Just a Moment with Mila

We all want a relationship in which we feel safe and secure. But what should that look like? Let's discuss.

Women like myself have a hard time when people don't accept the help we offer, especially when it comes to people close to us or who we truly care deeply about. But when it comes to relationships, falling back and letting the man handle his business is the best thing we can do. And when the dust settles, we understand why. Let's discuss.

When you finally grasp a sliver of happiness, you don't have to tell everyone. I know some of people love to shout about their happiness from the rooftops. There's nothing really wrong with that. But you do deserve to keep a piece of your happiness to yourself. Let's discuss.

The saying is true: just because a person desires you, that doesn't mean that they value you. But you can (and should) have both. Let's discuss.

We've discussed self-sabotage on this show before, but not in this context. We haven't unpacked what it looks like when we do everything in our power to see our relationships fail before they even have a chance to turn into anything. And we haven't talked about why it happens or how to stop it. So...let's discuss.

Ever consider that one of the reasons we may have such a hard time finding ourselves in the types of the relationships that we truly want is because our standards are too high? This is gonna sound contradictory, but even though you should never lower your standards to be with your someone, you may want to ease up just a tad to be with your someone. Don't hurt me. Let's discuss.

People use the terms 'chemistry' and 'compatibility' interchangeably, but they actually mean two different things. You can have one without the other, but the one we should hold most dear, we tend not to. Let's discuss.

Whatever God shows you about your life and your purpose is for you. Nobody else really needs to know. Let's discuss.

There are lessons rock bottom can teach you that the mountaintop knows nothing about. Let's discuss.

Venting is a tricky thing. We have to be ever mindful of what we vent about, who we vent to, and why we vent. Sometimes we need to change our whole approach to venting altogether. Let's discuss.