Life Shift | True Stories of Healing, Grief & Loss

By Matt GilhoolySociety & Culture Health & Fitness Mental Health Education Self-Improvement Personal Journals

Life Shift | True Stories of Healing, Grief & Loss episodes

November 22, 2024Finding Comfort in Holiday Traditions, Old and New
Today, I dive into the topic of holidays and the various traditions that shape our experiences. As we approach Thanksgiving and Christmas, I reflect on how my relationship with these celebrations has evolved over the years, especially in light of personal losses and changes. I share memories of cherished moments spent with my grandmother and the unique traditions we created together, from late-night gift unwrapping to family dinners at Olive Garden. However, I also acknowledge how the absence of loved ones can alter the feeling of these festive times. Ultimately, I encourage everyone to embrace what brings them joy during the holidays, whether that's continuing old traditions or creating new ones, and to remember that it's okay to feel a mix of emotions during this season.
Takeaways:
Holidays can evoke mixed feelings, reminding us of both joy and loss in life.
Creating new traditions can help us adapt and find joy in holiday celebrations.
The importance of chosen family can be as significant as blood relatives during holidays.
Everyone has different attachments to holidays, shaped by personal experiences and memories.
Grief can change how we perceive and celebrate holidays, often leading to new customs.
Reflecting on past memories helps us appreciate present experiences, especially during festive times.

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November 21, 2024 The Dream Guests I'd Love to Have on This Podcast
I’m dreaming big today as I share my thoughts on potential dream guests for The Life Shift podcast. With 30 days and 30 episodes in progress, I reflect on the inspiring individuals I would love to connect with and learn from about their pivotal moments in life.
Among those on my wish list are Kelly Clarkson, Jennifer Nettles, Sara Haines, Brian Teta, Randy Rainbow, and Tyler Whitman. Just like us all, I'm positive that each of these remarkable people has a unique story to tell.
So, let's dream big for 2025.
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November 20, 2024It's Okay to Say You're Not Okay: A Mental Health Check-In
On Day 19, I share the importance of acknowledging and sharing our feelings, especially during difficult times. I open up about my struggles with sleep and the emotional burden of recent grief, illustrating how these feelings can affect daily life.
I highlight that it's okay to not feel great all the time and share the value of having a support system to share these feelings with. I believe verbalizing our struggles can help normalize them, making them feel more manageable. By being honest about my own challenges, I hope to encourage listeners to embrace their emotions and seek connection during tough times.
Takeaways:
It's important to acknowledge when you're not feeling great and share those feelings.
Taking time off to care for yourself is essential for mental well-being and balance.
The pressure of podcasting can lead to frustrations, but it's crucial to remember the purpose.
Normalizing feelings of sadness and struggle helps us connect with others who feel the same way.
Acknowledging your emotions and expressing them can alleviate the anxiety and burdens you carry.
Every episode may not resonate with everyone, but each story has its audience and purpose.
Companies mentioned in this episode:
Earworthy
Discover Pods

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12 min
November 19, 2024Breaking Free: Meg Gluth on Overcoming Addiction After Loss
In this episode of "The Life Shift Podcast," Meg Gluth shares her journey through life's challenges marked by anxiety, addiction, and personal loss. Meg's story is one of transformation, resilience, and introspection, highlighting her shift from societal expectations to personal fulfillment. The episode offers listeners an insightful exploration of the complexities of self-discovery and the strength found in embracing one's true identity.
Takeaways:
A significant life change or loss often triggers the journey to sobriety.
Finding support from others who understand your struggles can lead to healing.
Embracing authenticity allows individuals to navigate through grief and emotional challenges.
It’s essential to recognize the difference between physical sobriety and emotional sobriety.
Alcohol can serve as a coping mechanism, but it ultimately leads to deeper issues.
Acknowledging our shared human experiences can foster connection and understanding with others.
Societal Expectations and Identity
Meg discusses her upbringing in a culture of scarcity, where societal pressures significantly influenced her early life. Growing up in a small town, she faced the challenges of fitting into predefined roles. This section delves into the impact of external expectations on personal identity and the struggle to pursue a path aligned with one's true self, highlighting the courage needed to break free from societal constraints.
Overcoming Addiction and Anxiety
The episode provides a candid look at Meg's battle with anxiety and her reliance on alcohol as a coping mechanism. As a highly functioning alcoholic, Meg navigated the pressures of her professional and personal life. This takeaway emphasizes the importance of recognizing unhealthy coping strategies and the bravery required to address the underlying issues, serving as a cautionary tale about the dangers of masking emotions.
Path to Personal Fulfillment
Meg's journey evolves into a transformation narrative, shifting from a checklist-driven life to one focused on personal fulfillment. She underscores the importance of self-awareness and pursuing passions beyond traditional career success. This takeaway offers a compelling message about the ongoing journey to find joy and purpose, encouraging listeners to embrace change and seek fulfillment in all aspects of life.
Guest Bio
Megan Gluth is the owner and CEO of Catalynt Solutions, Inc., a leading US-based chemical distributor. Under her leadership, TRInternational was recognized as part of the 2023 Middle Market Fast 50 list. Megan was honored as one of the Business Journal’s Middle Market Fast 50 Leaders of 2023 and won the Ernst & Young Entrepreneur Of The Year® 2023 award. Her story is a testament to resilience and the critical importance of compassion and empathy in leadership.
Connect with Meg Gluth
https://www.megangluth.com/
https://www.linkedin.com/in/megan-gluth/

