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- Kae Tran on Sex with Physical DisabilitiesOn this episode I speak with Kae Tran about navigating sex with physical disabilities and what can be done in sex positivity to be more inclusive and less ableist.Kae lives with muscular dystrophy and she has recently begun doing workshops on self-love, communication, and dating for people with physical disabilities. After being featured in an article on her experiences with dating, Kae’s been requested for interviews constantly, and now she’s here for some advocacy and some self-advocacy. With physical disabilities in an ableist world, Kae examines the limitations that also exist when it comes to sex—“that’s the one thing disabled people can’t have, is spontaneous sex,” she argues. To better facilitate an inclusive sex positive world, Kae suggests more accessible spaces, like sex clubs and fetish scenes, consent with disabled folks in mind, and sex education catered to people with disabilities.Find Kae Tran on:IG: @letterelevenWeb: kaetran.comA special thank you to Jenn Smith (IG: @jenndoesntquit) and her mysterious husband for supporting Intellectual on Patreon and becoming our Daddy under the Daddy Tier. We love Daddy and Daddy loves us!Support Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerectionFind Intellectual Erection on:IG: @intellectual_erectionTwitter: @intellectual_EPFB: @intellectualerecti0n53 min
- Taylor: Kinky Flesh Removal & Chia Seeds
On this episode I speak with internet human and photographer Taylor about the intersections of mental health, kink, polyamory, and art in her work and personal life.Coming fresh off a coffee enema Taylor is perky and ready to share some painful, funny, and also disturbing experiences that are insightful, honest, and at times cautionary. She opens up about her early experiences with kink that later transitioned into her work and have become a spotlight in her personal and internet life. If you know Taylor and her work you will not be surprised to find some very candid explorations of mental and physical health intertwining with kink as a cathartic practice. From her photography and social media, to workshops, scarification, bdsm, art, and chia seeds, this episode is as dynamic as the human herself. Shout outs in this episode:IG: @marlonchaplinofficialIG: @bofiguratifIG: @edendeplumeSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerectionFind Intellectual Erection on:IG: @intellectual_erectionTwitter: @intellectual_EPFB: @intellectualerecti0n
1 hr 3 min - Steve Sandford's 21 Polyamory HacksOn this episode I speak to seasoned polyamorist Steve Sandford about some of the ideas featured in an article he wrote on polyamory hacks.Steve is a radically honest polyamorist and it runs in the family. He grew up around sex work, and sex positivity, and has been in the fetish scene in Toronto for a very long time. When his monogamous marriage ended nearly 15 years ago, he decided to embrace polyamory and has been at it ever since, slowly documenting his experiences over time and coming up with an ever-growing list of polyamory hacks. We cover a handful of them in this episode from deprograming possessiveness, to full disclosure versus don’t ask don’t tell policies, practicing brutal polyamory, developing a jealousy sponsor, to ghosting and stashing. We spend considerable time discussing jealousy and whether you’re polyam or not, you’ll find it useful.Shout outs in this episode:IG: @zoeybellexoxoIG: @madisonrexxFind Steve on:IG: @h4ngedm4nIG: @house.of.the.hangedIG: @faetefetish1 hr 1 min
- Yazmin Exposes her Particular PerversionsOn this episode I speak with Yazmin—a newish human to the sex-positive communities with a lot of particular interests and a deep desire to explore them mindfully.Yazmin is a fairly fresh face to kink, fetish, bdsm, and polyamory but in the time she has spent around the sex-positive communities she’s contemplated her involvement deeply and shared her experiences along the way on social media. Coming from a background in yoga, Yaz approaches sex-positivity mindfully—assessing, absorbing, premeditating, and understanding what these experiences mean for her and their formative potential in her life. She’s here to share those experiences especially for other newcomers who may be a little shy or anxious about what to expect from a first trip to a sex club, a first kink scene, and how to navigate polyamorous relationships. We get intimate with stories around BDSM, DDLG, and polyamory that are informative for the newbies and juicy for the veterans.Find Yazmin on:IG: @yaz.thehumanShout outs in this episode:IG: @srg1Support Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerectionFind Intellectual Erection on:IG: @intellectual_erectionTwitter: @intellectual_EPFB: @intellectualerecti0n1 hr 7 min
- Ryland Babylove and Dahlia Dee: Two Girls one MicOn this episode I speak with MFC cam models Ryland Babylove and Dahlia Dee. They spill the beans on all the insider info you’ve ever wanted to hear about the life of a cam model.If you want to know how to enter the cam business and what to expect, have a listen to Ryland and Dahlia as they outline the good the bad and the ugly. With experience in camming on various websites, most notably My Free Cams, selling content online, PornHub, and social media, these two have a lot to say when it comes down to the hustle. You’re going to hear tips on how to make a living being a cam model, what challenges you’re likely to face, what the lifestyle is like, and most importantly—how to deal with men! This is a 24hr job where you’re constantly accessible and people expect a lot from you for investing very little. So listen to these badasses as they give you the lowdown on how to work hard and play hard.Find Ryland Babylove on:IG: @worstmodeleverTwitter: @rylandbabyloveWeb: worstmodelever.comFind Dahlia Dee on:IG: @therealdahliadeeTwitter: @xodahliadeeSnap: @xodahliadeeShout outs in this episode@VixenwithclawsSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerectionFind Intellectual Erection on:IG: @intellectual_erectionTwitter: @intellectual_EPFB: @intellectualerecti0n1 hr 10 min
