It's official: We live in the future & date via robots. In the age of fuckbois and ghosts, Stephen and Lola explore how dating apps have changed both the dating landscape as well as hookup culture. How do we use dating apps and are they a tool for good or evil? Which apps are better for dating versus hooking up? What are the rules of app etiquette? This week the sexperts struggle with love in the time of technology. PLUS Stephen and Lola go full on 'Freaky Friday' with their Bumble flirt game. Ya'know... for sex science. 

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com

Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

The 'Is Our Love____?' Theme song is by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com and this week's end of episode song is one of our classic favs: Connie Francis- 'Love Is Where You Find It'

Boundaries get a bad rap, but what if we told you they’re actually a GREAT thing? Stephen and Lola Jean explore the role of boundaries as it relates to relationships, friendships, sex work and kink. What lessons can be learned from those required to exercise (and realize) their boundaries often? This week, married couple Kayla and Sean help us explore if our love is doomed. It’s the classic story of fetish wrestler meets poster-child poly-boy. Married for a year and together for three, Sean and Kayla are learning on the job using their ability to accept and thrive in their ever changing selves. Learn from our mistakes. Learn from their mistakes. Learn that mistakes can be a fantastic part of the process.

Need sex & relationship advice? Email us at: [email protected] !

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com

Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

The 'Is Our Love____?' official theme song is by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com and this week's end of episode song is Xxyyxx - 'Love Isn't Made'

No sexpert can exist without a first time. Stephen and Lola are no different. This week re-lose all our virginities as we welcome our first guest: Janet (Who has lost more virginities than she can count.)  From hoovering a pile of cocaine with her freshman year roommate, to lesbian orgies and cam work. This episode is every bit as hilarious and awkwardly romantic as *your* first time.

Could you use sex & relationship advice? Email us at: [email protected] !

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajeandotcom Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

The 'Is Our Love____?' official theme song is by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com and this week's end of episode song is "Oneohtrix Point Never - The Pure and the Damned (ft. Iggy Pop)"

Everyone and their grandmother seems to be giving sex advice these days. So who can you actually trust? Sex Educator/Olympian Squirter Lola Jean (@lolajeandotcom) and Reluctant Sexpert/resident straight dude, Stephen Penta (@thereluctantsexpert) tow both sides of the line, Stephen representing the hopeless romantic to fulfill greater sexual desires and Lola Jean representing the sex forward, alpha female unable to grasp love.

Do *you* need sex & relationship advice? Email us at: [email protected] !

------~ Follow us on social media ~------- The show: @isourlove_____ Lola Jean: @lolajean.com Classes & Instruction: lolajean.com

Stephen Penta: @thereluctantsexpert

The 'Is Our Love____?' official theme song is by our good friends at hyperballadmusic.com (thank you! WE. LOVE. IT. AND. YOU!)

and this week's end of episode tune is "Love - Everybody's Gotta Live"