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“Abuse: What to Do When Someone Tells You” by Rick Thomas (Life Over Coffee, 2026) is a biblical counseling guide for the person someone confides in — pastor, counselor, or friend — not for survivors themselves (Thomas’s companion book, Victimized, is for them). Using a composite case study named Marlene, it covers what to do in that first raw hour, how to listen well, how to believe someone while still gently investigating, and where churches tend to overcorrect or underreact. Thomas writes from a biblical-counseling perspective, grounded in Galatians 6:1–2 and Proverbs 18:17, while making clear his critiques of church responses are never doubt that abuse is real.

“Abuse: What to Do When Someone Tells You” by Rick Thomas (Life Over Coffee, 2026) is a biblical counseling guide for the person someone confides in — pastor, counselor, or friend — not for survivors themselves (Thomas’s companion book, Victimized, is for them). Using a composite case study named Marlene, it covers what to do in that first raw hour, how to listen well, how to believe someone while still gently investigating, and where churches tend to overcorrect or underreact. Thomas writes from a biblical-counseling perspective, grounded in Galatians 6:1–2 and Proverbs 18:17, while making clear his critiques of church responses are never doubt that abuse is real.

“Abuse: What to Do When Someone Tells You” by Rick Thomas (Life Over Coffee, 2026) is a biblical counseling guide for the person someone confides in — pastor, counselor, or friend — not for survivors themselves (Thomas’s companion book, Victimized, is for them). Using a composite case study named Marlene, it covers what to do in that first raw hour, how to listen well, how to believe someone while still gently investigating, and where churches tend to overcorrect or underreact. Thomas writes from a biblical-counseling perspective, grounded in Galatians 6:1–2 and Proverbs 18:17, while making clear his critiques of church responses are never doubt that abuse is real.

“Abuse: What to Do When Someone Tells You” by Rick Thomas (Life Over Coffee, 2026) is a biblical counseling guide for the person someone confides in — pastor, counselor, or friend — not for survivors themselves (Thomas’s companion book, Victimized, is for them). Using a composite case study named Marlene, it covers what to do in that first raw hour, how to listen well, how to believe someone while still gently investigating, and where churches tend to overcorrect or underreact. Thomas writes from a biblical-counseling perspective, grounded in Galatians 6:1–2 and Proverbs 18:17, while making clear his critiques of church responses are never doubt that abuse is real.

“Abuse: What to Do When Someone Tells You” by Rick Thomas (Life Over Coffee, 2026) is a biblical counseling guide for the person someone confides in — pastor, counselor, or friend — not for survivors themselves (Thomas’s companion book, Victimized, is for them). Using a composite case study named Marlene, it covers what to do in that first raw hour, how to listen well, how to believe someone while still gently investigating, and where churches tend to overcorrect or underreact. Thomas writes from a biblical-counseling perspective, grounded in Galatians 6:1–2 and Proverbs 18:17, while making clear his critiques of church responses are never doubt that abuse is real.

“Abuse: What to Do When Someone Tells You” by Rick Thomas (Life Over Coffee, 2026) is a biblical counseling guide for the person someone confides in — pastor, counselor, or friend — not for survivors themselves (Thomas’s companion book, Victimized, is for them). Using a composite case study named Marlene, it covers what to do in that first raw hour, how to listen well, how to believe someone while still gently investigating, and where churches tend to overcorrect or underreact. Thomas writes from a biblical-counseling perspective, grounded in Galatians 6:1–2 and Proverbs 18:17, while making clear his critiques of church responses are never doubt that abuse is real.

“Abuse: What to Do When Someone Tells You” by Rick Thomas (Life Over Coffee, 2026) is a biblical counseling guide for the person someone confides in — pastor, counselor, or friend — not for survivors themselves (Thomas’s companion book, Victimized, is for them). Using a composite case study named Marlene, it covers what to do in that first raw hour, how to listen well, how to believe someone while still gently investigating, and where churches tend to overcorrect or underreact. Thomas writes from a biblical-counseling perspective, grounded in Galatians 6:1–2 and Proverbs 18:17, while making clear his critiques of church responses are never doubt that abuse is real.

“Abuse: What to Do When Someone Tells You” by Rick Thomas (Life Over Coffee, 2026) is a biblical counseling guide for the person someone confides in — pastor, counselor, or friend — not for survivors themselves (Thomas’s companion book, Victimized, is for them). Using a composite case study named Marlene, it covers what to do in that first raw hour, how to listen well, how to believe someone while still gently investigating, and where churches tend to overcorrect or underreact. Thomas writes from a biblical-counseling perspective, grounded in Galatians 6:1–2 and Proverbs 18:17, while making clear his critiques of church responses are never doubt that abuse is real.

“Abuse: What to Do When Someone Tells You” by Rick Thomas (Life Over Coffee, 2026) is a biblical counseling guide for the person someone confides in — pastor, counselor, or friend — not for survivors themselves (Thomas’s companion book, Victimized, is for them). Using a composite case study named Marlene, it covers what to do in that first raw hour, how to listen well, how to believe someone while still gently investigating, and where churches tend to overcorrect or underreact. Thomas writes from a biblical-counseling perspective, grounded in Galatians 6:1–2 and Proverbs 18:17, while making clear his critiques of church responses are never doubt that abuse is real.

“Abuse: What to Do When Someone Tells You” by Rick Thomas (Life Over Coffee, 2026) is a biblical counseling guide for the person someone confides in — pastor, counselor, or friend — not for survivors themselves (Thomas’s companion book, Victimized, is for them). Using a composite case study named Marlene, it covers what to do in that first raw hour, how to listen well, how to believe someone while still gently investigating, and where churches tend to overcorrect or underreact. Thomas writes from a biblical-counseling perspective, grounded in Galatians 6:1–2 and Proverbs 18:17, while making clear his critiques of church responses are never doubt that abuse is real.