it's not just you

it's not just you

By Soph and RachSociety & Culture
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it's not just you episodes

  • if you're noticing THIS in your friendship... don't ignore it
    you know when your friend says “no it’s fine” but you know it’s absolutely not fine lol. this week we’re chatting all things passive aggression in friendship. from the subtle digs to saying nothing when you’re actually very annoyed — why do we do it, and what’s the healthier way to handle conflict with our friends? lets get into it 🫣

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    32 min
  • i keep clashing with my best mate
    what do you do when you're type a, and your best mate is type b and you see the world SO differently!? worry not, we're here to say it's not just you! 'why are they always late?' , 'why are they so stressy?'... it can be so easy to get frustrated with our friends! here's what we've learnt over the years of our type a/type b friendship.

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    38 min
  • things every girl can relate to on their period
    oh the life of a woman! having a period is a privilege (and not something we take for granted) but it can also be LONG. today we're discussing the highs & lows of our cycles in the hope of providing some *relatable content* for the girlies. disclaimer: this is NOT a scientific unpacking, just two mates humbly chatting about their own experiences of having a period. enjoy!

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    43 min
  • if you're single look out for these green flags
    get your flags out ladies – this weeks pod is a bit of fun for us all. we’re running through your biggest green flags in a guy to see which ones get the 'it's not just you' stamp of approval. from the sweet and thoughtful to the slightly rogue... we're sharing our opinions, debating your suggestions, and seeing if we'd agree with your dream boyfriend checklist ✅

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    29 min
  • 'i really struggle with body confidence in summer'
    summer is to be ENJOYED..not to be spent worrying about the way our bodies look in swimwear! how can we be confident queens on holiday? why is life about so much more than our cellulite or rolls!? confidence is a journey, but today we want to encourage you to stop analysing photos of yourself and live in the moment!

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    34 min
  • if you're a single girl in your late 20s, this episode is for you
    if you're single and wondering, "how do I actually meet someone?" this one's for you. we're chatting honestly about dating, meeting people in real life and how that can feel really hard after a long time of doing life on your own.

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    32 min
  • i have no idea what i wanna do when i graduate
    if you've ever felt like you have no idea what you're doing with your life then we're here to say: it's not just you! in this episode we reminisce on that weird time post-uni where you have to work out who you are, a career to pursue, whether to take a break from studies or do a gap year! how do you work out what's next?

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    32 min
  • 'i want more money'
    today we're talking money, money, money. we've never actually spoken about this topic on the pod before! what do we do when finances our consuming our minds!? how we can be satisfied with what we have and not always be striving for more? we're no experts so have grace as we share some thoughts!

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    43 min
  • help! he's living in my head rent free
    if you’re struggling to work out whether the guy you like is actually giving you vibes back (whilst he’s living in your head rent-free) then this is the episode for you. we know this feeling all too well. but today, we’re also here to bring a little reality check: it's hard but maybe he’s just not that into you.

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    27 min
  • my insecurity is killing my friendships
    todays episode is a vulnerable one as we chat about how our insecurity could be sabotaging and costing us our friendships without even knowing it. we discuss the hidden ways that comparison, insecure thinking and self doubt can create tension and distance with the ones we love most 💔 just to say people, you're not alone if you've sometimes felt like the difficulty in your personal life can seep out and start effecting others - it's not just you 🥺

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    40 min

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join us for honest conversation as we address ‘the things everyone feels but no one really speaks about’. we’re soph and rach, two girls who met at uni six years ago and have been inseparable ever…

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