It's Love Fest time! 🎉 Today we're joined by Ben Zorn (The Bachelorette Season 11, Bachelor In Paradise Season 4) and his lovely wife Stacy Santilena. To say Shandy enjoyed getting to know these two is a massive understatement (in the words of Sharleen afterwards: "I want to be friends with them.")

Today Ben and Stacy join Shandy to share how they went from "just friends" to married with a baby, how they overcame a very relatable early hurdle, Stacy's journey from believing she didn't want kids to wholeheartedly loving their son Logan, and of course, how they FIGHT! Finally, an unprecedented Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game that will BLOW YOU AWAY. Who knows who better? Watch on to find out!

More Ben:

https://www.instagram.com/benzornlife

https://www.zornfitness.com

More Stacy:

https://www.instagram.com/ssantilena

Time Stamps:

0:00 - Welcome To Ben & Stacey!

0:46 - How They Met

7:32 - First Impressions

19:24 - How They Began Dating (After Friendship)

30:18 - Stacey’s Thoughts On Ben On The Show

32:00 - How They Complement Each Other

33:31 - Early Hurdle

40:04 - How They Fight

44:21 - How Parenthood Has Changed Their Relationship

54:16 - Relationship Beliefs That Have Changed

1:02:15 - The Dear Shandy Newlyweds Game

1:21:21 - Shandy Debrief

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