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Most parents I know tell me to "savor the little years because the teenage years are the WORST!" I always grimmace a bit at these dooms-dayers. Why? Why should I need to hate the teen years? I want to enjoy my kids even as teens. So, I began paying attention, even before I had kids, trying to figure out why the teen years were so difficult for parents. In this episode I share some things I've learned as a youth pastor, Pastor and now a mom of a couple teens and tweens, and I believe there is one magic key that can make ALLLL the difference. Spoiler: my mom LOVED having all four of us as teens, and she was good at this... LISTENING. Let's dive into this simple, but powerful tool! Don't forget to come follow me on Instagram for all the latest updates, and to say hey! I love hearing from and interacting with you guys over there, so don't be a stranger!
Also, thank you for those of you who have shared these episodes with friends, rated or reviewed it on itunes, those are the #1 best ways to help this podcast grow! You're the best!
I pulled from a few sources when creating today's episode, and wanted to list them below:
Scriptures about Listening
Julian Treasure's Blog- see his Ted Talk on Listening Better
Harvard article: Listening in Leadership
If this has been interesting to you, consider doing more learning! There are many articles, podcasts, books on the topic, and it will only enrich your life... and your family relationships.
More podcasts on the topic: (I can't vouch for these shows, I just loved what I saw about the topic. Listen with a healthy filter.) :)
Listening to your Teen
John Maxwell: Leaders Lead through Listening with Simon Sinek
Parenting Today's Teens: The importance of Listening
Communicating with Teens: Listening
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We all want our kids to grow up to be godly and full of character... but how do we do that?? The word of God is the X factor when it comes to this, so in this episode we dive into how to get the Word of God into your kids hearts in an Uber practical way. Get ready, these tips are simple and super applicable... your family life could change even TODAY.
Don't forget to connect on Instagram @JavawithJen and if you'd like to financially support the podcast, you can do that through Patreon, Venmo @JavawithJen, or directly on Anchor.
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SHOWNOTES:
Romans 10:17
Deuteronomy 5:32-33; 6:5-9
1. Everything has a price... What price are you willing to pay (comfort, convenience, time, etc) to get the word of God in your kid's hearts?
2. What Goes in will come out. You will reap what you sow. PUT IN the Word of God if you want to reap godly character in your children.
3. As parents, we must model a lifestyle built on the word of God.
-Example of my mom who was transformed by the word of God; Dad who had morning quiet times in the word; Your kids need to see your process of being changed by the word of God.
Practical ways to get the word into them:
1. Memorize scripture through phrase-upon-phrase repetition during built in times like meal times, nap time, bedtime.
2. Rules and boundaries at home need to be built around the word of God, and the kids need to know this.
3. Word of God is useful for correcting, rebuking, edifying, etc. Use the word of God as kind guidance in the discipline moments with your children. They need to see your reasoning comes from the word.
4. Write it on surfaces around the house. Mirrors, wall hangings, hung on fridge, etc.
5. Family Time where you read the word of God; ask what it means to them, have them imagine it. What does this tell us about God. What does it tell you about yourself? How can this change your life?
6. Listen to the word of God in your car! If you're listening, pull them in on it.
7. Talk about life situations. Ask thought provoking questions. Ask if a scripture might apply.
8. Share what you're learning from the Word.
9. Discuss what you saw in a movie, the messaging, and how it compares to the Word of God.
10. Regulate other voices going in through entertainment, peers, social media, music, etc. What goes in, comes out.
11. When there's behavioral issues, it's a thinking problem. There are lies present in their thinking somewhere. So bring correction by having them look up scriptures that are relevant to this area of struggle.
LIFE HACKS RESOURCES:
Younger Kids:
-Superbook App -Minno Kids app -Bible App
Older Kids:
-Watch the show "the Chosen" through the App Store.
-Bible time with You. They still crave connection.
-Youversion App- Plans you can do together.
-Memory Verses: "Fighter Verses" App & "Scripture Typer" app
-Instagram devotions: Follow @Pocketfuel (if they're on social media already)
-Have them create their own devotional content on social.
-Text A Verse to them daily from your devo time!
-Daily Bible Inspiration App
Did you know you could change your whole life by changing the way you speak? It’s true. Science verifies this, scripture teaches this, and today, Sherry Jones explains this! Don’t forget to check her out on: FACEBOOK, HER INSTAGRAM, PODCAST INSTAGRAM, PODCAST, and her WEBSITE.
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Feelers unite! It can be tough to be a feeler. You walk into a room full of people and suddenly it's like you stepped into an emotional field of landmines, picking up on people's happy, sad, mad, and glad. All the feelers know the exhaustion that comes from having emotional antennas that are constantly sensing the invisible climate of a space, and sometimes it's hard to know what's you, and what's the guy next to you. Today's guest, Yvonne, shares how this wiring is beautiful, from God, and can be a vehicle to hear his voice and have the ability to speak truth to the hearts of people in a unique and powerful way. It's also a superpower that can enable you to then SHIFT an atmosphere intentionally. If you're a feeler, you'll appreciate this episode. If you're NOT a feeler, you might have a little more empathy for the feelers around you! Share this episode with the feelers you know! (Or the thinkers who need help understanding you a little better ;) )
For those who want to connect with Yvonne's ministry, check her out on INSTAGRAM, FACEBOOK, her PODCAST, YOUTUBE and her WEBSITE.
And don't forget to connect with our Java with Jen Community, and with me, Jen, in INSTAGRAM, FACEBOOK, PODCAST, and BLOG!
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