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In this episode of Paige’s Perspective, Paige challenges the popular idea that “everyone’s journey is different.” While our circumstances might vary, the emotional struggles we face—grief, betrayal, fear, loneliness—are universal.

Paige dives into how believing your pain is unique can actually keep you stuck, isolated, and resistant to healing. Whether you’re dealing with addiction, anxiety, depression, or loss of a loved one, the truth is: you’re not alone, and there are solutions that work.

She also explores the shared struggles of spouses of addicts, whether you’re staying, leaving, or working on recovery together—and why healing is necessary no matter where you are in your journey.

Key Takeaway: Your situation might feel unique, but healing follows a universal path—and you don’t have to walk it alone.

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As parents, we want to raise strong, resilient kids—but sometimes, without realizing it, we lean on them in ways that can be damaging. In this episode, we’re tackling the tough but crucial topic of parentification, enmeshment, and emotional incest—when kids are put in roles they were never meant to fill.

We break down:

• How to recognize if you're unintentionally placing emotional burdens on your child
• What’s healthy honesty with kids vs. oversharing your adult problems
• The long-term impact of making kids responsible for adult emotions
• How to foster emotional security without making them your therapist or support system

We discuss our own experience growing up in this dynamic, and we discuss practical ways to break the cycle—because once you see it, you can change it. This isn't about shame; it's about building awareness and making sure our kids get to be kids.

If you’ve ever wondered, Am I putting too much on my child?—this episode is for you.

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In this episode of Paige’s Perspective, we’re diving into why so many women struggle with people-pleasing, caretaking, and suppressing their needs—and the truth about where these behaviors actually come from. Spoiler alert: you weren’t born this way.

For generations, women have been conditioned to put everyone else first. Our mothers, grandmothers, and great-grandmothers weren’t just “nice” or “selfless”—they were surviving in a world where they had no real choices. They were trained to keep the peace, endure mistreatment, and never ask for too much. And even though times have changed, the mindset? Still lingers.

Women were taught that strength means tolerating pain, that endurance equals loyalty, and that setting boundaries makes you selfish. 

In this episode, we’re breaking down:
🔹 The history of why women were conditioned to people-please (lack of rights, financial dependence, and societal expectations)
🔹 The generational cycles we’ve inherited—and need to break
🔹 Why endurance isn’t the same as resilience (and how to stop equating suffering with strength)
🔹 How to unlearn the belief that love = sacrifice

We are one of the first generations of women who have the ability to leave, set boundaries, and prioritize ourselves. The hardest part? Actually believing we’re allowed to. Let’s talk about it.

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Breaking free from generational cycles isn't just about addiction—it’s about rewiring everything you were conditioned to believe: how you communicate, how you cope, how you parent, and how you love. In this episode, we dive deep into what it really means to break toxic patterns, why it’s so hard, and how to measure progress. We explore the grief that comes with leaving behind the family dynamics you once knew, the resistance you'll face, and why it's all worth it—not just for you, but for the generations that follow.

Whether it's addiction, emotional repression, people-pleasing, unhealthy relationships, or limiting beliefs, breaking the cycle means taking radical responsibility for your life. It means refusing to pass down the same wounds to your children. It means becoming the person who changes everything.

If you've ever felt like you're meant to do things differently but struggle with the weight of change, this episode is for you. Change starts now. The future starts with you.

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In this episode of Paige’s Perspective, we’re breaking down the truth about judgment—why it’s not the problem, but ignoring your instincts is. Society tells you that being judgmental is wrong, that you should always give the benefit of the doubt, and that compassion should override discernment. But what happens when that mindset keeps you stuck, excusing harmful behaviors, and doubting yourself?

We’ve been conditioned to believe that judging others makes us cruel—but judgment is a survival tool. It helps you recognize red flags, set boundaries, and protect yourself. And yet, some people and even society weaponize the fear of judgment against you: “You’re too harsh,” “You’re not perfect either,” “Everyone deserves a second chance.” But let’s be real—some behaviors should be judged.

