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Hey y’all, it’s the final episode of the year, and we’re closing out 2024 with a deep dive into resilience—what it means, how it shaped me this year, and why it’s the word I’m carrying into 2025.

This year wasn’t a cakewalk. I faced job loss, strained relationships, personal setbacks, and a whole lot of uncertainty. But through it all, one lesson kept showing up: resilience. In this episode, I’m sharing my raw reflections on how life’s challenges tested me and, more importantly, how they helped me grow.

From learning to recharge like a drained battery to fighting for myself in ways I never have before, this year taught me that resilience isn’t just about bouncing back—it’s about rising stronger, even when it feels like the world is on your shoulders.

Here’s what we’ll talk about:

• Resilience redefined: Why I didn’t see myself as resilient before and what changed.
• Lessons from the trenches: How I handled major setbacks, including a tough summer and financial stress.
• The gift of resilience: Why I believe resilience is something we’re given, not just something we build.
• Small wins that matter: From taking 30-minute walks to creative bursts that reignited my drive, I share the little steps that helped me stay afloat.

This episode isn’t just about my story—it’s about all of us who faced challenges in 2024 but kept pushing forward. Whether it was personal struggles, professional hurdles, or the heaviness of the world around us, we’re still standing.

Let’s step into 2025 with a renewed sense of strength and purpose. You’re not alone in this journey, and together, we’re building something stronger.

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Let’s connect: Drop your reflections on this year’s challenges and victories in the comments or DMs. I’d love to hear your story.

Until next year—keep standing tall. 💪

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Welcome back, DAMN FAM, to It’s About DAMN Time!

This week, I'm diving deep into a topic that hits home for a lot of us—overthinking. If you’re anything like me, you've probably spent nights replaying conversations, analyzing your every move, or holding yourself back from making big decisions because of that internal critic.

Well, let’s talk about how overthinking is more than just a mental loop; it’s straight-up self-sabotage.

In this episode, I get real about my struggles with overthinking and how it’s impacted my growth, my creativity, and my confidence. You’ll hear my story of battling the urge to second-guess myself, the weight of overanalyzing what I post on social media, and the stress that comes with questioning if I'm “enough” for the dreams I'm chasing.

Here’s what I cover in today’s episode:

• What Overthinking Looks Like for Me: I share what it’s like to be the “king of overthinking,” from creating content to showing my true self.
• Overthinking and Social Media: How fear of judgment kept me from being authentic online, and why I realized showing “Pure Jarratt” matters more than perfect posts.
• The Impact of Overthinking on Self-Worth: How I began to recognize that my harshest critic was the one in the mirror.
• How Overthinking Becomes Self-Sabotage: I break down how we can unintentionally block our own progress by holding onto the “what ifs” and “maybes.”
• Why You Shouldn’t Police Yourself: We talk about why life’s too short to constantly question every move, especially when the biggest regrets often come from things we didn’t do, not the ones we did.
• This Week’s DAMN Challenge: I’m challenging you (and myself) to find just one thing you've been overthinking and take action on it, without second-guessing!

If you’ve ever felt trapped in your own mind or found yourself doubting every decision, this episode is for you.

Let's stop letting overthinking keep us from the lives we deserve. Let's reclaim our confidence and move past the endless self-questioning.

Keywords: Overthinking, self-sabotage, confidence, mental health, personal development, social media, self-worth, authenticity, regrets, personal growth, self-acceptance, mental loop, inner critic, authenticity on social media, overcoming self-doubt.

Ready to join the challenge? Hit me up on social media @itsaboutdamntimepod on IG and let me know how you’re stepping out of the overthinking cycle. Let’s work on this together and stop letting our minds be the reason we hold back from what we truly want.

Listen, share, and let’s grow together!

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In this week's episode of It’s About DAMN Time, I'm digging deep into the realities of facing life's challenges head-on.

It’s been a week of raw emotion—from career uncertainties to reliving the loss of my dad two years ago, and navigating the stress of the recent election results.

I’ve felt every bit of anxiety, fear, and doubt that so many of us experience during tough times. But instead of backing down, I’m choosing to fight for the life I want, and I’m here to encourage you to do the same.

Join me as I reflect on how to handle adversity and find resilience through it all. We’re talking about practical steps, like moving past the frustration, taking care of our mental health, and setting real goals that bring us closer to a better future.

I dive into the importance of showing up every day, even when motivation is hard to find.

This episode is a reminder that we can choose to fight for the lives we want, no matter what obstacles are in our way.

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This week’s episode dives into an essential but often unspoken topic:

How to share your sexual desires and fantasies with your partner—without the shame or awkwardness.

