Leadership Journey Show Notes:

This week in the Leadership Journey, Keith Grabowski and Brian Kight address the coach and parent dynamic with (E+R=O) Event + Response= Outcome. This is something that directly affects these young athletes not only on the field but in life as well. Keith and Brian have talked about E+R=O between coaches and players, and now they apply it for the coaches and parents who have the most direct connection, time and influence.

01:00 E+R=O is fundamental

02:50 E+R=O is at the heart of life

03:07 What E+R=O stands for

03:15 It’s a mindset and a skillset

03:50 The mindset

05:10 Adopting the mindset first

06:00 Work required for the mindset

06:35 Keith’s life example

08:05 Brian’s application starting point

09:25 Applying E+R=O with parents

10:12 You don’t control parents

11:40 What did you think would happen coaching football?

12:39 You don’t control outcomes

14:10 You only control your response

15:40 E+R=O is how life works

17:45 Is it a mistake to wall off parents?

19:37 The controlling coaches

20:30 Brian’s E+R=O with a parent

25:05 The "you" issue

25:35 The E will not change

26:20 Creating good O's through good R's

27:45 When the bad O's happen

28:30 Tomorrow’s E's are influenced by today’s O's & today’s O's are made by Rs right now

29:05 Putting it to practice

30:30 Take responsibility yourself

31:50 It takes a lot of work

32:10 Keith’s perspective using E+R=O

33:10 Doing it in every portion of your life

34:00 The only limitation is effort

34:35 The skillset of E+R=O

35:05 6 behavior skills for your R

35:25 The football perspective

38:30 USA Football & focus3

38:55 Daily Discipline

39:40 National Conference

40:00 Brian Kight’s National Conference topics

40:45 National Conference promo code