Love Change

Finding your partner is a search in that sea with plenty of fish. Maybe, sometimes we are fishing with multiple rods and hook. Also know as - just - dating a couple of people at the same time. Or keeping your options open. How and when does that change? Why do we go exclusive? 

Come January and people declare change in diet, new lifestyle choices and stopping addictions. Why do we wait for the new year for new habits? And how much do we keep our self to our resolutions? K and Amor jump into the topic from the perspective of change.   

As the year comes to an end and we have time to slow down during the holidays, reflection is a natural activity. With looking back and learning, we also make up our resolve for the new year. What sort of resolutions do you have? Are they focused on your career, personal development, health or relationships.   Standing still, reflecting, visioning and making intentions are powerful practices. Don't wait for december, do it as a routine.  

Join us for the Love Change Podcast as we are talking about #resolutions.   

If you care about connecting on a real and shame-free level, this podcast is filled with taboo-less confessions, laughter, as well as some surprising moments about making resolutions.

This time we are reflecting on this year of making the Love Change Podcast. Amor started it by himself until K joined half a year ago. More than 40 episodes and 25 together. Both made a promise to be honest, taboo-free, and authentic and share openly about the messy process of change. There is always space for growth but also the realization that dealing with change is a skill and you can get better doing it.

Both talk about the evolution and change they went through, not only through the podcast episodes but also in their private life. K shares how much discomfort there was in the beginning and how much she would act rather than be herself when live.

They discuss their learning experience and how each time they need to sit in discomfort in order to be able to share from a place of authenticity. What both care about is to look at the journey of change rather than shining light at the perfect end result.

Join us for the Love Change Podcast as we are #reflecting on this past yar. We share how it felt to open up about things that we even wouldn't tell our mom about.

If you care about connecting on a real and shame-free level, this podcast is filled with taboo-less confessions, laughter, as well as some surprising moments about this year in retrospect.

Lies. Far far removed from speaking your truth is hiding it. We all tell lies, don't we? Yet it's not considered a virtue. How do you deal with someone who is confessing a lie? Discovering a hidden truth changes the status quo. The secrets that others keep from us change our relationship when they surface.  Why do we even lie? 

Are we trying to protect the other person. Or are we saving ourselves a confrontation and a conflict?  We have opinions and thoughts about ourselves and others. Do we have to be open about our internal dialogue? When are lies harmful? When are they necessary? Lies are not as binary as we would like to think, but they are very slippery. 

Join us for the Love Change Podcast as we are exploring the topic of #lies. We share how it feels to be lied to and how we react to the concept.  

If you care about connecting on a real and shame-free level, this podcast is filled with taboo-less confessions, laughter, as well as some surprising facts about what lies do to us.

Friction is a sign of movement. Conflicts are filled with friction. How we deal with conflict determines a lot in our life. Do you face uncomfortable situations head on?   

After two weeks of bad mojo in our relationship, many talks & walks and plenty of deep sighs, we can talk about it. Conflict, a crucial part of communication. How do you feel when a conflict arises?  

Going through change leaves us in different moods. What we do with those states of mind influences our surroundings. Having a conflict means that the communication does not flow easily. What can you do to move through conflict?  

Join us for the Love Change Podcast as we are exploring the topic of #conflict. We share how it feels to be in a conflict and how we learned about the concept.  

If you care about connecting on a real and shame-free level, this podcast is filled with taboo-less confessions, laughter, as well as some surprising facts about what conflicts really are good for.

Speaking your truth is a virtue. Sharing your thoughts and emotions is an act of intimacy. What role does honesty play in dealing with change - and how honest are you about changing? The importance of being honest can not be exaggerated, but what are the conditions for honesty to take place? Where do you find yourself holding back - and in which environment do you show all your cards?

Our last episode about being unprepared triggered a conversation in the recap. This podcast is about sharing the (sometimes not pretty) process of change, being honest about the nitty gritty is our ambition. Sharing from a vulnerable space and being radically honest in those moments is very scary, so how good are we at this practice of opening up? We're exploring the topic of honesty and how we experience the concept - what the benefits are of being honest and why we step into radical honesty. Discovering what moments trigger us to hold back and not share is just as important.

