Some of us believe (subconsciously) that someone else is responsible for our lives; hoping and praying they deliver… and complaining when they don’t. Unfortunately chasing, coercing or manipulating to get others to cooperate is a losing proposition. Because how long will it last? And really, for what reason? What part of us needs to be rescued when we are so fixated on what someone else needs to provide?

Often, people who have given up their power to someone else in order to be rescued have a story. Perhaps that story is that they’re unlovable, or that they give and give to the point that people stomp all over them (giving to get, by the way, is a form of control and manipulation). Many don’t even understand why they are compelled to operate this way. But if you stop for a moment at look at why you want to be rescued, you may see that it’s attached to a very OLD need rather than the current truth. And even if you realize this on some level, you may still continue to grab hold and ignore the triggers inside because you’re conditioned to believe the solution lies outside of you. Well, it doesn’t.

Isn’t it time to understand your old beliefs and triggers so you can feel more in control of yourself, rather than think you can get what you want 24/7 from someone else? Tune in to hear more.