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Divorce isn’t the end—it’s the beginning of your next evolution. In this powerful and soul-nourishing episode of *Legally Uncensored*, host **Demetria Graves** welcomes actress, author, and creative force **Valeka Jessica**, who shares her inspiring journey of transformation after a decade-long marriage.

Affectionately known as “V,” Valeka opens up about how the breakdown of her marriage became a breakthrough into her higher self. Through personal stories, honest reflections, and wisdom drawn from her *guided journal*, she reveals **11 essential tips** to help women reclaim their power, redefine their purpose, and blossom spiritually, emotionally, and financially after divorce.

This episode dives into:

* How to *rename* yourself and reimagine your identity
* Releasing the past by getting rid of “his things”
* Reconnecting with your purpose and finding joy again
* The role of therapy, tribe, and spirituality in healing
* Financial lessons and building independence
* Using mindfulness, manifestation, and daily rituals to stay grounded
* The importance of setting boundaries and celebrating small wins

Whether you’re navigating divorce now or rebuilding after, this conversation is a heart-forward roadmap to reclaiming your life and honoring your next chapter.

📘 Grab Valeka’s journal and start your journey: *Blossoming After Divorce*
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Can you fix your marriage without setting foot in a counselor’s office? In this transformative episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves sits down with retired marriage and family counselor Ziba Graham Jr. to explore just that.

With decades of experience in helping couples and an innovative approach that moves away from traditional therapy models, Ziba introduces practical, future-focused strategies that have saved relationships—without laying blame or reliving past hurts. In fact, his approach was so effective, couples often "fired" him after just a few sessions.

Together, they unpack:

• Why men often resist traditional counseling—and what to do about it
• The key stages of a relationship and how to navigate them
• What makes a healthy relationship thrive over time
• Three things you can do right now to shift your marriage dynamic
• The "miracle question" and other tools to reset connection and trust

Whether you’re trying to reconnect, avoid divorce, or simply strengthen your marriage, this episode delivers insightful, no-nonsense solutions that men (and their partners) will actually appreciate.

 Learn more about Ziba's method in his book: Fix Your Marriage Without Counseling fixyourmarriagebook.com Available on Amazon: Fix Your Marriage Without Counseling

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When a marriage ends, one of the most complex and emotionally charged assets to deal with is the family home. In this episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves is joined by veteran Los Angeles-based real estate professional Phyllis Harb to unpack everything you need to know about real estate and divorce.

From deciding who stays or sells, to navigating buyouts, tax implications, and the emotional weight of leaving a shared home—this conversation dives deep into the legal, financial, and personal decisions that surround real estate during and after divorce.

Whether you're in the middle of a separation or just planning ahead, this episode offers practical advice, real-life stories, and tips for making informed, fair, and future-focused choices about one of your biggest assets.

Tune in to learn:

* What happens to the house in different divorce scenarios
* How to handle buyouts and avoid costly mistakes
* Tips for selling or buying post-divorce
* Emotional strategies for letting go and starting fresh
* Why working with a real estate pro who understands divorce makes all the difference

Learn more about Phyllis at www.harbandco.com

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In this episode of Legally Uncensored, we’re talking about the “P” word—Prenups. Host Demetria Graves, Esq. sits down with powerhouse attorney Rachel King, Esq. to break the stigma around prenuptial agreements and explain why they’re not just for the rich or famous.

From shifting societal roles to real stats on why Millennials and Gen Z are leading the prenup conversation, this candid episode dives into:

• What a prenup really is (and isn’t)
• Common myths and cultural misconceptions
• How prenups can protect both partners—not just assets, but expectations

Whether you're engaged, married, or simply curious, this episode is a must-listen for anyone navigating love with clarity and confidence.

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In this candid and thought-provoking episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves, Esq. sits down with NYC-based hospitality professional and former model Yoki Brown to explore love, divorce, and dating from a man’s perspective.

Yoki opens up about marrying young, the evolution of his relationship, and how he and his ex-wife remain close friends to this day. Now in his 40s and single/dating, he reflects on how his past shaped his current views on love, commitment, and what it means to build stronger foundations later in life.

Together, they unpack what it’s like to date in a big city, navigate personal growth after divorce, and redefine what a modern relationship can look like—especially when friendship with an ex is part of the equation. From hard truths to unexpected lessons, this episode offers real talk on relationships, resilience, and starting over with clarity and confidence.