Join us for the Love Change Podcast as we are exploring the topic of #honesty. We share how it feels to let go of expectations and be radically honest.

If you care about connecting on a real and shame-free level, this podcast is filled with taboo-less confessions, laughter, as well as some surprising facts about what honesty really is.

Being unprepared is usually frowned upon when you think of the professional environment. From tests at school to delivering when deadlines are due, we're preparing ourselves to perform. Then life happens: from falling in love to heartbreak, giving birth to losing loved ones, life provides us with events that we can not prepare for. How do you deal with the feeling of being unprepared?

K grew up in Germany and performed greatly in the fashion industry, being prepared was a big part of her upbringing and work ethic. After her burn-out she embarked on a journey of discovery and not knowing where the road leads to. Amor broke his neck at the age of 25 and had to figure out life with a new body. Being unprepared has pros and cons and requires you to rely on your capabilities in the moment, to be agile. Our hosts talk about how your mindset influences how you deal with the tension and nerves that come up when you deal with something you've never dealt with before.

Join us for the Love Change Podcast as we are exploring the topic of #beingunprepared. We share how it feels like to let go of control and allow flow into your being.

If you care about connecting on a real and shame-free level, this podcast is filled with taboo-less confessions, laughter, as well as some surprising facts about what we feel #unprepared for.

Creating the life you desire requires you to know what it is that you are looking for in this lifetime. How about making it more tangible and approaching your next life phase? Living in the 21st century means that we have more options than any generation that has lived before us. Working, traveling, exploring new cultures, everything is possible if you allocate your willpower and energy towards it. How do we know what life we desire?

A big influence on how you experience your day to day life is the geographical location. This implies not only climate, but also flora and fauna, terrain and access to seas and oceans. Narrowly related to the location is the culture in which life takes place, the traditions, habits and underlying values of the society in which you nest yourself.

K and Amor discuss how they came to the requirements for their desired life and reflect upon all their previous experiences in changing locations, careers and lifestyles.

Both have experienced longer periods in different countries like the United States, Germany, Netherlands, Curacao, Poland and Iran.

Join us for the Love Change Podcast as we are exploring the topic of #creatingdesiredlife. We are sharing how it feels to make these decisions and embark on the journey of migrating from Europe to South America.

If you care about connecting on a real and shame-free level, this podcast is filled with taboo-less confessions, laughter as well as some surprising facts about creatung the life you desire.

We move places as we grow up, sometimes involuntarily if our parents decide to move houses or countries. Later in life based on our own decision as we study and accept jobs. This implies often not only to move our stuff but to learn a new language, mingle into a new culture, and to create a place we can call home.

Nowadays, the options are manifold and people decide to live and work remotely without having a base. But then what is it like to live this independent? Does that lifestyle allow us to create a sense of home? And actually, the question is what makes a place a home? We believe it's mostly the people that create a sense of home. And once you leave, you miss the connection you had there. Creating a sense of home takes time but it's time well invested.

Amor has moved from Iran when he was six and K moved from Poland when she was eleven, both grew up in different cultures and learned what it is like to leave behind a place both called home.

Join us for the Love Change Podcast as we are exploring the topic of #changinghomes. We are sharing how it felt to move countries at a young age and what it is like to be a foreigner in the country you call home.

If you care about connecting on a real and shame-free level, this podcast is filled with taboo-less confessions, laughter as well as some surprising facts about changing home.

what does bravery mean to you and how can we be brave in times like these? this year brought so much external change, leaving us without control. but how can we master owning those situations?

we strongly believe, the way to deal with it, is to adapt, change perspective, and see the good in the situation. maybe the changes we didn't expect, are the ones that are really good for us.

Join us for the Love Change Podcast as our hosts speak about bravery and what it makes them feel like if they step into their brave space. They reflect on their biggest act of bravery and what kind of bravery they would like to see in each other and themselves.

If you care about reflecting on your brave state of mind on a real and shame-free level, this podcast is filled with taboo-less confessions, laughter as well as some surprising facts about bravery.