By Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott
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It struck him as he was working with his clients over the last several weeks.
Americans are divided—much like couples in crisis are divided.
We’re dysregulated from the trauma of an incredibly contentious election and thus, we’re now prone to slip into what Elliott calls the “3 A’s of Intimacy Destruction.”
We Assume, Accuse, and Attack—just like spouses in unhappy marriages.
We Assume the worst in the “other side.” We Accuse them of horrible intentions and actions. We Attack them for their character and values.
We remain rigid in our conceptions of one another. We lose appreciation for the fullness of our friends and family. We see only one aspect of them—who they voted for.
And, if they voted for __________________, they’re now the enemy.
Elliott has witnessed similar dynamics with couples in distress. He shares how techniques from marital therapy could help heal our divided nation.
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The election is behind us, but the division remains.
And, the demonstrations are just getting going. Movements like 4B and Blue Bracelets express rage at men and Trump voters in general.
Women are swearing off sex, shaving off their hair, and wearing bracelets to signify to each other who is “safe” to be around.
Can we possibly remain connected during this volitile time?
I think we can 🙏🏻
And, to navigate these rough waters, I share some thoughts and tools from psychotherapy that could be helpful.
Specifically, we cover:
Whether you’re happy with the results or deeply disappointed, your relationships have likely been impacted.
Please join us for strategies to move through Post Election Stress Disorder!
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With the election now behind us, Elliott and I wanted to share thoughts on how to navigate love and life post election—especially concerning our relationships.
Because half the country is really happy with the results, while the other half feels angry, demoralized, and even afraid.
Specifically, we consider:
Join us as Elliott and I discuss how to move through the post election landscape—one in which people we love may feel deep distress, disappointment, and perhaps even anger at those who voted for Trump.
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On a day when many Progressives will go to the polls to vote for a “woman,” I’d like to share a few thoughts around the misogyny inherent to Leftists’ ideology.
Their logic breaks down immediately as they can’t define what a woman is. So, how can they get excited about voting for a woman hoping she’ll be the first woman president? 🤷♀️ They’ve already established that womanhood is meaningless!!!
Furthermore, the party that prides itself on “female empowerment” nevertheless signals they disparage women at every turn.
Finally, the Left asserts the best women are men—certainly in sports, and even in pop culture. In doing so, they advocate for the erasure of women.
I can’t think of a better example of misogyny. Join us for a quick breakdown of voting for a woman because she’s a woman, when one can’t even define what a woman is . . .
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I know most people want to move on from COVID.
And, maybe you’re ready to move on from the election.
But, it’s all related—COVID, the election, and our platform of mind, body, & spirit.
I have some thoughts.
Plus, I’d like to explain why I’m voting for “literal Hitler” and his MAGA + MAHA team of courageous dissidents—RFK, Jr., Tulsi, and Elon.
To do so, I respond to 3 current bits of news:
I don’t hold back. We’d love to hear your thoughts!
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It’s such a heated issue—and people on each side believe those who disagree with them are abusing children.
In the last 10 years, we’ve witnessed an exponential increase in the number of kids who feel as if they’re the wrong sex.
Although Gender Dysphoria Disorder remains a psychiatric illness per the DSM-5-TR, it currently is viewed quite differently when compared to other mental conditions.
We don’t “affirm” Obsessive Compulsive Disorder or Bipolar or schizophrenia. We treat clients by providing coping mechanisms and helping them ground themselves in reality.
But, we don’t do this with Gender Dysphoria Disorder.
Why is this? Why do we abandon logic, reasoning, and science when addressing Gender Dysphoria?
As a psychiatric nurse, David Wayne finds this confusing, frustrating, and appalling—especially as it pertains to the US’s current approach to treating kids who decide they’re actually the opposite sex.
Join us for an insider’s take on what’s really going on with gender “affirming” care.
