By TWFO Couple - Matt & Paige Robinson
Till The Wheels Fall Off (TWFO) podcast is hosted by Matt and Paige Robinson. TWFO focuses primarily on the relationship dynamics between spouses and partners of alcoholics or addicts and ways to b
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In this episode of Paige's Perspective, we're diving deep into the true power of self-care—not as a luxury, but as a crucial foundation for healing and growth. Self-care isn’t about spa days or quick fixes; it's about rebuilding from within and learning to prioritize ourselves so we can face life’s challenges with clarity and strength. We’ll explore how self-care helps us understand who we are, what we need, and what we stand for. Think of it as self-maintenance, like tuning up a car or maintaining a home—it’s ongoing, it’s essential, and yes, it takes effort. But by investing in physical, emotional, mental, social, and spiritual self-care, we empower ourselves to set boundaries, make healthier decisions, and break out of old cycles. This episode is here to remind you: self-care is the backbone of healing, and putting yourself first isn’t selfish—it’s necessary. Let’s get excited about building the best version of ourselves. So, Wheelies, let’s get rolling!
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In this episode, we dive into the idea of hope that doesn’t rely on perfect conditions or external circumstances—a hope that’s rooted in resilience and meaning. We share a deeply personal story about a friend who found the strength to keep going after unimaginable loss. Together, we’ll talk about the concept of “reservations” in recovery—those mental escape hatches we keep in case things get tough—and how letting go of them opens the door to real growth and peace.
Listen in as we explore practical ways to find purpose in pain, make choices that honor your values, and live with a hope that isn’t dependent on anyone else. Whether you’re working on a relationship or building a life of your own, this episode will inspire you to move forward with courage and clarity, embracing life’s challenges as opportunities for growth.
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In this episode of Paige’s Perspective, we explore why focusing on substance use keeps partners stuck in unhealthy dynamics and how shifting attention to behaviors leads to real growth and change. Paige breaks down the common societal trap of thinking sobriety will fix everything and highlights why manipulation, dishonesty, and emotional neglect must be addressed—whether or not the substance is involved.
Through personal insights, practical exercises, and reflection prompts, Paige encourages listeners to reclaim their power by focusing on their values and setting boundaries that align with who they are. Sobriety isn’t the finish line—behavioral change, accountability, and emotional maturity are what really matter for a healthy relationship.
Tune in to learn how shifting from helper to leader and detaching from outcomes empowers you to build a life based on your values, rather than waiting for someone else to change.
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In this episode, we sit down with Abby Eckel, a powerful content creator who highlights some of the most pressing issues women face today—unequal partnerships, the mental load of motherhood, how addiction and mental health disorders give context - not excuses - she gives her opinion on whether you can train someone to change, and discusses the complexities of navigating relationships in a patriarchal society.
Together, we dive into what it means to have a truly equal partnership, why men often perceive equality as oppression, and how societal conditioning plays a role in perpetuating these dynamics. Abby shares her thoughts on weaponized incompetence, the undervaluing of women’s work, and the emotional toll placed on partners in relationships with addiction and mental health struggles.
We also explore the challenges women face when trying to enact change in their relationships, how to balance compassion with accountability, and what minimum standards of care every partnership should strive for. Abby offers candid insights on where the ‘good guys’ are, whether partners can realistically change, and how to manage frustration with people who refuse to act on their issues.
This is a thought-provoking conversation for anyone who has felt the weight of unequal expectations or struggled to communicate their needs in relationships. Join us for a deep dive into the realities of modern partnerships and what we can do to foster change.
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In this episode of Paige’s Perspective, we dive into some of the most impactful books that have shaped my journey through life’s toughest moments. Instead of focusing solely on addiction or codependency, I recommend books that emphasize personal growth, shifting perspectives, and stepping out of comfort zones. I walk you through key takeaways from works by Lundy Bancroft, Eckhart Tolle, Wayne Dyer, David Goggins, and many others. These books are designed to push boundaries, encourage self-awareness, and challenge limiting beliefs. They remind us that life isn’t about avoiding struggles but growing through them.