Just in time for the final days of National Kink Month, I’m sitting down with Safiya Darling, a Black Sex Educator and BDSM/Kink Specialist, who’s here to break it all down.

Safiya shares her expert insights into what kink is, common misconceptions, and why so many people struggle with opening up about their fantasies.

We talk about everything from the basics of kink to building the confidence to express your true desires. Safiya’s practical advice covers everything from setting boundaries to making sure you and your partner are on the same page with a “yes, no, maybe” list.

Whether you’re curious about body worship, sensual play, or even a little role play, this episode is packed with guidance on communicating openly and honestly to bring your relationship to a deeper level.

• What Is Kink? Understanding kink as an umbrella term and how it differs from traditional sexual practices.
• Breaking Down Misconceptions: Why society’s views (hello, patriarchy!) make people feel embarrassed about their desires.
• The Difference Between Fetish and Kink: Safiya explains how fetishes are needs, while kinks are “wants.”
• Soft vs. Hardcore Kinks: Examples of gentle ways to explore kink, from body worship to sensual massage.
• Communication 101: How to start the conversation with a “yes, no, maybe” list and what to consider when discussing boundaries.
• Cultural Influences on Sexuality: Why discussing kink is especially tough in Black communities and how to overcome these barriers.
• Role-Playing and Sensual Intention: Adding intention to everyday acts can bring a kinky edge that deepens intimacy.
• Creating a Safe Space: Setting up a non-judgmental, open environment to encourage honest conversation.

• “Most of us are probably more kinky than we think we are.” – Safiya Darling
• “It’s about taking your power back and exploring what makes you feel good without shame.”
• “Education before participation.” – Safiya’s golden rule for kink and BDSM exploration.

If you've ever felt too shy, awkward, or uncertain about discussing your desires, this episode will give you the confidence to have those conversations.

With Safiya’s compassionate guidance, you’ll learn how to create a comfortable space to express your needs and explore new ways to connect with your partner.

Safiya’s approach balances history, empowerment, and practical advice to help you and your partner bring your relationship to the next level.

• Understanding the Basics: Kink doesn’t have to be hardcore—it’s about finding what excites you, in or out of the bedroom.
• Safe Communication: Why it’s essential to establish a safe, open space with your partner and the importance of mutual respect.
• Exploring Soft Kinks: Ways to introduce sensual, non-intimidating practices into your relationship.
• Permission to Be You: Give yourself the green light to explore your desires without fear of judgment or embarrassment.

• The Kinktionary – Safiya’s recommended resource for learning kink terms.
• Yes, No, Maybe List – A guide for exploring and discussing boundaries with your partner.
• Books for Kink Exploration:
• When Someone You Love Is Kinky by Dossie Easton, The Big Book of Submission by Rachel Kramer Bussel & Tongue Tied by Stella Harris.

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In this insightful episode of It’s About DAMN Time, host I dive deep into the importance of living authentically and how embracing vulnerability can strengthen your connections.

Reflecting on personal experiences from this past weekend's Afros & Audio podcast conference, I share how networking, emotional expression, and being truly seen by others can enhance personal growth and create meaningful relationships.

I emphasize the power of authenticity in fostering connections and the mental and emotional benefits of allowing yourself to be vulnerable. By leaning into emotional honesty, you can not only connect more deeply with others but also accelerate your own journey of self-discovery.

Additionally, I provide a sneak peek into his upcoming series focused on sexual health and personal development, promising to explore even more ways to live in your truth and grow holistically.

All of this and so much more...It's About DAMN Time!

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Welcome back to another episode of It’s About DAMN Time!

This week, I’m diving deep with Shanna Stevenson, who is entering a new chapter in her life at 40. We talk about everything from the emotional journey of going through a divorce to what it means to truly find yourself after years of putting everyone else first.

This episode is all about transformation, self-discovery, and the importance of mental health.

Shanna opens up about her own personal experience with marriage, counseling, and ultimately, her decision to end the relationship and start fresh.

She shares what it was like to search for a bilingual therapist and the cultural complexities that played a role in her marriage.

We also get into how COVID-19 reshaped her perspective on life, her struggles with balancing motherhood, and how counseling became a game-changer in understanding relationship dynamics.

We talk a lot about what it means to embrace your femininity, reclaim your independence, and be unapologetically authentic after a life-changing event like divorce.

Shanna’s story is one of resilience and rebirth, and whether you’re approaching 40, navigating a divorce, or simply looking to reconnect with your true self, there’s something in this conversation for you.

