In this episode Matildas forward Emily Gielnik and her wife Temica Gielnik sit down with their fertility doctor Dr Ben Kroon for an honest conversation about their path to parenthood through IUI, IVF, and donor conception.
They open up about navigating failed IUI rounds, Temica’s unexpected endometriosis diagnosis along the way, and the emotional toll of balancing fertility treatment while spending periods of time apart while Emily was playing for Monterrey in Mexico. Emily also shares the guilt she experienced from not always being physically present during parts of the journey.
Together, they speak candidly about the deeply personal decision to choose a known donor, how they both came to feel aligned in that choice, and why creating their family in a way that felt special, intentional, and meaningful was so important to them.
This episode is a raw and heartfelt conversation aboutfertility, partnership, grief, resilience, and finding your own path to parenthood, one that will make so many listeners feel less alone.
This episode is proudly sponsored by Monash IVF. At Monash IVF, donor treatment options support a wide range of patients, including LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples, solo parents, and people navigating medical or genetic factors.
Their experienced teams provide clear information, coordinated donor pathways, and compassionate care with an understanding that every family looks different. To learn more, visit https://monashivf.com/ivfrealtalk/
You can find Dr Ben Kroon here:
https://www.instagram.com/drbenkroon/
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