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Is divorce... contagious? In this laugh-out-loud yet deeply honest episode of Legally Uncensored, host Demetria Graves sits down with writer, creative, and single mom Amber Dorsey to explore the ripple effects of divorce within friendships and communities.

From side-eyeing your relationship after a friend’s breakup to the quiet comparisons we don’t talk about, Amber brings humor, heart, and hard-earned wisdom to the mic. They unpack how one couple calling it quits can trigger deep reflection in others—and how comedy, cannabis, and community can be powerful tools in healing and moving forward.

You’ll hear about:

• Divorce ripple effects in social circles and great friends
• Navigating awkward friendships post-split
• The power of humor in healing
• Amber’s “divorce glow-up” and lessons as a single mom

If you’ve ever felt alone in your relationship doubts or are rediscovering yourself after a split, this one’s for you.

🎧 Tune in and join the conversation—because love, loss, and laughter are all part of the journey.

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In light of the recent **verdict in the Diddy case**, this episode of *Legally Uncensored* takes on even greater urgency.

Host **Demetria L. Graves, Esq.** returns with licensed therapist **LeAnn Lazar** to continue the vital conversation on **domestic violence and its legal and emotional impact**—especially during divorce. Part 2 goes deeper into the lived realities behind the headlines, exploring how abuse complicates custody battles, support agreements, and the legal protections survivors need to move forward.

Together, Demetria and LeAnn unpack the intersection of **trauma, legal strategy, and survival planning**, offering support and actionable guidance for those experiencing abuse or trying to heal from it.

This episode is not just about law—it’s about **liberation, safety, and reclaiming power**. If you or someone you know is navigating a relationship affected by domestic violence, this episode is essential listening.

Special Guest: LeAnn Lazar, Licensed Therapist - Specializing in Life Transformation

Website: leannlazarcoaching.com 

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We are back with a new season and kicking off with a powerful discussion of "Why They Stay: The Legal and Emotional Toll of Leaving Power & Abuse." Why do survivors of abuse stay—especially when their abuser is powerful, wealthy, and adored by the public?

In this gripping episode, Demetria Graves, Esq. examines the high-profile case of Sean “Diddy” Combs and Cassie Ventura, unraveling the emotional, psychological, and legal complexities behind why leaving abuse isn’t always simple—or safe. From allegations of sex trafficking and emotional manipulation to civil lawsuits and industry silence, we explore the deeper forces at play.

Joining Demetria is certified life and relationship coach LeAnn Lazar, who shares insight on trauma bonding, control, and the process of reclaiming personal power after abuse.

If you’ve ever asked, “Why didn’t they just leave?”—this episode is for you.

**TRIGGER WARNING:** This episode contains discussions of abuse, sexual violence, and trauma

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Welcome to a brand new season of Legally Uncensored with your host, Demetria Graves, Esq.—family law attorney, strategist, and truth-teller. This season, we’re taking a bold and empowering look at love, law, and everything in between.

Whether you're getting married, navigating rocky waters, or healing after a breakup, this show is your go-to guide for clarity and confidence. With real stories, legal insights, and expert guests, we’re helping you prepare, protect, and power through your relationship journey.

Season Theme: Untangling Hearts and Unveiling Truths: Uncensored Conversations on Relationships, Divorce, Family Law, and Beyond.

Because it’s not just about what happens in court—it’s about what happens in life.

💬 This season, we’ll cover:

* Pre-marital planning and protecting your assets
* How to navigate conflict and avoid legal landmines
* Divorce recovery and rebuilding with resilience
* Co-parenting and real-world family dynamics
* Personal stories from those who’ve been through it and came out stronger


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Meet the powerhouse team behind The Graves Firm! Hosted by Demetria L. Graves, Legally Uncensored offers an insider's view into the world of family law. Demetria is not only a compassionate divorce attorney but also leads a dedicated team of paralegals, legal assistants, and fellow lawyers.

Tune in for an exclusive behind-the-scenes look at family law in California. From divorce and child custody to paternity, child support, visitation rights, and more—discover the complexities of these legal issues and how they impact families.

Take notes on:

- Navigating the intake process

- Understanding the importance of timelines

- How to effectively communicate with your attorneys

More information: https://www.losangeles-divorcelaw.com/

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