In this episode of Life by Eight, we challenge a common excuse: I'm too busy. Are you really busy, or are you just avoiding your true potential? We live in a culture that glorifies being busy, but often, this busyness is just a mask for fear, procrastination, and avoidance. If you’re ready to stop using your calendar as a shield and start moving towards your real potential, this episode is for you. Welcome to Life by Eight, where I, Rebecca Grugan, your life architect, guide you on the journey to designing your ultimate life.

[ 00:00:00 ] Are You Really Busy or Just Avoiding Your Potential?[ 00:00:56 ] Welcome to Life by Eight[ 00:01:00 ] The Busy Badge of Honor[ 00:03:10 ] Why We Glorify Being Busy[ 00:04:04 ] The Difference Between Busy Work and Deep Work[ 00:05:09 ] Fear and Avoidance: The Root of Busyness[ 00:05:59 ] Busyness as a Defense Mechanism[ 00:07:02 ] What Are You Really Avoiding with All This Busyness?[ 00:07:51 ] The Illusion of Progress[ 00:08:19 ] Busy Work vs. Deep Work[ 00:09:03 ] Audit Your Schedule: Is It Helping You Grow?[ 00:09:53 ] How to Stop Using Busyness as a Shield[ 00:09:59 ] Strategy #1: Prioritise Growth-Related Tasks[ 00:10:45 ] Strategy #2: Schedule Downtime[ 00:12:00 ] Strategy #3: Face Your Fears Head-On[ 00:13:01 ] Strategy #4: Set Clear Boundaries[ 00:13:44 ] Strategy #5: Seek Accountability[ 00:14:29 ] The Power of Focus[ 00:15:11 ] Real Transformation Through Focus[ 00:16:00 ] A Client Story: From Busy to Thriving[ 00:17:22 ] How I Designed My Life to Avoid Busyness[ 00:18:45 ] The Real Question: What Are You Avoiding?[ 00:19:33 ] Action Step: Break Free from Busyness and Step into Your Potential[ 00:19:52 ] Conclusion: Growth Begins Where Your Comfort Zone Ends

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In this episode of Life by Eight, it's time to face a harsh reality: stop feeding the billion-dollar self-help industry that profits off your struggles!

Are you tired of the endless cycle of buying books, attending seminars, and still feeling stuck? It’s time to take back control and realise that the answers you seek are already within you.

If you're ready to stop spending money on recycled advice and start living authentically, this episode is for you.

Welcome to Life by Eight, where I, Rebecca Grugan, your life architect, guide you on the journey to designing your ultimate life.

[ 00:00:00 ] Stuck in the Self-Help Cycle?[ 00:00:47 ] Welcome to Life by Eight[ 00:01:00 ] Why Self-Help Is Keeping You Stuck[ 00:01:56 ] The Problem with Self-Help Advice[ 00:02:49 ] The Key to Real Transformation: Embodiment[ 00:03:38 ] Understanding Embodiment in Personal Development[ 00:04:26 ] The Importance of a Strong Foundation[ 00:05:19 ] Why Self-Help Doesn't Tell You This[ 00:06:05 ] Both Approaches Are Needed for True Change[ 00:06:52 ] What to Do Instead: Integration Over Consumption[ 00:07:59 ] Taking Responsibility for Your Growth[ 00:08:01 ] Tools for Connecting with Your Body[ 00:08:52 ] Join Us for Real Transformation[ 00:09:29 ] Conclusion: The Answers Are Within You

In this episode of Life by Eight, it’s time to face a powerful truth: ‘Positive vibes only’ might be keeping you stuck.

Are you ready to go beyond the façade of constant positivity and dig deeper into your true emotions? This episode reveals the dangers of toxic positivity, why avoiding your “negative” emotions keeps you from growing, and how learning to embrace the full range of human experiences—light and dark—can lead to real transformation. It’s time to acknowledge and harness every feeling as a tool for self-awareness, resilience, and growth. Join Rebecca Grugan, your life architect, on the journey to designing your most extraordinary life.

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[00:00:00]How to listen to the signals within your uncomfortable emotions instead of pushing them away.[00:00:44] An intro to toxic positivity, its rise, and why it’s harmful to only focus on ‘good vibes.’[00:01:41] How ignoring negativity affects you and those around you by suppressing valuable emotional signals.[00:02:28] The long-term impact of burying feelings on your mental and physical health.[00:05:46] Fear, anger, and doubt as essential tools for self-awareness and resilience.[00:07:37]  Practical tools to work with your emotions instead of hiding them.[00:08:45]Building compassion for others without being drained by their emotional experiences.[00:12:01] How higher consciousness allows you to see negative emotions as opportunities for insight and growth.[00:14:07] How to embrace all emotions as a part of a balanced, authentic life and become truly aligned.