- Freya McFarlane Bewitches you with Tantric SexualityOn this episode I speak with Tantra instructor Freya McFarlane. She discusses sacred sexuality, sacred femininity, eco sexuality, menstruation, and tantric heart orgasms.Take a slow and sensual journey into Freya’s tantric life as she seductively enunciates each word in the Queen’s English to arouse your audiophilia. Her ASMR vocals will tease you along as she describes her erotic self-discoveries in nature—bonding with the earth to find her sacred sexuality. Freya’s life experiences have accumulated a wealth of knowledge in tantric practices, sacred femininity, heart orgasms, and breathwork, among other things. So listen in and breathe deep because this episode will titillate your senses and tantalize your imagination.Find Freya McFarlane on:IG: @freya_mcfarlaneFB: @freyatantra54 min
- Dr. Taylor Kohut Researches PornOn this episode I speak with porn researcher Dr. Taylor Kohut about some of his studies concerning porn use and well-being, relationships, religious affiliation, and misogyny.Have you ever asked yourself: What actually constitutes porn? What does it mean to use porn? What impact might porn have on your well-being, your relationship, and how might it affect your views on women in particular? Dr. Taylor Kohut has asked himself these questions and an array of participants from North America to Croatia. We discuss Dr. Kohut’s (et al.) studies on pornography and help rethink some of the myths about porn use and its negative effects. His studies form part of a sex-positive move in porn research to indicate that we may be exaggerating or worse, poorly measuring pornography use and its effects on people.Articles cited in this episode:Campbell, L., & Kohut, T. (2017). The use and effects of pornography in romantic relationships. Current Opinion in Psychology, 13, 6-10.Kohut, T., Baer, J. L., & Watts, B. (2016). Is pornography really about “making hate to women”? Pornography users hold more gender egalitarian attitudes than nonusers in a representative American sample. The Journal of Sex Research, 53(1), 1-11.Kohut, T., Fisher, W. A., & Campbell, L. (2017). Perceived effects of pornography on the couple relationship: Initial findings of open-ended, participant-informed, “bottom-up” research. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 46(2), 585-602.Kohut, T., Balzarini, R. N., Fisher, W. A., & Campbell, L. (2018). Pornography’s associations with open sexual communication and relationship closeness vary as a function of dyadic patterns of pornography use within heterosexual relationships. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 35(4), 655-676.Kohut, T., & Štulhofer, A. (2018). Is pornography use a risk for adolescent well-being? An examination of temporal relationships in two independent panel samples. PloS one, 13(8), 1-20.Kohut, T. (2019). Surveying pornography use: A shaky science resting on poor measurement foundations. The Journal of Sex Research, 1-73. (Submitted, Not yet published).Shout outs in this episode:@alisha.jj.fisher1 hr 25 min
- Marlon Chaplin Submits to CuckoldryOn this episode I speak with Marlon Chaplin, the first-ever submissive cuckold on this show. This a unique episode from an often unheard voice because submissive men are rarely open about their experiences…at least publicly.Are you ready to get mindfu#%ed? This is important to hear, especially for men. Have you confronted your notions of masculinity? I challenge you to step into Malron’s mentality—listen to his story as he masterfully teases out details interwoven with suspense and visceral vulnerability. Try to find the common ground in his foreign landscape and see where you can identify with his experiences. Can you allow yourself? Are you afraid? Or is this comfortable for you? Then ask yourself why. The nature of the taboo is to provoke the intersections of arousal, fear, and discomfort. Here, you are given that opportunity and you may be surprised at what you discover.Find Marlon on (and check out his music):IG: @marlonchaplinofficialSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerectionFind Intellectual Erection on:IG: @intellectual_erectionTwitter: @intellectual_EPFB: @intellectualerecti0n1 hr 4 min
- Megan's Rediscovery through Sex PositivityOn this episode I speak with Megan, a human who rediscovered herself in the sex positive communities. She continues to explore uninhibited and with devious curiosity.After ending an engagement with a high school sweetheart Megan embarks on yes weekend into an all-out slutty whirlwind that reignites her joie de vivre. She’s not quite sure where or how she fits into the sex positive communities but she knows it’s where she belongs. Megan may be undecided about the labels but not about how sex positivity has brought her out of a toxic relationship and into a world filled with kink, sex, fun, love, and friendship. So just because, she’s gonna marry her best friend. Between all this, we talk about polyamory, love, making love, waterboarding, and nearly drowning three times.Find Megan on:IG: @meggwinSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerectionFind Intellectual Erection on:IG: @intellectual_erectionTwitter: @intellectual_EPFB: @intellectualerecti0n48 min
- Alisha Fisher Jacks off all TradesOn this episode I speak with the multifaceted Alisha Fisher. She’s an international relationship, intimacy, and flirtation coach here to talk about her plethora of work in the sex positive communities and inspire your curiosity.When Alisha isn’t busy flying around the world talking about porn to squeamish audiences of red-faced adults, she can be found working at sexual assault centers doing workshops for Young Men Leading Change, talking on her radio show, or dealing with clients who need some of their intimacy hiccups addressed. She knows the ins and outs of porn from the demographic changes in porn use to trends in feminist pornography and general porn literacy that she attempts to educate weary folks about. Alisha is sharp, intelligent, and funny in her condensed presentation of an overwhelming amount of experience and information, and though it all we get some flirting techniques in, have some good laughs, and hear a few good stories. So put on the kettle ‘cause this tea is hot!Shout outs in this episode:@sexwithdrjessFind Alisha Fisher on:IG: @alisha.jj.fisherFB:@alisha.intimacyTwitter: @alisha_intimacyWeb: inspireintimacy.comSupport Intellectual Erection at:patreon.com/intellectualerectionFind Intellectual Erection on:IG: @intellectual_erectionTwitter: @intellectual_EPFB: @intellectualerecti0n1 hr 10 min
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This podcast is about sex positivity, kink, bdsm, and polyamory. The interviews are with people in these communities and we discuss everything from the fun, to the not so fun, to the politics, and…
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