February 03, 2025

Internalized Misogyny feat. BurbNBougie

1 hour 45 minutes

This week, your hosts Lisa, Sovereign, and Gwen are joined by special guest BurbNBougie to break down internalized misogyny and how it shapes women’s perceptions of themselves and each other. But first, in our opening Tea Time segment, the hosts dive into the latest headlines, including Elon Musk’s reported feud with Trump, the rise of Deep Seek AI, and a new bill proposing a third term for Trump.

In the main discussion, the hosts unpack the pervasive issue of “pick-me” behavior and its impact on women’s relationships, self worth, and cultural expectations. They explore societal conditioning, the role of women as resources in relationships, and the effects of parenting on gender dynamics. The conversation also highlights how women can work toward dismantling these harmful narratives.

Finally, in our mailbag segment, we discuss how to advocate for yourself in the medical system, an update from a past listener, and navigating casual dating without centering men.

🎧 This episode challenges deep seated societal norms and encourages women to embrace solidarity, self worth, and empowerment.

🎙️ Topics Discussed:

The roots of internalized misogyny and “pick-me” culture

How society conditions women to see each other as competition

Women as resources in relationships and the impact of gendered expectations

Parenting’s role in shaping boys’ attitudes toward women

Cultural perceptions of red lipstick and self-expression

The importance of women supporting each other instead of competing

Listener questions on medical advocacy, breakups, and dating without centering men

✨ Links and Resources Mentioned:

Trump reportedly 'kicks Elon out' of the West Wing

JD Vance says Big Tech has "too much power"

Chinese A.I. app shakes up Silicon Valley, causing Wall Street selloff

The Dead Internet Theory

Constitutional amendment to allow Trump third term introduced in the House

TikTok Creator Breakdown of Mothers & Sons

📚 This Week’s Recommendation:

Phyllis Chesler - Author

Women and Madness

Woman’s Inhumanity to Woman

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🕰️ Chapters:

00:00 – Introduction and Tea Time!

05:03 – Elon denied office space in the White House

10:08 – Deep Seek AI

12:46 – Welcome BurbNBougie!

18:03 – Understanding Internalized Misogyny

34:03 – Cultural Reflections and Personal Experiences

35:28 – Red Lipstick and Cultural Perceptions

39:18 – Women as Resources in Relationships

41:42 – The Pick-Me Mentality and Internalized Misogyny

46:40 – Reforming the Pick-Me Perspective

51:54 – Experiences of Women in Male-Dominated Spaces

58:08 – The Impact of Parenting on Gender Dynamics

01:10:32 – Raising Respectful Men

01:15:15 – Mailbag: Poll Results

01:17:40 – Mailbag: Medical Trauma and Advocacy

01:24:46 – Mailbag: Breakup and Empowerment

01:26:50 – Mailbag: Casual Sex and Self-Discovery

🎙️ The Audaci-Tea is a production of Siren Sound and is executively produced by Lisa Carr, The Sovereign Woman, and Gwen. Music, audio production, and show production by Ryan Marth. For advertising opportunities or business inquiries, email us at [email protected]

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