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In this powerful episode, we sit down with Dr. J Barnett to unpack how to truly see the people in your life — not just hear them. We explore how personas show up in dating and marriage, why "watching" someone reveals more than listening, and what it really costs to work through a broken relationship. Whether you're single, dating, or navigating a difficult marriage, this conversation will challenge you to ask the most important question: Who are you?

Topics covered:

Reading behavior over words

Finding cracks in the foundation

What your nervous system knows that your heart ignores

Loyal to a fault — when loyalty becomes lethal

Whether to stay or leave when a persona is revealed

Rebuilding a relationship vs. walking away

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