Loving On Purpose

I am excited to be interviewing Jodi Schilling today.  She is a certified Life Coach who works with moms who are navigating raising children with neuro diversity.  A neuro divergent child is a child that is born with significant challenges in learning and in communicating their needs. 

She doesn't view being neuro divergent as being negative.  After all, we all struggle with learning and communicating.  These children were born with more severe neuro disabilities, jeopardizing their ability to learn at the same ability as many other children.

Jodi helps moms first grieve; then start transforming themselves from being a broken mom to one that is happy and confident.  She helps them feel confident enough to know when to assist and when to let their children exercise their own independence. 

Tune in to listen to her perspective on what your role as a mom is when children with neuro diversity become adults. 

Here is how you can follow or contact Jodi Schilling:
Website;
https://www.goodmomcoach.com/
Instagram;
https://www.instagram.com/goodmomcoach
Facebook;
https://www.facebook.com/goodmomcoach
The Good Mom Podcast with Jodi Schilling
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-good-mom-podcast/id1540467867
https://open.spotify.com/show/4yOL8IcK8ACraxtg1qPZ3h?si=s4PpRkVqTK2bTaZh9KNVwA

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I help moms navigate life with their adult children.  If you want to know more about me go to bonnielyman.com to book a consult with me, to sign up for my weekly email, to receive my free resource, Three Ways to Connect with Your Adult Children, and to read my blog posts.
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I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

This has been the most influential, amazing concept I have learned from being trained as a life coach.  I need to give credit where credit is due, to my mentor and instructor Brooke Castillo.  Responsible adults do not intentionally wake up in the morning with the intention to make someone feel bad.  When your adult children say things to that are unkind, do things that are hurtful, or seemingly ignore you, they are not intentionally wanting to cause you to have thoughts that cause you to feel hurt.  They are hurting; there is something in their life with which they are struggling.  We all struggle with something.  When you can embody this concept, you are on the threshold of learning how to love and have compassion for your adult children.  Tune in to learn how to be a kinder, compassionate person.

I ask you to please share this episode with anyone who is struggling in their relationship with their adult children who you feel might benefit from listening to this episode.

I help moms navigate life with their adult children.  If you want to know more about me go to bonnielyman.com to book a consult with me, sign up for my weekly email, receive my free resource on three ways to connect with your adult children, and read my blog posts

You can also follow me on Instagram @bonnielymancoaching.

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

If you or any one you know, goes through life with generally a poor attitude, you'll want to tune in to this is episode...  You can train your brain to look at situations, relationships, or even past events from a different perspective.  A perspective that serves you; that enables you to find peace in having a well lived life.  Practice.  You just need to know what to practice; the more you practice the easier it becomes to see the glass half full.


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I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

Do You feel you have to “walk on eggshells” when you’re around your adult children?  Do you worry if you don’t say and do the right thing, you’ll lose the relationship?  You can be YOU if you can figure who you want “you” to be and how does that person not only act but also WANTS to act when they are around their adult children.  Tune in to learn how to make this happen in your life.

I offer an 8 week 1:1 coaching program if you need help in applying this to your life.
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If you have a comment or question, I would love to hear from you.
Email:  [email protected]
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Book a consult call at bonnielyman.com
Sign up for my email list here

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

Why do some people see the glass half "full" while  others see it half "empty".  The ones that see it half full have different thoughts when they look at the glass of water than those who see it as half full.  In this episode you will find an amazing way to solve any problem.  It really is the magic sauce, sometimes referred to as the secret sauce. 

To contact me , email me at [email protected]
Go to my website bonnielyman.com to book a call or sign up for my email.
I'm on instagram at bonnielymancoaching.

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

Having a manual with lists of how loving, responsible adult children should treat their mothers belongs in the garbage.  If we have expectations of how people should operate we are setting ourselves up for disaster!  Tune in to find out how to have our needs met that are not being fulfilled by our children.

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

The natural man wants to default to judging another person for causing him to feel hurt.  Some of us know that other people don't have the power to make us feel hurt; our thoughts make us feel hurt.  Compassionate thoughts never cause us to feel hurt; they cause us to feel the most amazing of all emotions.....LOVE.  We have the power within us to default to feeling compassion rather than hurt.  Tune in to find what you can practice to find compassion for everyone in your life.  We all just want to feel peace with what's happening in our lives, the good and the messy.
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To find out more about my Loving On Purpose coaching program, follow me on Instagram,
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or go to my website       https://www.bonnielyman.com

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

Do find yourself more often than not focusing on the negative outcome of circumstances instead of being hopeful that everything is going to work out?  It's just your brain trying to protect you from future disappointment.  But what if you trained your brain to give some "air time" to it could all work out?  In this episode I give you some ways you can start reprogramming your brain to see a more positive perspective to what is happening in your life.

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

Do you have some painful feelings that keep surfacing in your life?  Are they getting in the way of living the life you want to live?  If you are having negative feelings that are surfacing often, or are very intense, or seem to turn up in certain situations, I teach you how to de-intensify those feelings.  Turning to alchol or drugs or donuts or even running is not the fix.  Too often we want to change our thoughts or perspective but first we need to just "be" with that annoying feeling for a while.  I tell you how.

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life

It is ten days before Christmas.  Are you feeling stressed, tired, frazzled?  Are you worried about all the details Christmas brings with it?  How about that crazy uncle with all his corny jokes that bores everyone to tears?  STOP.......take a deep breath, grab your favorite beverage and sit down and take a listen to the suggestions I give to have a merry Christmas.  What if I guaranteed you would have one of your best Christmases ever?  A simple assignment to your brain can make this Christmas full of peace and love.  I would love to know if you gave it a try.

I am no longer offering my 8-week coaching program, but I remain fully committed to supporting parents of adult children. If you have questions or need guidance, you’re welcome to reach out to me directly at [email protected].

I would be honored to help you find greater confidence and happiness in your life