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Okay, full transparency? I don’t fully understand subspace. Not in the technical, kink-encyclopedia way. And that’s exactly why we hit record on this one—from our camper, with my subbie by my side—to talk through what it means for us.

In this episode, we unpack what subspace looks like from a real-world, real-relationship perspective. This isn’t textbook BDSM theory. It’s about feeling it out (literally and emotionally), recognizing what it might look like in everyday FLR life, and realizing that you don’t need to get it “right” to start exploring.

We also talk about:

• Flogging for the first time (spoiler: I loved it)
• The struggle of noise, schedules, and migraines
• Domspace and why I might be avoiding it
• MommyDom feels… and how I’m working through the guilt of being a soft-hearted boss bitch

If you’re navigating power exchange, learning what turns you on, or just trying to figure out what the hell “subspace” actually feels like—you’re not alone. And I hope this episode makes you feel seen.

Key Points We Talked About:

• What “subspace” technically is… and how it really shows up in our dynamic
• Why wearing a cage might be a form of low-key subspace (yep, I said it)
• Domspace: is it real? Am I avoiding it? Is it my next breakthrough?
• What happens when you mix floggers, photo shoots, and a surprise moment of connection
• How I’m still growing into this lifestyle (and still sometimes feel weird about being too bossy)
• Why caregiving, humor, and guilt sometimes show up in my dominant headspace
• Letting go of shame and learning to own what this relationship structure really gives us

Got a favorite blog post or book about subspace or Domspace? Send it my way—I want to learn more, and I’d love to hear what has resonated with you. Seriously.

Also, if you’re curious about the deeper side of FLR—beyond the cage and into the connection—you’ll love what I share on Patreon. 

And don't forget to check out our unfiltered content on Clapper (@KrystineKellogg) and our day-to-day tiny home adventure on @Uncompa

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Pour a cup (or spike it if you need to), because this week is straight-up coffee talk with Miss Krystine—raw, unfiltered, fast, and unapologetically real.

From my recent release from TikTok jail to some very real conversations about body image, male chastity, cuckolding, and swinging, this episode covers it all. I reflect on the emotional weight behind choices like locking up your partner, why some people STILL care way too much about what their friends think, and what happens when shame and insecurity take the wheel.

Also? I drop her thoughts on lingerie, punishment and reward dynamics, and how pegging might now be rebranded as “shmegging” on TikTok. (We’ll let you decide if that sticks.)

What You'll Walk Away With:

• Why trying to "convince" your partner to swing is a fast-track to relationship disaster
• How chastity changes a man—and why that attentiveness is chef’s kiss for dominant women
• Why cock cages and lace panties are hot as hell (yes, she said it)
• Tips on punishment/reward that don’t involve pain—but pack a psychological punch
• How to start FLR conversations from a place of honesty, not coercion

Questions This Episode Helps Answer:

• How do I talk to my partner about swinging or chastity?
• What are healthy punishments and rewards in FLR?
• Why do submissive men wear panties and cock cages?
• What does female-led relationship structure look like in everyday life?
• How do I deal with insecurity or shame in the lifestyle?
• Can chastity improve intimacy in a relationship?
• Why do people keep getting banned on TikTok for talking about kink?

🎯 Coaching + Keyholding
Exploring the lifestyle and wondering where to start—or how to keep going without losing your sanity or partner? Krystine offers coaching and keyholding support that’s built around real-life relationships, not just fantasy.

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domestic discipline, female led relationship dynamics, accountability, communication, people pleaser, personal growth, female led relationship challenges, discipline strategies, humor in relationships, shared growth, female led relationship advice, discipline and play, understanding in partnerships, personal anecdotes, physical touch, relationship rules, partnership growth, podcast insights, female-led relationships, submissive rewards, holiday appreciation, partner devotion, relationship dynamics,, control and appreciation, partner confidence, submissive devotion, unique dynamics, balance of control, partner nurturing, relationship empowerment, submissive strength.pegging, female-led relationship, kink, empowerment, dominance, submission, ass play, emotional connection, intimacy, power play, strap-on, control

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This week, I’m taking a deep dive into one of the most misunderstood and powerful kinks in the lifestyle—male chastity. Why do men lock their dicks in cages? Why do women love it? Is it about control? Humiliation? Focus? Feminization?

