The Basement with Tim Ross

Forgive Me If I Was Rude x The Basement w- Tim Ross x Emmanuel "Da T.R.U.T.H." Lambert

What does it take to rebuild a marriage after infidelity? Carl and Laura sit down with Tim Ross to talk about the betrayal, the public fallout, and the years of work since. When infidelity upended their marriage and very public ministry, the people they had done life with scattered. In this honest conversation, Carl and Laura open up about why they wrote Overcoming Infidelity, what Laura needed to heal, what Carl had to face, and why they say not every marriage should be saved.

IN THIS EPISODE:

- Why they chose to tell the story again after it was already public

- Laura's boundary, and the "one-day contract" Carl lives by

- Genesis 2 man vs. Genesis 3 man: what makes a man safe

- What happens when church friends disappear

- "You didn't put me on a pedestal. I walked onto one. It's called a pulpit."

- Before and after: friendships, family and faithWhether you're single, married, rebuilding, or standing next to a friend who is, this one is for you.

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The Power of Petty Prayers x Nona Jones x The Basement w/ Tim Ross

Welcome back to The Basement. Tim kicks off a new solo series, reading through his book "The Missing Peace" chapter by chapter, director's-cut style, with the context, backstory, and off-the-page commentary you won't get from just reading it yourself.In this first episode, Tim reads his dedication and shares why he wrote this book, then dives into the Introduction ("Something Ain't Right") and Chapter 1 ("What Am I Missing"). He opens up about the difference between 2019 and 2020 in his own life, the loss of his assistant Kimmy, how he used gaming to numb his grief, and what it actually means to be "dysregulated." This one goes deep on peace vs. happiness, trauma, and what the Holy Spirit's role really is in nervous system regulation.If you haven't picked up the book yet, grab a copy and follow along for the next 19 weeks.----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Sow a seed. Your support helps make this work possible. https://donate.overflow.co/upsettheworld/cash----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Chapter Markers0:00 Welcome back to The Basement, 20-week Missing Peace series begins2:24 Dedication and thank yous4:54 Table of contents walkthrough6:30 Introduction: Something Ain't Right9:36 The "I'm okay" bit, we're not doing as well as we pretend11:06 The stats on anxiety, depression, and loneliness12:17 Redefining what "fine" actually means13:32 How we numb the pain14:50 A friend's break in, and what peace of mind really costs15:18 The Michael Jackson story17:22 How this book is structured21:09 Disclaimers and trigger warnings24:21 This book isn't just for Christians25:23 Gratitude to therapists and mental health professionals27:00 Chapter 1 begins: What Am I Missing30:46 2019 versus 2020, and why 2020 was the better year34:15 The impact of loss, remembering Kimmy38:03 Time to disappear, gaming as an escape40:27 His sons call him out, giving away the PS442:35 The God sized hole, happiness isn't peace44:25 What dysregulation actually means46:11 Peace that regulates, the Holy Spirit's role48:39 What peace really feels like50:22 Maladaptive behaviors, the body keeping score51:36 There is another way52:12 Reflection questions for chapter 1

I Kept Going to the Altar for Lust x It Was Really Trauma x The Missing Peace CH. 02

Peace Doesn't Equal An Easy Life x The Basement Presents: The Missing Peace x CH. 01

Welcome back to The Basement.

Tim kicks off a new 20-week solo series, reading through his book "The Missing Peace" chapter by chapter, director's-cut style, with the context, backstory, and off-the-page commentary you won't get from just reading it yourself.

In this first episode, Tim reads his dedication and shares why he wrote this book, then dives into the Introduction ("Something Ain't Right") and Chapter 1 ("What Am I Missing").

He opens up about the difference between 2019 and 2020 in his own life, the loss of his assistant Kimmy, how he used gaming to numb his grief, and what it actually means to be "dysregulated." This one goes deep on peace vs. happiness, trauma, and what the Holy Spirit's role really is in nervous system regulation.

If you haven't picked up the book yet, grab a copy and follow along for the next 19 weeks.

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Don't Let Them Hold You Back x The Basement w- Tim Ross x Annie F. Downs

Kyle Thompson, host of Undaunted Life and co-creator of The Daily Blade devotional, sits down with Tim in The Basement for a raw conversation on what it actually means to be a Godly man in a culture that doesn't know what to do with one. They dig into the tension between strength and softness, why so many men default to being all lion or all lamb, what The Chosen got right about the woman who touched Jesus' garment, and why the church needs to learn how to "hold tension" instead of avoiding it. Kyle also opens up about training men physically and spiritually through his coaching program Dominion, what he's learned raising his sons to be undaunted, and why meekness, not aggression, is the real mark of a man who's dangerous and disciplined at the same time. This one will challenge you, convict you, and probably make you want to go do a wall sit.-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------If you feel led, please use the link below to support us financially as we continue the mission of normalizing vulnerability and upsetting the world. Your support helps make this work possible. https://donate.overflow.co/upsettheworld/cash-----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Chapter Markers00:00:00 - Welcome to The Basement00:03:33 - Kyle Thompson joins the show00:05:47 - How they really connected00:08:47 - Starting the podcast and country music theology00:10:21 - Godly men vs. manly men00:26:59 - The woman with the issue of blood00:31:02 - Lion for them, lamb with them00:38:06 - Why culture can't handle a meek but dangerous man00:52:46 - The church can't hold tension00:53:21 - The wall sit test01:03:49 - Borrowed power and the Rome comparison01:15:29 - The jiu jitsu drill01:18:17 - Pushing back darkness01:19:10 - Inside the Dominion coaching program01:41:09 - The worst pitch for a men's group01:43:50 - Your wife: litter or launch pad01:46:57 - Closing thoughts

Deion Sanders aka "Coach Prime" joins Tim Ross in The Basement for a rare, unguarded conversation 25 years in the making. Coach Prime opens up about his cancer diagnosis and recovery, faith under pressure, fatherhood, confidence versus arrogance, and the journey from the hood to the Hall of Fame. Real talk, real laughs, real growth.

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