Secondary Losses: It is 100% unequivocally devastating to want children and not be able to have them, to experience a failed cycle or transfer, or a miscarriage. That’s your primary loss in grief. However, you might have also noticed the ripple effects of things you would not have otherwise lost throughout this journey.  These are called secondary losses. Join me this week to understand why we need to normalize secondary losses in infertility and IVF and learn three things you can do to support yourself when you notice one emerging for you.