Kandid Conversations

If you’re ready to overcome any challenge in life and transform into a better version of yourself, I believe you’ll gain a ton of value from today's conversation with Touré Roberts about

• Maintaining balance,

Touré Roberts' is a best-selling author of three published books, entrepreneur, and pastor behind one of the fastest growing congregations in the world, ONE (Formerly One Church LA).  Touré’s work has been featured on most major news outlets including CBS, MSNBC and Good Morning America in addition to guest appearances on the Discovery Channel, OWN, BET, and TV One. Touré’s work in entertainment also includes consulting on a FOX network drama series, writer credits with TV One, and co-executive producing a multi-cam sitcom, the pilot of which was ordered by ABC in 2019.

Touré is the son-in-law of a prominent pastor, businessman, bestselling author, film producer and philanthropist TD Jakes and, his wife, Serita Jakes the philanthropist and entrepreneur. 

Touré shares his life with his spouse and best friend, author, businesswoman, pastor and popular women’s influencer Sarah Jakes Roberts. The Roberts have six children together and reside in Los Angeles.

From negotiating and having tough conversations to freeing yourself from second-guessing and comparing yourself to others--reframing is one of the most powerful (yet underrated) communication skills that can change your everyday life. So, I was thrilled to interview @LiaGarvin, a Leadership Coach, Team Operations & Inclusion Leader at Google, and author of Unstuck: Reframe your thinking to free yourself from the patterns and people that hold you back.

In this episode, we discuss:

🎤Why reframing is not only about seeing the positive side of things.

🎤Practical ways to reframe comparison and move past the “why not me” negative way of thinking.

🎤The benefits of having multiple truths.

🎤Programmed narratives we’ve been taught as children and ways to unlearn them.

Lia also shares one powerful way she’s teaching her daughter how to move past labels that limit our potential.

In her book she provides you with the tools you need to nail the technique of reframing, helping you transform the way you manage conflict, feedback, negotiations, decision- making and more. Learn how to speak up for yourself with confidence, silence your inner critic and open up a whole new realm of professional possibilities.”

In this 6 minute episode, I share the advice I gave a woman who was struggling with an idea she couldn't stop thinking about yet she didn't feel motivated enough to start taking action towards her goals. 

Mastering a skill was never really my problem. But mastering my BS (aka my belief system) including my insecurities, fears, and assumptions about how the world works- was the problem that held me back from achieving success. In this episode, I share the harsh and inevitable truth that's helped me get out of my own way--in hopes that it will help you too!

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2. Before You Give Up: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/before-you-give-up/id1519506695?i=1000539687920

3. You Don't Feel Like Showing Up, Now What?https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/you-dont-feel-like-showing-up-now-what/id1519506695?i=1000525576631

If you get sidetracked, distracted, or discouraged because you can't stick to your goals or the things you say you want to do in your life,  let me be the first to tell you, procrastination isn't your problem. In this episode:

• The real reason you procrastinate and ways to get unstuck and make success happen for yourself

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Sometimes, it's not you, it's them. Today, I'm sharing what many coaches, courses, and experts are still failing to acknowledge about impostor syndrome. Mindset shifts and actionable ways you can shift your perspective about feeling like you're a fraud or incompetent. Plus I'm sharing the research and findings that led me to stop calling "it"imposter syndrome. 

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If you're tired of doubting yourself and ready to show up in your life and career as you've never done before, take note confidence is not a fixed emotion.

In this episode, I'm sharing the real reason why you're struggling with a lack of confidence and  4 specific ways to not only triple your confidence but boost your impact and income as well. 

Get on the Waitlist for my upcoming LIVE Bootcamp:  The Confident Communicator https://kandia-johnson-665b.mykajabi.com/confident-communicator

Books Mentioned: 

• Getting Past No: Negotiating in Difficult Situations by William Yuri

Don't Leave Money On The Table: Negotiation Strategies for Women Leaders in Male-Dominated Industries by Jacqueline Twillie MBA

Related Episodes:

• Nah Pay Me: Communicate Your Value and Make The Ask During Negotiations

Finding your purpose is often touted as being one of the keys to living a fulfilling life. But today,  I'm sharing what we often get wrong about finding your purpose plus, other beliefs you need to unlearn to level up in your life and your career. 

I’m fresh off of a 3-day turned 45-day social media detox, so in my latest podcast episode, I’m talking about a few signs you need to take a break from social media. Why Social media isn’t really your problem. Plus ways to recharge, reflect and redesign your life for digital wellness instead of digital overwhelm. Listen and let me know what you think.

In this episode, I talk about why you should stop setting New Year Resolutions, ways to set more meaningful intentions for the New Year, and how to write a one-sentence vision for yourself and live by it every day.

Links and Articles Mentioned During this Episode

• Free Mini Journal for Planning an Unstoppable 2022