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We’re in the midst of a series on masculinity, so I had to weigh in on this one, and I looped in Producer Tim to get a Millennial male’s take.
You’ve probably seen the clip of Jen Psaki interviewing Kamala Harris’ husband, Doug Emhoff.
Psaki claimed Emhoff has, “reshaped the perception of masculinity.”
Really?
Psaki then called him a “wife guy.”
Okay . . .
And sure, maybe Doug Emhoff is a super sweet and supportive husband. That’s great!
But, there seemed to be a partisan subtext beneath this exchange. Watching the clip, I had the sense Psaki was insinuating only liberal men fully support their wives.
I wanted to share my reaction to this clip and, Tim agreed to join me.
Spoiler alert: Over my 27 years of dating, I’ve had relationships with both very liberal and very conservative men. I married a conservative. And no one has ever cherished, respected, and adored me more than my conservative husband.
So personally, I’m not picking up what Psaki is laying down.
Join us and let us know your thoughts masculinity and wife guys.
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Elliott and I didn’t grow up with a lot of political discourse. Our family delved into a wide array of topics, but as educators and musicians, we tended to discuss chord charts and pop tunes more than public policy.
In fact, as most of you know, our father was a lifelong Democrat and our mother is a lifelong Republican. Yet, they possessed the same core values, had a strong 57 year marriage, and raised three well-adjusted kids. Could that happen nowadays?
During most of our lifetime, it was considered impolite to bring up religion and politics. And, pastors often refrained entirely from wading into political waters.
But to me, these times feel different. I was curious if Elliott sensed the same.
So, today we address questions around faith and politics.
We specifically ask:
When Elliott became a pastor, our Dad encouraged him to speak boldly. We’ll honor our father’s wishes and boldly discuss our hot takes on these hot topics.
Join us!
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Psychiatric nurse and friend of the program, David Wayne, is back to discuss what he recently shared on Children’s Health Defense’s CHD.TV.
In addition to nursing, Dave has a background in data analytics. Throughout the COVID era, he tried to make sense of the vaccinated vs. unvaccinated hospitalizations—the numbers weren’t adding up.
Databases weren’t talking to each other. Default modes labeled patients as unvaccinated when in MANY cases, these patients had taken the COVID shot.
For those of us who endured derision and scorn for our “selfish” and “irresponsible” choice to abstain from injecting ourselves with a rushed-to-market, mRNA product with no longitudinal studies confirming its safety and efficacy—well for us, these numbers matter.
It matters that, in fact, more COVID hospitalizations occurred among the vaccinated.
It matters that the shot neither prevented infection nor stopped transmission.
And, it matters that a recent study from the Cleveland Clinic found the more jabs and boosters you took, the MORE likely you are to get COVID.
Dave and I discuss the appalling lack of science guiding our government’s COVID response and the tyrannical jab mandates the administration forced upon us—we’re still astounded.
If you feel the same—and even if you don’t!—Please join us as our favorite hospital insider reveals what was really going on!
Citation:
Cleveland Clinic Studies
https://www.medrxiv.org/content/10.1101/2024.04.27.24306378v2
https://www.medrxiv.org/content/10.1101/2022.12.17.22283625v5
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Growing up is tough. Growing up with a father wound is even tougher.
As we continue our series on masculinity, we’re addressing the complexities of father wounds on sons.
How do boys grow into men when their model for manhood has been abusive or absent?
One of Elliott’s mentees, Bradley Oberrieder, joins us to share his journey—how his father abandoned his family just as Bradley was moving from adolescence to young adulthood.
How do you step into manhood when you no longer respect your dad—your model of manhood?
If you’ve experienced a father wound—or you’re dating a man who has—please join us for an honest and hopeful account of masculinity in the midst of a father wound.
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Dr. Karin & Pastor Elliott Anderson
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Empowered Dating Playbook: smarturl.it/EmpoweredDatingBook
Instagram: @dr.karin | @pastorelliottanderson
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