Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert

Exploring sex and love is all fine and dandy but where are we doing all this uber progressive sexploration? Safe(r) spaces are crucial to creating sex positive communities (and sex positive humans)... and Robin Scott is creating some of the most fun, progressive events around. This week, Robin shares how a Roman fertility fest of slapping goat flesh on nubile virgins inspired the gamified orgy that became Eutopia Rising. Even if getting filthy with sticky buns at "THE GREAT BROOKLYN BOINK OFF" isn't your scene, we know you're going to take some of Robin's sexual gameducation back to your bedroom.

EUTOPIA-RISING.ORG - for more info & Robin's upcoming events

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This weeks' end of episode song is a throwback, ESG "My Love For You." Our official theme songs are composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com

We're finally tackling our first LOVE spectacular! Is there a reason we're inherently attracted to the "wrong" people? How do you date for love vs. date for sport? This week, Stephen takes the wheel as the resident hopeless romantic as we're joined by Bobby, who knows a thing or three about love. Two men discuss falling in and out of love, while resident relationship virgin Lola Jean searches for answers.

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This weeks' end of episode song is Julia Jacklin "Good Guy" Our theme songs are composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com

Is bisexuality a 50/50 split or is it a bit more complicated than that. Join us for all the confusion from the bicurious to the biphobic, we discuss all sides of the Kinsey scale and question if straight is built out of fear, ignorance or a definite identity. Julia Koerwer, MSW, joins us to drop knowledge on bisexuality as a demisexual dating an aromantic. Confused, yet? Experiment and question your identity on this weeks' episode where we talk about everything from Harry Potter erotica to exploring surprising experiences with the same gender later in one's sexual life.

If you have a sex or relationship question for us or have a topic you want to hear covered on the show? Email us!!! (we really love hearing from you): [email protected]

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is Tacocat "New World" Our theme songs are composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com.

When it comes to body acceptance, bodies with penises tend to focus on just that: PENISES. And as our guest--and current person we're fangirling over--Jojo Bear puts it: while a part of the body but it tends to be the part of the body we focus on the most. How does one's relationship with their penis relate to one's relationship with their body? How does one begin to tackle what they view as "issues." Jojo Bear introduces us to Soft Cock Massage and PreJac and questions why much of our sex revolves around a hard cock.

If you have a sex or relationship question for us or have a topic you want to hear covered on the show? Email us!!! (we really love hearing from you): [email protected]

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is Fatherson "Gratitude" Our theme songs are composed & recorded by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com.

Lola Jean and Stephen make the best of getting stood up by their guest and take things in an unexpected direction: Anal. Well, maybe not so unexpected. From fucking butts, to having their butts fucked, Is Our Love explores first time anal and how that compares to the anal they're currently having. Whether you're an anal connoisseur or haven't spelunked into the great unknown, there's something for everyone in this episode.

If you have a sex or relationship question for us or have a topic you want to hear covered on the show? Email us!!! (we really love hearing from you): [email protected]

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is Charles Bradley "Things We Do For Love" Our theme songs are by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com.

Where do we learn to masturbate? How do we know if what we're doing is enough and how would we get better at it? Masturbation coaching is a thing and we sat down with none other than The Bate Coach to discuss his methods of changing men's relationship with how they view masturbation and getting off in general. Whether you scream to slayer in your car or you like to lift heavy things, everyone's got a different thing. The Bate Coach provides a glimpse into gay spaces and makes us ponder if straight spaces could handle it. PLUS, Stephen and Lola get heated about normalizing nudity in safer spaces.

You can find the Bate Coach's events on Daddyretreat.com & Meetup.com

If you have a sex or relationship question for us or have a topic you want to hear covered on the show? Email us!!! (we really love hearing from you): [email protected]

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is just crushing the innuendo game: Sunflower Bean "Come For Me." Our theme songs are by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com.

Peen. Cock. Dick. A penis by another other name....well, you get the idea: we're talking about dicks this week. Zachary Zane joins us to give his unique perspective on hooking up with gay men and straight women and how they differ when it comes to dicks. What makes a pretty penis? And we take a stab at the age old question: does size matter? From early ED to meat market sauna debauchery, Zackary spares no detail in our quest to uncover the universal truths to the peen. PLUS We dig into a fan email about mismatching romantic feelings.

If you have a sex or relationship question for us or have a topic you want to hear covered on the show? Email us!!! (we really love hearing from you): [email protected]

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

This weeks' end of episode song is a throwback I couldn't resist: Ida Maria "I Like You So Much Better When You're Naked." The 'Is Our Love____?' Theme songs are by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com.

What's with the illustrious "v" word? Learn the difference between a Vagina and a Vulva and why knowing that will make you a better lover (and, likely... person.) This week Allison Moon (Author of Girl Sex 101 & Bad Dyke) helps us with R&D on all things vulva. Join our own Vulvapalooza as we discuss the ups and downs of having a vulva and why we need to continuously learn our partners bodies--even in long term relationships.

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

The 'Is Our Love____?' theme song is by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com. This weeks' end of episode song is Our Girl with their self-titled song "Our Girl."

Your eyes connect... you lean in with that 'look'... but are you getting butterflies or just slammin' faces? What makes a good kiss and can you up your game? Is a kiss connection chemical, or a skill? This week we're joined by real life couple and kissing comrades Kat and Gerard who have both kissed their fair share of men and women for play and for work. Professional kissing. Kat and Gerard discuss the difference between acting kissing and kissing for funsies.

PLUS we all slam faces and makeout... FOR SCIENCE. It's as every bit awkward and exciting as your own first kiss.

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com

Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

The 'Is Our Love____?' Theme song is by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com. Our makeout theme is Francis Lai "Un Homme Et Une Femme" and end of episode throwback jam is Syl Sylvain and the Teardrops "Just One Kiss."

What makes one a good flirt--or for that matter--a bad one? Are we flirting right now? How does one flirt in the post #metoo era? Professional word-sayer Olive Persimmon (author of 'Unintentionally Celibate' and 'The Coitus Chronicles') joins us this week to discuss her jump from a 5 year celibacy streak to being coached by a pick-up artist. From grown men climbing bunk beds to throwing napkins for attention, Olive takes us through the mating habits of flirting and being flirted with. PLUS, Stephen introduces us to "The Blurt," and we answer our first listener emails.

Do *you* need sex & relationship advice? Email us at: [email protected] !

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

The 'Is Our Love____?' Theme song is by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com and this week's end of episode song is Who Is She- 'RomCom'