Yes. And no. And… let’s talk about it.

In this episode, I read through two articles (yes, actual journalism!) and share my real-time reactions, stories, and thoughts on everything from the mental shift that happens when a man gives up control of his orgasm, to the physical challenges of cleaning, fitting, and wearing a cock cage.

I also answer some heavy questions:
 What does chastity do to a man emotionally?
 Does penis size matter?
 And what the hell is a healthy orgasm schedule anyway?

 What You'll Walk Away With:

• Honest breakdowns of why chastity is so psychologically powerful
• How it affects emotional intimacy, sexual focus, and power dynamics
• What real men say about why they wear cages (and what it does to them)
• Why it’s not about penis size—and never has been
• How female keyholders experience empowerment, attention, and total control

Questions This Episode Helps Answer:

• What is male chastity and why do people enjoy it?
• Why do submissive men wear chastity cages?
• How do female keyholders benefit from male chastity?
• Is male chastity safe? What are the risks and realities?
• What size cage works for large testicles?
• Does pegging or chastity mean someone is gay?
• Can you practice chastity without a dominant partner?

Articles:

• VICE Article  (let them know that I sent you)
• The Chastity Club article appears no longer existing

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Okay, buckle up—because we’re going back to my favorite subject: pegging.

In this episode, I dive deep into why pegging is still such a taboo topic for so many men—and why that needs to change. From sex myths to prostate truths, from orgasm intensity to emotional connection, I unpack real-life quotes from men and women (thank you, Men's Health articles), and bring my own no-filter, full-body-orgasm-loving perspective to the mic.

I talk about vulnerability, masculinity, and the power exchange that actually builds intimacy—not erases it. Whether you’re curious, already exploring, or still whispering “but does that make me gay?” under your breath… this one’s for you.

 What You'll Walk Away With:

• Why pegging does not define your sexual orientation
• What real men say about the power and pleasure of anal play
• How pegging impacts emotional intimacy and trust in a relationship
• Why so many women (myself included!) love pegging their partners
• The practical truths—awkwardness, prep, rhythm, soreness, and all

 Questions This Episode Helps Answer:

• What is pegging and why do men like it?
• Does enjoying pegging make you gay?
• How do I ask my partner to try pegging?
• Why do women enjoy pegging their male partners?
• How does pegging feel compared to traditional sex?
• What’s the emotional experience of pegging?
• What are tips for a first pegging experience? 

Coaching + Keyholding Support
If pegging is on your radar—but shame, confusion, or communication blocks are holding you back—I can help. I offer private coaching for couples and individuals navigating real-life kink dynamics, and keyholding for submissive men ready to deepen their surrender.

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No shame. Just smart, sexy guidance rooted in reality.

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domestic discipline, female led relationship dynamics, accountability, communication, people pleaser, personal growth, female led relationship challenges, discipline strategies, humor in relationships, shared growth, female led relationship advice, discipline and play, understanding in partnerships, personal anecdotes, physical touch, relationship rules, partnership growth, podcast insights, female-led relationships, submissive rewards, holiday appreciation, partner devotion, relationship dynamics,, control and appreciation, partner confidence, submissive devotion, unique dynamics, balance of control, partner nurturing, relationship empowerment, submissive strength.pegging, female-led relationship, kink, empowerment, dominance, submission, ass play, emotional connection, intimacy, power play, strap-on, control

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Okay—this is the one I knew I’d eventually record. Today I’m talking about how I talk to my kids about my lifestyle: about FLR, submission, my work, nudity, consent, and body positivity. This is not a guidebook. It’s a real, messy, and honest look at what it’s like raising a teenager who knows her mom is a dominant woman living a lifestyle that doesn’t fit the norm.