Not all judgment is toxic, but when does it cross the line? When does it stop being about self-preservation and start becoming a weapon? At what point does holding people accountable turn into a cycle of resentment and revenge? In this episode, we’re reclaiming judgment as a necessary tool while breaking down how to use it wisely.

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Ever feel like no matter what you do, you're just spinning your wheels? There’s a reason for that. In this episode, we break down four sneaky mental traps that keep people stuck in bad relationships, dead-end jobs, toxic habits, and cycles of regret.

We’re talking about:

• Why you’re measuring the wrong things in your life (and what actually matters)
• How you’re avoiding the hard choices without even realizing it
• Why you give great advice to others but can’t take it yourself
• The hard truth about decision-making—there’s no perfect solution, only trade-offs

If you’re tired of feeling stuck and ready for real change, this episode will challenge everything you think is keeping you safe. No fluff, no sugarcoating—just the truth you need to hear.

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In this episode of Paige’s Perspective, we’re breaking down the excuses addicts use to justify staying the same—the guilt trips, the half-promises, and the ways they frame their struggles to keep you invested. You’ve heard it all: “In sickness and in health,” “Unconditional love means accepting me as I am,” “I’m trying! Recovery takes time!”—but what’s really happening beneath the surface? These aren’t necessarily intentional attempts to manipulate, but they are ways addicts avoid growth—and when those excuses keep you stuck in a cycle of harm, it becomes abusive.

Nobody talks about how addicts’ behaviors are often abusive. And society? It lets them off the hook, telling you to be patient, to understand, to wait just a little longer.

But here’s the truth: Addiction may be an explanation, but it’s not an excuse to keep hurting people. Abuse doesn’t have to be calculated to be real. At some point, effort needs to match impact, and words need to turn into action. In this episode, we’re exposing the stories addicts tell themselves and their partners to avoid real accountability—so you can stop getting lost in their excuses and start focusing on what you need.

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When addiction, trauma, or abuse shape your life, how much of that story is yours to share? In this raw and thought-provoking episode of Till the Wheels Fall Off, we tackle the controversial question of whether speaking out about your experiences is an act of healing or betrayal.

Too often, spouses of addicts are told to stay silent, to protect reputations, or to keep family struggles private. But at what cost? We discuss the impact of secrecy, how silence perpetuates stigma, and why sharing your truth is not just valid but necessary. From the backlash faced by public figures like Twitch’s widow Allison Holker and Annie Parker (I Did Not Kill My Husband), to our own experiences with addiction and recovery, we unpack the power dynamics, societal norms, and self-limiting beliefs that keep people from telling their stories.

Does destigmatizing addiction mean shielding those who struggle from accountability? Are we overcorrecting to the point where we enable harmful behaviors? And most importantly, what happens when someone else’s addiction becomes your story, too?

Tune in as we challenge the idea of silence as protection and explore how to reclaim your voice—without guilt, shame, or permission.

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In this reflection, Paige explores the true essence of being present and why it matters. She shares a childhood memory of quiet connection with nature, illustrating how presence can ground us, ease anxiety, and bring clarity. Paige discusses practical ways to cultivate this mindset, from grounding exercises and intentional focus to disconnecting from distractions like phones. She emphasizes the profound benefits of presence, including improved relationships, thoughtful responses, and a more intentional life. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed or simply seeking calm, Paige offers relatable insights to help you embrace the power of the present moment.

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In this episode of Till the Wheels Fall Off, we are joined by Amber Hollingsworth, the creator of the YouTube channel Put the Shovel Down and founder of Hope for Families Recovery Center. Together, we explore the misunderstood role of spouses in the recovery process, the power of influence over control, and why tough love often misses the mark. Amber shares insights on using accountability tools like SoberLink, balancing empathy with boundaries, and how to recognize genuine effort in recovery. Whether you're in the midst of addiction, supporting a loved one, or seeking clarity in chaos, this conversation is packed with honest, actionable advice. Don't miss this deep dive into what really works in recovery for individuals and families.

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