In this episode of Life by Eight, we explore the journey from seeking validation to living an authentic life.

Why do we care so much about what other people think? Let’s dig into the root cause of this need for external approval and how to shift our mindset.

If you're ready to break free from people-pleasing and embrace your true self, this episode is for you.

Welcome to Life by Eight, where I, Rebecca Grugan, your life architect, guide you on the journey to designing your ultimate life.

[ 00:00:00 ] Continually Seeking Validation[ 00:00:39 ] Welcome to Life by Eight[ 00:01:00 ] Why We Care About Others' Opinions[ 00:01:29 ] The Psychology Behind External Validation[ 00:02:48 ] The Hidden Costs of Caring Too Much[ 00:03:53 ] Losing Your Authenticity[ 00:04:28 ] The Process of Saying No[ 00:05:17 ] Fear of Judgment and Its Impact[ 00:07:59 ] Handing Over Your Personal Power[ 00:08:40 ] The Fear of Rejection[ 00:09:34 ] Control Over Perception[ 00:10:46 ] Social Media's Role in Validation[ 00:11:45 ] Shifting the Focus to Solutions[ 00:12:58 ] Building Internal Validation[ 00:13:51 ] The Importance of Self-Compassion[ 00:14:09 ] Letting Go of Perfectionism[ 00:15:13 ] The Power of Embodiment[ 00:16:11 ] Tools for Grounding and Reprogramming[ 00:17:01 ] Everyday Life Tips[ 00:17:48 ] Setting Boundaries[ 00:18:42 ] Limiting Social Media Exposure[ 00:19:42 ] Shifting Your Focus to Internal Validation[ 00:20:00 ] Conclusion: You Are Enough

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In this episode of Life by Eight, we dive deep into the truth behind judgement and why it plagues our lives. So many people are judgy bitches, and it’s about time we get real about why judgement exists and how you can break out of this cycle.

We'll explore why people are quick to judge and how it’s rarely about you. If you're tired of dealing with toxic vibes and judgmental attitudes, this episode is a must-listen. I'll share real stories and actionable tips on how to release yourself from the grip of judgement, both as the one being judged and as the judger. Ready to find out how to break free from the cycle of judgement? Let’s get into it!

[ 00:00:00 ] So Many People Are Judgy Bitches[ 00:00:35 ] Welcome to Life by Eight[ 00:01:00 ] Understanding Judgement[ 00:02:00 ] The Roots of Judgment[ 00:03:00 ] Insecurities and Projection[ 00:04:00 ] Fear of the Unknown[ 00:05:00 ] Judgement as a Defense Mechanism[ 00:06:00 ] Dealing with Judgment[ 00:07:00 ] If You’re Being Judged[ 00:08:00 ] If You’re the Judger[ 00:09:00 ] The Power of Compassion[ 00:10:00 ] Breaking Free from Judgment[ 00:11:00 ] Conclusion

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In this episode of Life by Eight, I dive deep into the truth behind coaching certifications and why they don’t guarantee someone is ready to become a great coach.

With the rise of the coaching industry, we’re seeing an influx of people using coaching for validation rather than service, and this needs to change. Certifications provide a framework, but they don't teach the emotional intelligence, empathy, or real-world experience necessary to truly guide others through their personal growth.

I’ll also unpack the key differences between coaching and mentoring, the dangers of relying too heavily on certifications, and why personal growth is critical before helping others.

If you're thinking of becoming a coach or want to deepen your practice, this episode is a must-listen. I'll share real stories from the field and tips on how to bring authenticity, emotional intelligence, and true connection into your coaching practice.

Ready to find out what it really takes to be an extraordinary coach? Let's get into it!

00:00:00 - Think that piece of paper makes you a coach? Think again.

00:00:42 - Introduction: Why certifications aren’t enough.

00:03:03 - Why certification doesn’t qualify someone to handle real-world emotions.

00:04:40 - The difference between technical knowledge and true coaching ability.

00:07:17 - Emotional intelligence and why it’s non-negotiable for effective coaching.

00:09:00 - Coaching vs. Mentoring: What’s the real difference?