I talk about shame, trust, communication, and how I choose what to say (and what to leave out). I also talk about what I never had growing up—and why I’ve made it my mission to raise kids who feel safe asking hard questions and loving their bodies without guilt.

It’s vulnerable. It’s a little wild. It’s honest as hell. And if you’re living a dynamic like this while raising kids—you’re not alone.

What You'll Walk Away With:

• How to talk to older kids about relationship dynamics (without oversharing)
• Why curiosity ≠ permission—and how to hold boundaries while staying honest
• How shame and silence hurt more than the truth
• The impact of modeling confidence, respect, and body positivity
• Why “know your kid” is the only real parenting rule in this space

Google-Friendly Questions This Episode Helps Answer:

• Should I tell my kids about my FLR or kink lifestyle?
• How do I explain submission and dominance to a teenager?
• What are healthy boundaries for parenting while practicing kink?
• How can I teach my daughter body positivity and confidence?
• What’s the right way to answer hard questions about sex and relationships?
• How can I be honest with my kids without giving too much detail?
• Is it okay for parents to talk openly about sexuality?

 Coaching + Keyholding Support
If you're raising kids and navigating a lifestyle that isn’t always “mainstream”—you don’t have to figure it out alone. I offer private coaching and keyholding services with a focus on real-life dynamics, communication, and balance.

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domestic discipline, female led relationship dynamics, accountability, communication, people pleaser, personal growth, female led relationship challenges, discipline strategies, humor in relationships, shared growth, female led relationship advice, discipline and play, understanding in partnerships, personal anecdotes, physical touch, relationship rules, partnership growth, podcast insights, female-led relationships, submissive rewards, holiday appreciation, partner devotion, relationship dynamics,, control and appreciation, partner confidence, submissive devotion, unique dynamics, balance of control, partner nurturing, relationship empowerment, submissive strength.pegging, female-led relationship, kink, empowerment, dominance, submission, ass play, emotional connection, intimacy, power play, strap-on, control

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I'm recording from camp this week, and this one is a full-blown Krystine-style coffee chat (minus the coffee).

Between massaging strangers and fending off my "adorable herd of children", I share the questions, themes, and emotional truths that came up during my time alone at her happy place: CAMP.

This episode dives into swinging dynamics, polyamory, boundaries, communication, and the gender double standards that still very much exist in lifestyle communities. I opens up about what it might look like if my subbie and I explored swinging, what I’d expect, what I wouldn't tolerate, and why emotional safety always comes before play.

I also get real about my own jealousy, evolving perspectives, and what it means to love my subbie so deeply that anything else would feel… off. This one’s raw, unscripted, and packed with the kinds of thoughts most people are too nervous to say out loud. But not me!

What You'll Walk Away With:

• Why every swinging couple has different boundaries (and that’s okay)
• What role communication and rules play in lifestyle relationships
• Whether gender should matter in swinging and poly situations
• Krystine’s reflections on polyamory, jealousy, and the power of love
• How our “programming” affects how we see kink and love

 Questions This Episode Helps Answer:

• What are common rules for couples who swing?
• How do boundaries work in the swinging lifestyle?
• Can you be polyamorous and in an FLR?
• Why is it okay for women to be with women, but not men with men?
• Is jealousy normal in open relationships?
• How do I support my partner exploring kink when I’m unsure?
• Are there Female-Led Relationships that include swinging or polyamory?

🎯 Coaching + Keyholding Available
If this episode stirred something in you—questions, curiosity, or a “holy crap, that’s me!” feeling—let’s talk. I offer private coaching and keyholding, customized to where you are on your journey.