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We explore essential lessons, like recognizing toxic patterns, taking ownership of your life, and understanding that action is the antidote to fear. I share how these books have helped me overcome challenges, reframe my mindset, and find strength. Listen in to learn practical strategies and discover why embracing discomfort is the key to transformation.
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Soberlink Device:
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In this special episode celebrating 250,000 downloads, I sit down with Paige for an honest, no-holds-barred Q&A. Together, we reflect on the journey through addiction, recovery, and what it took to rebuild our marriage from the ground up. Paige answers the questions people should be asking about recovery and what she has done to find success through a difficult journey —offering raw insights into the patience, struggles, and victories that come with loving someone through addiction.
From moments of doubt to the habits that made us stronger, we dive deep into what it really takes to survive and thrive on the other side of addiction. Whether you're navigating recovery yourself or supporting someone who is, this conversation is packed with valuable lessons, practical advice, and a glimpse into what’s kept us going through it all.
Thank you for being part of this incredible journey—you are the sole reason we are here and we cannot thank you enough for listening along.
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In this episode, Paige explores the difference between anger and aggression, helping listeners understand how to express anger without letting it control them. She acknowledges that anger is a natural response to betrayal, harm, or crossed boundaries, but warns that reacting aggressively—yelling or lashing out—often shifts the focus away from the real issue and gives others an excuse to dismiss your needs.
Paige discusses how aggression can leave us feeling disconnected from our authentic selves, trapping us in guilt and shame. Instead of trying to change others with anger, she emphasizes the importance of using anger constructively: setting boundaries, communicating assertively, and taking intentional action to protect yourself. Standing up for yourself isn’t about forcing others to see your point of view; it’s about honoring your own needs, values, and worth, even if others refuse to listen.
She encourages listeners to pause before reacting, use “I” statements to stay in control of their emotions, and recognize that true power lies in how they respond—not in mirroring the chaos of addiction or manipulation. Paige reminds everyone that anger, when managed well, can become a powerful force for growth and change.
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Online Course:
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Use code WHEELIES75 for 75% off the entire course!
Soberlink Device:
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This episode tackles the real issue behind many struggling relationships—unequal partnership. It’s not just about addiction or bad behaviors, but the mental toll of a one-sided relationship. We explore the emotional impact of carrying the mental load—chronic stress, burnout, resentment—and highlight what true equal partnership looks like: shared responsibilities, open communication, mutual involvement in home life, and respect.
We also challenge the myth that women “picked” unequal partners—society has normalized these imbalances. If you’re in an unequal partnership, it’s time to demand more. You deserve equality, respect, and a partner who shares the load.
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Soberlink Device:
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In this episode , Paige dives deep into the power of anger—how it can be both justifiable and destructive depending on how we manage it. Paige shares personal experiences of waking up angry, snapping at her kids, and the realization that controlling her reactions is key to healthier relationships and self-growth. She explains the difference between justifiable anger—when we’re betrayed, manipulated, or taken advantage of—and unjustified anger, which often stems from unmet expectations, insecurities, or misplaced frustration.
Paige also discusses how emotional healing impacts our ability to regulate anger, especially during intense periods like PMS, and offers insights on how to pause, reflect, and choose better responses when anger arises. Whether you're in a relationship with an addict or struggling with unresolved feelings, this episode highlights the importance of understanding where you're anger is coming from.
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Use code WHEELIES75 for 75% off the entire course!
Soberlink Device:
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In this episode of Till the Wheels Fall Off, we explore the concept of “Gray Area Thinking”—a mindset that embraces nuance, complexity, and multiple truths in life. While we dive into the challenges of rigid, black-and-white thinking, we also recognize that in some instances, black-and-white thinking is necessary. We discuss when having clear, binary thinking can provide structure, safety, and clarity, particularly in situations involving boundaries, moral decisions, or safety concerns. However, we also highlight how adopting gray area thinking in other areas of life can improve decision-making, reduce anxiety, and lead to personal growth.
We’ll share real-life examples, discuss the balance between black-and-white and gray area thinking, and provide actionable tips for shifting your mindset to embrace life’s complexities when needed. Tune in to learn how to let go of rigid judgments, find peace in the gray, and understand when clear lines can still serve you.
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Online Course:
www.independentlystrong.com
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Soberlink Device:
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