The Speakeasy

Jesus Gave Us the Blueprint for Belonging & Relationship, but Do We Use It? | Alli Patterson | Episode 348


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Author and teacher Alli Patterson joins Blake to discuss the themes of loneliness, friendship, and the importance of healthy relational boundaries. Alli shares insights from her new book, The Blueprint of Belonging, which explores how Jesus modeled relationships and how those patterns can help us navigate our own connections. She breaks down five key relationship "buckets" that define access and boundaries, emphasizing that not everyone should have the same level of closeness. The conversation also highlights the significance of keeping Jesus at the center, as seeking fulfillment in human relationships alone can lead to disappointment. With personal stories and practical wisdom, this episode offers a thoughtful look at building strong, meaningful relationships in a disconnected world.


In this episode, you’ll be able to…


  • Understand the concept of loneliness and why it persists despite increased digital connection.
  • Explore the importance of keeping Jesus at the center of your relationships.
  • Gain practical tools for cultivating meaningful, life-giving friendships.
  • Alli is the author of Blueprint for Belonging – available everywhere now!

    To connect with Alli…

    Website: allipatterson.com

    Instagram: @theallipatterson

    Facebook: @theallipatterson


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