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November 19, 2024What Moving 35 Times Taught Me About Change
Today, I reflect on my experience of moving frequently throughout my life, having relocated over 35 times. This journey of constant change has shaped my perspective on fresh starts and the thrill of new environments.
I discuss how my childhood experiences, particularly my parents' divorce, contributed to this pattern of moving and how it has influenced my craving for change. As I contemplate my next move, I share my thoughts on what it means to seek out different places and experiences, especially as I navigate my 40s.
Takeaways:
Moving frequently can lead to a desire for fresh starts and new experiences.
The urge to explore new environments becomes stronger as I age.
Living in a city with different weather and seasons is appealing.
I’m contemplating where my next move might be and what that could mean.

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12 min
November 18, 2024 The Health Scare That Sent Me to the ER
Day 17 offers a reflection on the personal health challenges I've encountered, highlighting the importance of staying hydrated and the unexpected situations that can arise from routine health checks.
I've had a couple of visits to the emergency room and urgent care, including one memorable incident during a blood draw that resulted in me fainting and needing an ambulance. While those moments were certainly uncomfortable, I’m thankful that I’ve avoided serious injuries as an adult.
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13 min
November 16, 2024 The One Thing I Wish I Was Good At (I'm Really Not)
Today, I want to explore something I'm not very good at but wish I could excel in: singing. As I reflect on my high school theater experiences, I recount my journey from being too scared to audition for musicals to unexpectedly landing the lead role in "Grease." Despite my lack of vocal talent, my desire to sing well has stayed with me over the years. I’m considering taking singing lessons and wondering if it’s too late for me to improve. Join me as I navigate this personal challenge and share some humorous and heartfelt moments along the way.

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November 16, 2024 The Silly (and Not So Silly) Fears I Still Carry
Today, I want to share some of my silly fears - from a tiny snake that startled me in my backyard to my irrational fear of heights.
While I know these fears may seem trivial, they hold a certain power over me that I can’t quite shake off. I also touch on the strange discomfort I feel when faced with annoying noises, a fear that’s fear-adjacent.
What are some of your silly fears?
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12 min
November 15, 2024 A Fun Night Out That Turned Into a Scary Emergency
After a super fun Taylor Swift concert in Miami, my friend Traci and I found ourselves navigating an unexpected adventure that turned into a pretty scary moment. What started as a fun night out quickly spiraled into a torrential downpour in an unfamiliar neighborhood, leaving us soaked and stranded while trying to secure an Uber ride back.
As we stood there, drenched and apprehensive, the kindness of a stranger ultimately saved us, reminding me of the importance of having a solid plan when attending events.
This experience highlighted life's unpredictability and reinforced the need for caution in unfamiliar places.
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11 min
November 14, 2024My Lifelong Struggle With Food and Body Image
Today, I want to share my personal struggle with food and body image, a journey that began when I was around 12 years old. I also want to highlight the often-overlooked issue of how men can face similar challenges with body dysmorphia and unhealthy eating habits. Through this conversation, I hope to normalize these discussions and remind listeners that they are not alone in their experiences.
Here are some key takeaways:
My struggles with food began at the age of 12, which significantly shaped my relationship with eating.
Men also experience body image issues and disordered eating, yet this is often ignored in society.
My unhealthy relationship with food was rooted in unresolved grief that I experienced during my younger years.
It is vital to discuss food and body image openly, as this can help normalize these conversations.
Finding a balance between healthy eating and mental well-being continues to be an ongoing challenge for me.
Acknowledging our struggles and seeking support when needed is crucial.

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About Life Shift | True Stories of Healing, Grief & Loss

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A true stories podcast about healing from trauma, grief, and life after loss. Host Matt Gilhooly sits down with real people for honest conversations about the pivotal moment everything changed: a sudden loss, a diagnosis, a divorce, an accident, a betrayal.