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domestic discipline, female led relationship dynamics, accountability, communication, people pleaser, personal growth, female led relationship challenges, discipline strategies, humor in relationships, shared growth, female led relationship advice, discipline and play, understanding in partnerships, personal anecdotes, physical touch, relationship rules, partnership growth, podcast insights, female-led relationships, submissive rewards, holiday appreciation, partner devotion, relationship dynamics,, control and appreciation, partner confidence, submissive devotion, unique dynamics, balance of control, partner nurturing, relationship empowerment, submissive strength.pegging, female-led relationship, kink, empowerment, dominance, submission, ass play, emotional connection, intimacy, power play, strap-on, control

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This is just a placeholder for episode 37 of season 1. My subby has scoured our drives for any possible lable for this episode to no avail. 

However, if he happens to find it down the road, this audio will be replaced and this episode will be restored.

We are SO SORRY!!!

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domestic discipline, female led relationship dynamics, accountability, communication, people pleaser, personal growth, female led relationship challenges, discipline strategies, humor in relationships, shared growth, female led relationship advice, discipline and play, understanding in partnerships, personal anecdotes, physical touch, relationship rules, partnership growth, podcast insights, female-led relationships, submissive rewards, holiday appreciation, partner devotion, relationship dynamics,, control and appreciation, partner confidence, submissive devotion, unique dynamics, balance of control, partner nurturing, relationship empowerment, submissive strength.pegging, female-led relationship, kink, empowerment, dominance, submission, ass play, emotional connection, intimacy, power play, strap-on, control

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This week, I’m breaking down something that every submissive man needs to hear: how to actually support your Domme’s confidence in real life. Not through fantasy. Not with surprise cages. But with mindset, consistency, and actual effort.

We talk about what real submission looks like—not just the sexy bits, but the communication, daily service, trust, and selflessness it takes to make a dominant woman feel secure, respected, and in charge. I also share personal stories (including a little toy action from Lovense), a whole list of actionable submission ideas, and why “helping your dominant feel dominant” is not about what gets you off—it’s about what gets her empowered.

Whether you're in a new dynamic, trying to reset a stale one, or just here for the sass and stories—this one’s got something for you.

 What You'll Walk Away With:

• The difference between fantasy-led submission and actual service
• 5 non-tangible mindset shifts that build Domme confidence
• 5 tangible tasks that show love and strengthen FLR
• Why submissives are some of the strongest men out there
• How to build trust and security that leads to deeper intimacy

Questions This Episode Helps Answer:

• How do I support my dominant partner in an FLR?
• What makes a good submissive in real life?
• What does service submission look like day-to-day?
• What should I avoid doing as a new submissive?
• Is chastity required in a Female-Led Relationship?
• What are real-life tasks for submissive men?
• How do I build my wife’s confidence as a Domme?

Coaching + Keyholding Support
If you’re hearing this and realizing you’ve been making it about your kink instead of her confidence—it’s okay. That’s why I coach. Whether you’re new to FLR or just want to build a stronger bond, I offer private coaching and keyholding to help you realign with what matters.

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Let’s build something that works for both of you.

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domestic discipline, female led relationship dynamics, accountability, communication, people pleaser, personal growth, female led relationship challenges, discipline strategies, humor in relationships, shared growth, female led relationship advice, discipline and play, understanding in partnerships, personal anecdotes, physical touch, relationship rules, partnership growth, podcast insights, female-led relationships, submissive rewards, holiday appreciation, partner devotion, relationship dynamics,, control and appreciation, partner confidence, submissive devotion, unique dynamics, balance of control, partner nurturing, relationship empowerment, submissive strength.pegging, female-led relationship, kink, empowerment, dominance, submission, ass play, emotional connection, intimacy, power play, strap-on, control

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Welcome to episode 35—recorded straight from the road! 

This week, my subbie and I are taking you along for the ride (literally) as we unpack the fun, flirty, and flat-out functional ways to spice up your FLR dynamic during a road trip. But as usual, we also go deep: touching on relationship dynamics, self-expression, setting boundaries, and why “my husband won’t let me” is one of the saddest things I’ve heard all week.