00:10:05 - How emotional resilience and life experience play a role in being a great coach.

00:11:04 - Why coaching is a lifelong commitment to personal and professional growth.

00:16:14 - How authenticity, not perfection, leads to deeper client connections.

00:19:06 - Coaching is about serving, not about the ego.

00:20:04 - Who should consider becoming a coach? It's a calling, not a career.

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In this episode of Life by Eight, I dive deep into how language shapes your decisions and why you keep getting manipulated into doing things you don’t want to do. From marketing tactics to personal relationships, words have a powerful impact on your actions.

I’ll show you how NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) can help you recognise when you're being influenced and how to regain control of your choices. Whether it's being manipulated in a store or making life-changing decisions, understanding language is the key to breaking free and empowering yourself.

I’ll also share a personal story that highlights just how profound this awareness can be.

Ready to take back your power? This episode is for you.

Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction: Why you keep getting manipulated00:00:46 - How language is used to influence your decisions00:03:36 - Example: Buying clothes under pressure00:05:01 - External validation and decision-making00:05:51 - How others profit from your indecision00:06:43 - Everyday examples of language manipulation00:08:16 - Personal story: Overcoming manipulation through NLP00:10:09 - Sales and manipulation: Why everything is sales00:13:38 - The power of NLP to transform your life00:14:42 - Personal empowerment through language00:16:33 - Recap: Using NLP ethically to improve your life00:19:21 - Why it's important to invest with discernment00:22:44 - How to choose wisely and regain control over your decisions00:24:16 - Closing thoughts: Empowering yourself with the power of words

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In this episode of Life by Eight, I’m breaking down the myth that laziness causes procrastination. It’s not laziness, it’s the daily habits you lack. I’m sharing five powerful habits that can truly transform your life, starting right now—no waiting until Monday or the first of the month. If you're ready to stop making excuses and start making real progress towards your goals by 2025, you're in the right place. Together, we'll unlock your potential using values levels, the energetic blueprint, and our eight pillars to human wellness framework. Let’s make the shift happen—starting today!

Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction: Why laziness isn't the cause of procrastination00:00:45 - Five game-changing habits to transform your life00:02:20 - Stop waiting for the perfect time—start today00:05:10 - How to align your habits with your values levels00:07:00 - Breaking through procrastination with action00:09:30 - The power of consistency and daily habits00:12:15 - Getting real: Why waiting for 2025 will hold you back00:14:45 - Ready to level up? How to get started now

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In this episode of Life by Eight, I’m diving into values levels and how they influence your leadership, business, and team culture. Whether you’re an entrepreneur, a business leader, or part of a team, understanding your values levels can completely transform how you lead and work. I’ll walk you through how self-awareness of values levels helps you avoid common traps like self-sabotage, miscommunication, and a toxic work environment. By recognising where you and your team sit, you can drive greater collaboration, innovation, and overall cohesion. I’ll share three key strategies to unlock your team’s potential and foster a positive, win-win culture within your business. Ready to level up? Let’s get into it!

Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction to values levels and leadership00:00:45 - Why values levels matter in leadership and team dynamics00:01:30 - Three ways values levels impact your team’s potential00:05:04 - How team dynamics shift with values levels00:08:20 - Misconceptions about values levels in leadership00:10:22 - The importance of psychological safety in teams00:14:30 - Moving from values level 3 to 5: Innovation and leadership flexibility00:18:26 - The power of aligning team and company values00:24:48 - Practical strategies for effective team engagement00:31:06 - Recap: Adapting your leadership style for each values level

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Explore the psychology behind people's desire for instant gratification and the allure of get-rich-quick schemes in this episode of "Life by Eight." Join Rebecca Grugan as she delves into the importance of understanding your relationship with money and how it impacts your financial well-being. Discover how your upbringing and values shape your money mindset and learn how to shift from a scarcity mentality to one of abundance. Tune in to uncover the key steps to transforming your financial habits and designing the life you truly desire.

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 - Introduction

00:01:45 - Shifting Your Money Mindset

00:03:22 - Fear of Success

00:10:11 - Personal Experience with Money

00:11:14 - Money and Opportunity

00:16:46 - Help with Building Your Life

00:21:06 - Manifesting Financial Reality

00:24:16 - Buying Wants vs. Needs

00:25:20 - Immediate Gratification

00:26:03 - Awareness and Acceptance

00:30:16 - Full Acceptance and Responsibility

00:35:03 - Facing Yourself and Changing Mindsets