Tune in for an episode that’s packed with heartfelt advice, inspiring stories, and practical tips for navigating life’s toughest transitions.

Whether you’re in the middle of your own life shift or supporting someone who is, this episode will resonate.

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In this episode of It’s About Damn Time, I sit down with Marquita Henderson, who recently celebrated her first anniversary of going vegan, to explore her journey of self-discovery through a plant-based lifestyle.

We dive into how switching to a vegan diet has not only transformed her relationship with food but also improved her overall health and well-being.

We talk about the health implications of our family histories and how that pushed Marquita to rethink her diet. For her, going vegan was more than just changing what was on her plate—it was about taking control of her health, prioritizing self-care, and reconnecting with food in a more meaningful way.

Marquita shares some real talk about the obstacles she faced when going vegan, especially living in a small town where finding plant-based options isn't always easy.

Spoiler: Meal prep and time management were key!

We also get into the emotional side of the transition: how she navigated possible pushback from family and friends and what it means to stay committed to a lifestyle change, even when it’s tough.

Plus, we discuss the pros and cons of going vegan—everything from health benefits to the surprising challenges that many don’t consider.

Whether you’re curious about adopting a plant-based diet or just looking for some inspiration on how to make meaningful changes in your own life, this episode is packed with insight, practical tips, and a whole lot of heart.

• The health benefits of switching to a vegan lifestyle and how it impacted Marquita’s life
• Overcoming challenges like family dynamics and small-town living while staying vegan
• The importance of meal prep, time management, and staying consistent
• Why Marquita believes veganism is more than just a diet change—it’s a shift toward self-care and prioritizing health
• Practical advice for anyone considering a similar transition
• The emotional and physical rewards of sticking to a plant-based lifestyle

If you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to walk a different road by going vegan, you don’t want to miss this conversation!

• How Marquita’s family health history inspired her lifestyle change
• The power of meal prep and time management for staying on track with a plant-based diet
• The pros and cons of going vegan, from real-world experience
• How committing to your health can lead to self-discovery and long-term benefits

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In this episode, I share my personal journey of facing panic attacks and the emotional turmoil following my job loss.

I discuss the challenges of job searching, the importance of support and communication during tough times, and how I am embracing change by building a podcast agency, D.A.M.N Solutions.

I emphasize the need to overcome self-doubt and take action, reminding y'all that you have nothing to lose and should pursue your passions wholeheartedly.

Takeaways

• Jarratt is currently dealing with panic attacks and emotional stress.
• He recently lost his job, which has added to his feelings of uncertainty.
• Job searching is a challenging process that requires resilience.
• Support from friends and family is crucial during job loss.
• Communication is key; be mindful of how you approach someone who has lost their job.
• Embracing change can lead to new opportunities, such as starting a podcast agency.
• Self-doubt can be a significant barrier to success.
• Taking action is essential, especially when feeling backed against the wall.
• Life is short, and it's important to pursue your passions.
• Jarratt encourages listeners to get involved and take risks.

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In this episode of It’s About DAMN Time, I’m diving deep into my personal journey of health, wellness, and self-discovery.

I’ve always believed in the power of accountability, but recently, I’ve been challenged to truly practice what I preach. So, I’m opening up about the real struggles I’ve faced on my wellness journey and the importance of holding myself accountable—not just for me, but for my community as well.

We all know that self-care is critical, but sometimes it’s easier to talk about than to actually live it. I’m sharing what I’ve learned about the power of consistency, building a supportive community, and why it’s essential to show up for yourself every day. This episode is all about taking real, actionable steps toward better health and well-being.

If you’re on a similar path and looking to make positive lifestyle changes, I invite you to join me on this journey. Let’s keep each other accountable and build a community that lifts each other up.

Together, we can turn words into action and become the best versions of ourselves.

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In this episode, I sit down with the award-winning podcast producer and host, Dominic Lawson, to discuss his core belief that "success is ninety percent planning and ten percent execution."

Together, we dive deep into what success truly looks like, the importance of strategic planning, and the key elements that help turn dreams into reality.

Dominic shares his own journey, highlighting the moments where careful planning paid off and how he pushed past setbacks to achieve success. We also talk about the role of support systems and how critical they are in maintaining the momentum toward your goals.

Dominic’s personal stories, combined with practical advice, provide listeners with a clear roadmap for success.

Whether you’re just starting out or trying to level up, this episode offers actionable steps, tips for overcoming obstacles, and insight into how to build a solid plan for your future success.

By the end, you’ll have your very own "Blueprint to Success" ready to put into action.

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