We’re breaking down five sexy, creative ways to incorporate power exchange, play, and connection while you’re on the move—and why camping, secluded trails, and certain campgrounds can be way more exciting than you’d think. Plus, we touch on judgment, communication, and how community can completely shift the way you live this lifestyle.

What You'll Walk Away With:

• 5 fun, kinky ways to enjoy power exchange on the road (from playlists to campground play!)
• Why “he won’t let me” is a major red flag in any relationship
• How to build trust and flexibility in everyday FLR decisions
• Tips for exploring lifestyle-friendly campgrounds as a curious couple
• A reminder that healthy kink starts with mutual respect, not just sex

Questions This Episode Helps Answer:

• How do you spice up a Female-Led Relationship on a road trip?
• Are there kink-friendly campgrounds in the US?
• What is a lifestyle-friendly campground?
• How do I start exploring public play with my partner?
• What are signs of a healthy vs. controlling relationship?
• How can we integrate kink into everyday life, not just the bedroom?
• How do you build emotional connection while exploring FLR?

 Coaching + Keyholding Support
Feeling a spark but not sure where to start? Or maybe your partner is curious but nervous? I offer private coaching and keyholding services tailored to your pace, your desires, and your relationship goals.

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Keywords:
domestic discipline, female led relationship dynamics, accountability, communication, people pleaser, personal growth, female led relationship challenges, discipline strategies, humor in relationships, shared growth, female led relationship advice, discipline and play, understanding in partnerships, personal anecdotes, physical touch, relationship rules, partnership growth, podcast insights, female-led relationships, submissive rewards, holiday appreciation, partner devotion, relationship dynamics,, control and appreciation, partner confidence, submissive devotion, unique dynamics, balance of control, partner nurturing, relationship empowerment, submissive strength.pegging, female-led relationship, kink, empowerment, dominance, submission, ass play, emotional connection, intimacy, power play, strap-on, control

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This week, I’m responding to all the commentary—good, bad, and WTF—that’s been rolling in across TikTok, Twitter, and everywhere else FLR gets people in their feelings.

From accusations of cheating and failed marriages to questions about my dynamic with my subbie, this episode is my uncensored take on the real emotional backbone of FLR—and why people who judge it probably don’t understand it (or are suppressing something themselves 👀).

I also talk about boundaries, confidence, and how turning 42 has completely shifted how I show up, speak up, and stop apologizing for who I am. Whether you're defending your lifestyle, struggling to take compliments, or just trying to own your truth—this one's for you.

What You'll Walk Away With:

• Why cuckolding doesn’t automatically ruin relationships
• The difference between healthy dynamics and escapism via kink
• How to respond to judgment from friends, strangers… even exes
• Why boundaries are critical—and how I’m finally learning to hold them
• A reminder that if you’re not hurting anyone, you’re allowed to live loud

Questions This Episode Helps Answer:

• Do cuckolding relationships last?
• Is FLR the same as cheating?
• Why do people judge nontraditional relationships?
• What are healthy boundaries in a kink-based relationship?
• How do I deal with internet trolls or kink-shaming?
• How can I confidently talk about my lifestyle without shame?
• How do I emotionally process exploring kink in public or online?

Coaching + Support Available
If you’re in this lifestyle and navigating fear, shame, or the pressure to be perfect—I see you. I offer private FLR coaching and keyholding for couples or individuals. Whether you’re brand new or just need a sounding board, I’ve got space for you.

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domestic discipline, female led relationship dynamics, accountability, communication, people pleaser, personal growth, female led relationship challenges, discipline strategies, humor in relationships, shared growth, female led relationship advice, discipline and play, understanding in partnerships, personal anecdotes, physical touch, relationship rules, partnership growth, podcast insights, female-led relationships, submissive rewards, holiday appreciation, partner devotion, relationship dynamics,, control and appreciation, partner confidence, submissive devotion, unique dynamics, balance of control, partner nurturing, relationship empowerment, submissive strength.pegging, female-led relationship, kink, empowerment, dominance, submission, ass play, emotional connection, intimacy, power play, strap-on, control