dating Course for Divorcees"
16:56 Resolution After Spousal Disagreement
18:49 "Self and Partner Score Matching"
22:01 Date Tips: The Questions Game
23:56 "Self-Love Key to Relationships"
29:18 90% Self-Confidence Mindset Boost
30:46 Enhancing Self-Perception Techniques
34:53 Self-Improvement Framework Guide
38:27 "Partner Trait Ratings: 70-75%"
42:23 Rethinking Age in Relationships
46:40 Evaluate Relationship Values
47:23 Beyond Infatuation in Relationships
51:05 Social Circle Success for Men

Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠
TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠

52 min
June 23, 2025 Control the Frame or Lose the Girl: Mastering Power Dynamics in Dating
Links:
Free 5 Day Educational Email Course - https://www.innerconfidence.com/start
NewBrew: ⁠https://www.drinknewbrew.com/⁠

Intro:
Most guys lose women not because they said the wrong thing — but because they gave up their power without realizing it.

In this episode, I answer real questions from the IC Community about how to keep rotation girls invested, avoid slipping into the boyfriend zone, leverage female friendships for social proof, and deal with hot girls who play the game better than you.

This is the real dating game — no fluff, no pickup lines, just hard truths and high-leverage strategies. If you don’t control the frame… you will lose the girl.

Timestamps:
00:00 Dating Journey and Self-Improvement
03:19 Navigating the Friend Zone Dilemma
09:40 Curated Exclusive Party Strategies
12:06 Greek Life Inclusivity Dynamics
16:47 Curated Parties for Safe Socializing
19:37 "Gender Economics in Bar Culture"
21:25 Post-Party Balcony Romance
24:58 "Introducing the Hot Crazy Matrix"
27:25 The Art of Manipulative Charm
31:46 "Join High-Status Social Circle"

Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠
TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠
33 min
June 16, 2025$1,200 on Bottle Service… and Not a Single Number
Links:
Book a call:⁠ https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call
Get NewBrew: ⁠https://www.drinknewbrew.com/

Timestamps:
00:00 Club Success Strategies Simplified
05:08 Navigating Door Policies with Respect
07:37 Building Connections Over Time
12:25 Flirting Techniques and Etiquette
15:25 Party Etiquette: Ask Before Pouring
19:03 Club Strategies for Getting Numbers
22:02 Orchestrating Club Exits Effectively
24:30 "Ice Game Drinking Challenge"
26:43 The Sleazy Ice Game Dynamic
31:40 "Embrace Friend Zone for Social Success"
34:16 Join Elite Social Circle Network

Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/
TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer
YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence
36 min
June 09, 2025 Why Most Guys FAIL with Women at Bars (And How to Fix It)
Intro:
Most guys completely blow it at bars — not because they’re unattractive or awkward, but because they have no idea how to move, where to stand, or how to actually create a connection in a nightlife environment. In this episode, I’m breaking down the real reason guys fail with women at bars — and giving you a proven system you can follow to approach confidently, spark attraction, and avoid the mistakes that kill your chances before you even open your mouth. If you’re tired of standing around with a drink in your hand waiting for something to happen, this episode is going to flip the script.

Links:
Get NewBrew: ⁠https://www.drinknewbrew.com/

Timestamps:
00:00 Mastering Bar Game Tactics
05:08 Ideal LA Bars for Socializing
09:29 Clubbing Strategy in Major Cities
12:42 Confidence Tips for Bar Newcomers
16:09 Awkward Hand-Holding Encounter
16:54 "Playful Dating Roleplay Banter"
22:47 Late-Night Bathroom Hookup Story
25:33 Approach Etiquette: Acknowledge Her Friends
27:10 "Building Attraction: Playful Interactions"
30:29 "Join High-Status Social Circle"

Connect w/ Robbie:
Book a call: https://calendly.com/robbiekramer/strategy-call
Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/
TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer
YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence
32 min
April 23, 2025 The Daygame System That Got Me Off the Apps for Good
Links:
Book a call:⁠ https://www.innerconfidence.com/community
Get NewBrew: ⁠https://www.drinknewbrew.com/

Timestamps:

00:00 "Overcoming Approach Anxiety"

07:53 Warm Up to Combat Anxiety

10:50 "Approaching Women Mistakes"

15:21 "Smooth Pickup Line Strategy"

17:47 "Start Small to Practice Dating"

20:59 Instant Date: From Sidewalk to Coffee

24:09 Public Flirting Etiquette Tips

27:11 Wingman Strategy for Dating

31:26 Master Day Game: 500 Approaches

34:38 Mastering Social Approaches

36:04 "Apply to Join Community"

Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠
TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠
YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence
37 min
April 07, 2025Escaping Forced Monogamy: How to Date on Your Own Terms
Links:
Get NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/
Book A Call w/ Robbie: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community

Timestamps:
03:58 "30 Dates Challenge"
09:29 Courageous Relationship Boundaries Conversation
10:10 "Understanding Casual Relationships"
14:25 "Threesome Story at the Abbey"
17:26 "Threesome Dynamics: Equal Attention"
23:01 Networking Through Lifestyle Circles
23:56 Money, Power, Women Approach
28:54 Top Men, Social Circles, Maturity
30:27 Build Your Dream Social Circle
32 min
April 01, 2025 Six Dating Coach Scams That Drain Your Wallet Without Results
Links:
Book a call: https://www.innerconfidence.com/community
Get NewBrew: https://www.drinknewbrew.com/

Info:
Are you thinking about hiring a dating coach or perhaps you've already invested with little to no return? Robbie exposes the pitfalls of flashy, overpriced programs and sheds light on the truth behind these get-confident-quick schemes. From the allure of the "Chad" persona to the one-size-fits-all scripts, he reveals how these scams often prey on men with genuine social anxieties and dating goals. But don't worry, it's not all doom and gloom. Stick around to the end, and Robbie shares a genuine method to advance your dating skills that focuses on consistent growth rather than shortcuts.

Connect w/ Robbie:
Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.instagram.com/robbie_kramer/⁠⁠
TikTok:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@robbie.kramer⁠⁠
YouTube:⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.youtube.com/innerconfidence
8 min

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The Inner Confidence Podcast with Robbie Kramer is a weekly podcast that brings you the most cutting edge dating and lifestyle advice for men. Topics include attraction, dating, making friends,…